To leave or not...

[erosman]

isn't the question, perhaps.

Rather, do you have the courage to change? Maybe change is a new address, a new lover, a new job, or...maybe it's just a new paradigm - finding a new perspective to a familiar disappointment. Sometimes change is a tornado that uproots us, but other times it is a quiet resolve to make the most palatable lemonade ever. Fear is the common enemy, and friends are the lifeline.

I salute your courage today, whether that means rolling out of town in your covered wagon, looking for that golden freedom...or, staying home to work in the family business, and cultivating the time honored traditions. I have done both...they both can take courage. Don't sell yourself short either way. Be


now, I got to get back to my time machine...and that dream.

 

[juicylips]

Good thread, bro.


I am daily trying to find a new perspective. Sometimes I do, other days, it is a toss up.


Kisses,
JL

 

[lovetoread]

Lets see...

I left the man who I had been with since I was 17.

I met a man online,and at an adult site no less.

I moved all the way from SC to NJ to live with this fella.

I think that if its not courage,then its just blind luck that it has worked out for me.

 

[erosman]

Each moment requires a its own perspective...no less each day. Having the courage to look for it is half the battle. It's always good to see you, JL

And ltr, I'd say it's courage , although the luck we find - whether blind or not - is often in the sawdust of our efforts. I think your story is proof of that. I salute your courage .


damn, I got to get some work done...the new paradigm won't pay my bills.

 

[riff]

I am going through this right now with my current employer. Guess what I will tell my therapist I want to talk about on Wednesday?

I am in a piss poor mood right now. Not enough sleep is a contributing factor. Lunch time is screaming POWERNAP.

 

[Vivacia]

Lets see...

I left the man who I had been with since I was 17.

I met a man online,and at an adult site no less.

I moved all the way from SC to NJ to live with this fella.

I think that if its not courage,then its just blind luck that it has worked out for me.

I know what you mean..

I did something similar, though I had only been married a yr and I only moved 200miles or so north...

 

[Kitte]

Lets see...

I left the man who I had been with since I was 17.

I met a man online,and at an adult site no less.

I moved all the way from SC to NJ to live with this fella.

I think that if its not courage,then its just blind luck that it has worked out for me.

Im in process of leaving my hubby after 7 years together... Ive met someone yes online and....heres the shocker.. Im moving 10,000 (yes thats ten thousand) miles to be with him, lets hope I have some of your dumb luck.

 

[lovetoread]

As long as there is hope,you will have luck. I believe that with all of my heart.


See,I can have deep thoughts,a shocker huh?