To marry or not to marry?

[Ktownmale63]

I'm sure this question been asked before but would you marry a working prostitute or porn star?

 

[twister947]

I'm sure this question been asked before but would you marry a working prostitute or porn star?

I have no objection on moral grounds, but playing Russian roulette with STDs holds no attraction.

 

[KinkyGAGuy]

I would have to say no. Unless of course that you like the fact that she is getting paid to fuck others. I used to know a couple where she was a prostitute, he loved the fact that she fucked other guys, she was hot and a an awesome lay. I fucked her at their house in front of him twice, at my house half a dozen times.Then would watch him fuck her right after I did. She would give bliw jobs to strangers for 30 dollars, 40 to cum her mouth, and 75 for her to swallow. She would come home and kiss her husband with dried cum on her lips and face. Watched him lick her clean on many occassions, while she sucked my cock.

She started getting some high end clients, and unfortunately their relationship came to an end, not sure why, but have an idea that it played a part. He has never been the same since.

Oh and I did and would always wear a condom.

 

[SlutAddicted]

I'm sure this question been asked before but would you marry a working prostitute or porn star?

If we were in love and I respected her, yes I would marry her.

I don't see the prostitution or porn activity as a moral issue. And I have always believed a woman owns her sexuality. She doesn't owe it to me to be monogamous unless that is what we agree on, nor do I need her to be less sexually experienced than me to preserve my ego.

The point about respect would be key to loving her. And for me that comes down to her having control over her circumstances (as opposed to what she does with that control). Being sexually active does not in any way have to correspond with being a cum dump for jerks. Obviously both the porn and prostitution businesses have the potential to be exploitive or abusive but that need not be the case.

The better escorts don't take just any client and don't let their clients treat them like dirt. Some will say that their clients are far more respectful than most guys who try to pick up women in bars. Likewise the established porn stars have a comparatively professional work environment where care is taken to avoid STD's including regular testing of a fairly limited number of partners. Again not trying to be naive but established porn stars don't let just any guy off the street fuck them.

I have actually met several women in those occupations and not one of them was a dumb ass bimbo who let men do whatever they want.

 

[HoldYouDown]

Would I? No way. To each his own though, everyone is different.

 

[suckonsimon]

Kinky's answer is sizzling hot - Fab that you had those times man!

 

[screwher]

my wife...

Definitely an interesting question. When I was younger I would have immediately said "No Fuckin Way"!! I wouldn't even considered marrying a woman that had "too many" sex partners in her past leading up to me. I did marry (and still married to) the perfect woman in the department.

Then she dropped her panties for another man. My attitude totally changed.

If my wife confided in me now that she'd like to try prostituting or shoot a few adult videos with other men to fulfill any fantasies she may be having I would be totally on board now. She would have my full support and I'd help her with whatever she needed. I'd want her to share with me her experiences with her "Johns" and watch the end product of her pornos though.

 

[magicalmoments]

I'm sure this question been asked before but would you marry a working prostitute or porn star?

My current wife worked as a prostitute for a few months before I met her.

 

[Ktownmale63]

Great comments, any ladies care to share an opinion?

 

[policywank]

Great comments, any ladies care to share an opinion?

Well from my perspective being a prostitute or porn star would just be a job. Certainly different than most but I doubt it would be erotic. I don't think I would even want to be in a state of constant arousal. I am quite social and comfortable with my body and men's bodies and have no moral objections. So I could do the job. Whether I enjoyed it would come down to the people I am working with and the environment, compensation etc. - same as any job.

As a married woman I would worry about my husband's perspective. Men get worked about about the sexual act more so than the emotional connection or lack thereof. I certainly wouldn't want him getting jealous. But I also think turning it into a fetish for him wouldn't work for me - I would want to come home to his loving arms and a quite dinner not a drooling cuckold sex fiend (at least not every night).

My husband would need to be very confident and have a genuinely open perspective about polyamory - neither positive or negative but just acceptance that this is our way. I say polyamory broadly because I wouldn't want his acceptance of my job to be dependent upon a specific level of detachment from the men I fuck at work. Otherwise he would need that constant reinforcement that I not enjoy my work too much and I might feel guilty if I enjoyed some of my clients or co-workers (which I almost certainly would).

And I guess I would worry about the impact on my own sexual desire. Getting fucked all day for money in a relatively "sterile" environment might take the edge off of my own sex drive.

 

[SCcouple1990]

I would be fine with my wife being a former prostitute or porn star. It would be a turn on to know after a number of former partners, she was spending the rest of her life happily with me. However, I don't think I would be into her currently having that profession.

 

[Rigger287]

I'd love to have married a prostitute or porn star - so long as she continued doing it.

 

[Hans101]

Marry someone who is fundamentally broken and dysfunctional?

The question answers itself.

 

[magicalmoments]

Marry someone who is fundamentally broken and dysfunctional?

The question answers itself.

As with most generalisations the stereotype of a prostitute/porn star being a fundamentally broken and dysfunctional person is a fiction. It really only has any truth when related to drug addicts.

Most hookers I've met are normal people, just doing a job, getting on with life.

 

[londonbloke]

My current wife worked as a prostitute for a few months before I met her.

Was she still working when you met her?

 

[SlutAddicted]

Marry someone who is fundamentally broken and dysfunctional?

The question answers itself.

Yes she probably would realize that a man with such a narrow-minded attitude might be broken and dysfunctional so the question would answer itself in her decision to find someone more worthy of her love.

 

[simplegirl]

Can you imagine, ready to welcome your partner home, feeling romantic and amorous, horny, wanting some lovin'...and your SO comes home from fucking all day thinking "If I see one more cock/pussy, I'm gonna hurl".

You know, 'cause we've all had those days about work.

 

[policywank]

Can you imagine, ready to welcome your partner home, feeling romantic and amorous, horny, wanting some lovin'...and your SO comes home from fucking all day thinking "If I see one more cock/pussy, I'm gonna hurl".

You know, 'cause we've all had those days about work.

That would certainly be a unique challenge. But I don't know many people in any occupation who are particularly amorous right after a long hard day. And being a prostitute or porn star would likely provide greater flexibility than a lot of jobs do to carve out some time for your honey.

 

[Ktownmale63]

Amazing answers most are intelligent and thought out. I wonder if male porn stars or prostitute are seen differently then those of females. As a male i view them the same but find i hold them in a different reguard, which is not fair or correct. Its just a job but seems most people look down on females for doing it and are ok at the least with males doing it.

 

[magicalmoments]

Was she still working when you met her?

No, but it would not have channged a thing if she had been.

 

[SlutAddicted]

Amazing answers most are intelligent and thought out. I wonder if male porn stars or prostitute are seen differently then those of females. As a male i view them the same but find i hold them in a different reguard, which is not fair or correct. Its just a job but seems most people look down on females for doing it and are ok at the least with males doing it.

That is interesting. I tend to see the opposite. Neither is morally superior. But the women are the main attraction and the primary money earner in that scene. Aside from any moral perspective they have a practical and lucrative reason to be there. Meanwhile the guys are just props or Johns. Aside from a few high profile actors they might as well be her butler. The whole premise that he is somehow having his way with her or rocking her world is comically, embarrassingly delusional. When it comes to porn, the only reason the guys aren't working at McDonalds is because they need to showcase the real start by having someone fuck her on camera.

 

[stormalong]

If I were in love with a lady that had sold her body, I would consider marrying her. It is about the relationship not her job or past job. I would not want her to continue full time in that line of work but mostly because of the dangers in it. However. is she wanted to work occasionally, I could actually enjoy that. I should qualify that I would not want her working the streets but a good escort service might be OK