To wander or not to wander? (SEX is the question)

[WordSlinger]

I'm a 27 yo mwm, living in michigan. I am trying to decide how devoted to remain to my wife. Our sex life is all but non-existent, which is to say about once a month, when she comes home drunk. She says it keeps her from worrying about how she looks, but i think she gets horny looking at all the sexy men and women.
I believe that we are both bi-curious, though she is the only one who's acted on it at all. She's toyed with two different women, each on one occasion, many years ago. One was a mutual masturbation, the other, she gave oral to a girl giving oral to the boyfriend, and then it was over.
I want us both to explore that sexuality, but she seems (or so she says) to have lost interest. Any suggestions out there?

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[flawed_ethics]

Mayhaps...

Well, I'm hardly qualified to give you any advice. And most people looking at the Personals (present company not exculded) aren't exactly here for that reason (which leads to questions over the intent of your post, but we'll assume honesty for the sake of this reply).

If you want people who will offer advice on your situation, your thread may be better placed on the "How To..." Boards. Just a suggestion, however. Good luck!