To Squirt or Not?

[GregThickDix]

Hi, I am interested in figuring out why some women don't squirt or get really wet. My wife of almost 30 years did not get as wet as she does now for almost 20 years of marriage. Now, the sheets get really wet. My question is why? Don't get me wrong. I love it and think it is such a turn on because she is physically so much more into it.

Did I become a better lover, figuring out what buttons to push?
Did she start really enjoying sex more and let herself squirt more?

I have to admit, that when I incorporated anal stimulation, the flood gates opened up.
I would love to hear other experiences with this and what the females have to say.

Have you experienced this more, or less? Why
Have you still not experienced it. Age? your feeling of sex. Insecurities? Just trying to figure it out.

I absolutely love getting my wife soaking wet, and feeling that fluid ooze out from her as I finger her. She is so turned on that fucking also becomes so much more enjoyable.

Lets here what you all have to say. Thanks

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

Sounds great!

 

[live4thebj]

First of all there is a huge difference between a woman being really wet and squirting. What you see in porn movies when there is squirting is 100% accurate. I didn’t go on a second date with a woman because she squirted so much my sheets were soaked and it is like turning on a faucet. Not a turn on and so wouldn’t go down on her because I don’t need that in my mouth.

Now what changes a woman’s horny levels is to me like a dimming light-switch. It can be very low one day and very high the next. What does it? Well many things. Drinking and coming home drunk. Kissing her neck. Eating her out and doing it just right. Playing with her asshole. And the list goes on.

I been with many woman. Some woman are just horny all the time. One woman got off her psyche meds and no exaggeration panties were always soaked by the end of the day. She was a lot of fun. The point is what does it? Who knows. A woman’s sexual drive also changes. Sometimes no matter what you or they do it just doesn’t turn them on.

Enjoy it while it lasts. Don’t question it.

 

[Scotchlander]

First of all there is a huge difference between a woman being really wet and squirting. What you see in porn movies when there is squirting is 100% accurate. I didn’t go on a second date with a woman because she squirted so much my sheets were soaked and it is like turning on a faucet. Not a turn on and so wouldn’t go down on her because I don’t need that in my mouth.

Now what changes a woman’s horny levels is to me like a dimming light-switch. It can be very low one day and very high the next. What does it? Well many things. Drinking and coming home drunk. Kissing her neck. Eating her out and doing it just right. Playing with her asshole. And the list goes on.

I been with many woman. Some woman are just horny all the time. One woman got off her psyche meds and no exaggeration panties were always soaked by the end of the day. She was a lot of fun. The point is what does it? Who knows. A woman’s sexual drive also changes. Sometimes no matter what you or they do it just doesn’t turn them on.

Enjoy it while it lasts. Don’t question it.

Such a shame that squirting does nothing for you, as it’s such a turn on for many guys, including myself. It’s also a compliment to yourself that you were doing it right and she squirtEd so good.

Two previous gf’s were big squirters and I loved it. One female squirted over ten times and myself and the bed were drenched.

 

[curiouschattycouple]

Squirting is not part of orgasming, so it does nothing for my wife.

 

[Uncut1969]

Squirting is not part of orgasming, so it does nothing for my wife.

I would beg to differ I had a girlfriend that squirted and she did on orgasm it was sexy and addictive wanted more and more!

 

[Scotchlander]

Squirting is not part of orgasming, so it does nothing for my wife.

With all due respect, are you sure you are doing it correctly?

Some females do fake orgasms. A squirt and you know she is for sure. That along with the screams of pleasure.

 

[live4thebj]

I was listening to a podcast and they spoke of this video of woman drinking some sort of blue dye and then having someone finger them till they squirted. They said the squirt was blue which confirms it is pee. No thank you!

 

[Wonderer67]

My wife is 66 and is a helluva squirter. It’s really more like gushing tho. It doesn’t squirt like in the pornos, but a lot of fluid gushes outta her in certain situations and positions.

She’s pretty orgasmic. She has clitoral orgasms, but her clit is very sensitive, and she usually has them with a vibrator that’s on her pubic bone, not on her clit.

She had vaginal orgasms thru intercourse and thrusting. She says those orgasms are quite different and a high degree of “feel good sensisitivty and contractions” in her vagina.

She has body orgasms often from skin touch and her body will get very sensitive which also leads to a lot of vaginal and leg and core contractions.

She also squirts. It’s all g spot oriented for her. I can finger her and pay attention to the anterior wall of her pussy and she will gush. Same w a gspot vibrator. Sometimes I can run her clit with my cock and she will squirt from that too.

Here’s her sprinkling me with holy water and few Sundays ago.

Squirting all over me

I was listening to a podcast and they spoke of this video of woman drinking some sort of blue dye and then having someone finger them till they squirted. They said the squirt was blue which confirms it is pee.

we also engage in pee play. I have tasted her pee. Her squirt is not pee and has virtually no taste.

There seems to be very little understanding of how or why this happens, but research seems to point towards a small gland called the skenes gland.

 

[haventdonethat]

My wife is 66 and is a helluva squirter. It’s really more like gushing tho. It doesn’t squirt like in the pornos, but a lot of fluid gushes outta her in certain situations and positions.

She’s pretty orgasmic. She has clitoral orgasms, but her clit is very sensitive, and she usually has them with a vibrator that’s on her pubic bone, not on her clit.

She had vaginal orgasms thru intercourse and thrusting. She says those orgasms are quite different and a high degree of “feel good sensisitivty and contractions” in her vagina.

She has body orgasms often from skin touch and her body will get very sensitive which also leads to a lot of vaginal and leg and core contractions.

She also squirts. It’s all g spot oriented for her. I can finger her and pay attention to the anterior wall of her pussy and she will gush. Same w a gspot vibrator. Sometimes I can run her clit with my cock and she will squirt from that too.

Here’s her sprinkling me with holy water and few Sundays ago.

Squirting all over me

we also engage in pee play. I have tasted her pee. Her squirt is not pee and has virtually no taste.

There seems to be very little understanding of how or why this happens, but research seems to point towards a small gland called the skenes gland.

Holy fuck! Are we with the same woman?? Except for my GF being 65, everything you describe is her to a T.

 

[curiouschattycouple]

With all due respect, are you sure you are doing it correctly?

Some females do fake orgasms. A squirt and you know she is for sure. That along with the screams of pleasure.

Yes, I can make her squirt, but it isn't simultaneous to her orgasm which will come later, and doesn't have an effect on her overall sexual arousal. I have been sleeping with her for 17 years and we are very open with each other, so I know.

 

[curiouschattycouple]

I would beg to differ I had a girlfriend that squirted and she did on orgasm it was sexy and addictive wanted more and more!

Likely different for different folks. Our experience is different, which isn't uncommon in sex. There are men too who can orgasm without cumming, or cum without orgasming.

 

[anniebaby10]

still not sure about the squirting thing. I cum a lot and cum really hard but never had it even when i was really wet. Maybe some girls have done it but never happened to me

 

[MrPersonManGuy]

still not sure about the squirting thing. I cum a lot and cum really hard but never had it even when i was really wet. Maybe some girls have done it but never happened to me

Every body is different. Some never can, and some only with a very knowing touch. I've been able to make about 4 out of 5 squirt, but it takes making them delirious and almost out of their mind.

 

[808guy]

I've tasted my own "squirt" and pee and there's definitely a difference. I wish I could squirt more

I’ve also tasted a woman who I got gushing when she’d orgasm and it was def not pee.

Love to try to make you gush for me.

 

[Scotchlander]

still not sure about the squirting thing. I cum a lot and cum really hard but never had it even when i was really wet. Maybe some girls have done it but never happened to me

You are normal, so do not worry.

Some squirt, some gush, but most just get really wet.

I have no preference as long as she orgasms good and enjoys.

 

[junonic]

I have not been able to squirt but have always wanted to experience it at least once!! Maybe one day lol

 

[eyeshavya2]

I have not been able to squirt but have always wanted to experience it at least once!! Maybe one day lol

Practice makes perfect

 

[Wonderer67]

I have not been able to squirt but have always wanted to experience it at least once!! Maybe one day lol

There’s a really good thread on the how to cafe where many people share their experiences learning, trying to squirt. It’s worth a read, IMO.

It’s 44 pages of stories and technique.

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/try-this-report-back.70892/

 

[HornyKatie1979]

I do, it just kinda started happening sometimes when I got to my 40s.

 

[Condor4]

I'm lucky to have a partner that does squirt, she's 52 and it's amazing to feel see and taste. It's not like in the pornos when it's like a hose pipe going off, she gets very very wet especially when being fingered I enjoy every time she does. I find it an extra turn.

 

[Wonderer67]

I do, it just kinda started happening sometimes when I got to my 40s.

My wife had it only happen once before she met me. We found the magic was reverse cowgirl. My penis stimulated her gspot just right and she will orgasm and squirt in like 20-30 seconds.

She is 66 and we first found it about 10-12 years ago. It does make a mess but we both love it.

She can go a number of times before she gets spent and can’t take it anymore.

 

[Condor4]

When my partner is really turned on and wet, I knell to the side of her and pull her legs back the Stert fingerings her at that angle it sets her off straight away

 

[Condor4]

I do, it just kinda started happening sometimes when I got to my 40s.

Does happen during intercource Or when masterbating, or both?

 

[HornyKatie1979]

Does happen during intercource Or when masterbating, or both?

Definitely when masturbating, haven't had intercourse with a man since I separated from my ex husband so not had the chance to test that.