to group or not to group

[jenny2000]

I wonder how many people have been involved in a group situation. My first was with a friend and her husband. I was resistant to the idea at first because i feared the impact on our friendship and not being noble in the least, there marriage.

Maggie was such a beautiful woman that it was not hard to say yes. Once we were engaged it was interesting and exciting to be part of this sexual adventure. Maggie was, at least for that night, an orgasm machine. It did not take long for all of us to loose ourselves in the moment. I must admit my focus was on Maggie. I am bi but deep in my soul i prefer women and Maggie was just gorgeous. I have to admit that Rogers cock did great work on me, but what was interesting and exciting was when Roger was fucking me he seemed almost angry. I found that exciting. He was behind me and i was orally engaged with Maggie. I think the site of his wife being pleased by another women threatened him in some way and i am sure he was taking that frustration on me. He kept saying things like, "lick her clit, lick that pussy, make her cum!" It was the tone more than the words that indicated his anger.

Maggie and Roger divorced within a year and needless to say our friendship was nearly distroyed. I wonder if others have had similar experiences.

 

[sandiego_gordo]

hmmmmmm

Hi Jenny,

never had an experience like that but, ignoring the impact on your friendship, it sounds like it would make a great story. Did you and Maggie remain friends...and has your relationship been continued at all past that one event? Inquiring minds want to know all

Well, best of luck, gordo

 

[InLove]

I will admit Ive had fantasies about threesomes.... male~ male~female. And Ive talked about it with my lover, only during sex, which tends to livin up the love session. And him talking about female~female~ male
But in all honestly, I can't see how that could help a relationship. We are both jealous individuals and I think I would always wonder if he was enjoying the other women more than me and vice a versa. I could never be with my lover and someone I already knew. That man or women would have to be a stranger.
I still have those fantasies and they really turn me on, but I would think our relationship would suffer

 

[LukkyKnight]

attention

The one event with two couples in my past left me curious, but frankly dubious. It was highly charged, sensual, and erotic, but my partner at the time then wanted to go for more privacy so before there was much real group action we went our separate ways. Looking back, it set up a wonderful evening, it was fun and safe, yet I am not at all sure that if we'd gone forward as a foursome that somebody wouldn't have felt left out or something. Of course, I'm not sure that somebody would have, either, hence the curiosity... we had all known each other a long while, and it had no social repercussions, so who knows?

I enjoy one-on-one so much that I've not sought the answer.

 

[jenny2000]

To answer the question posed. Yes Maggie and i remained friends and i think after some work we are actually better friends. For a while after the divorce we became lovers. Her need to hide that fact eventually ended the relationship on that level. Roger, on the other hand let his jealousy interfear with any possible friendship.

 

[schatz]

Can't say that I have engaged in a group yet but it is something my wife and I discuss from time to time. The are a couple of swinger clubs nearby but I always think of the line "Don't put that in your mouth:you don't know where it's been.".As far as a group with friends, I wonder about the repercussions on the frienship. So maybe someday but not just yet.

 

[Elizabeth]

I have been in a threesome, m/m/f. It was one of the greatest, most erotic sexual experiences I have ever had. It does have a downside, though. There is so much room for jealousy, insecurity and the actual threat of it breaking up a relationship. The thought of another threesome (or moresome) is very enticing.

 

[Guest]

3some

I too hav been in a m/f/m relation before with my best male friend and my girlfriend at the time. It was new to us males, she had done this before and coached us! It was a wonderful experience and nothing was harmed by it. In fact they had a little side action which did not bother me either. Needless to say she is out of my life and he is still a good friend. I would love to do this one more time for old time sake. I'd be happy to just watch as well!

 

[Babydoll5272]

I have been there

My first gf and I got real drunk came home woke up my hubby and decided to get involved in a game of strip poker! I knew when I first came out to my husband of my Bi side that he wanted to be involved at some point in a threesome! And I guess part of me felt as though well he was letting me have my cake and eat it to I should let him too! The problem was I did not throughly think things through!

We wound up having a heated threesome that night and I walked away almost losing my friendship because her BF got real mad! I felt jeolous because he compared me to her! I would reconsider it again now that I have worked out my issues!

My only advice would be if all people are on the same way length that it is to be night of passion and nothing more then go for it! But if there is even a slightest hesitation wait until you are sure!


DOLL

 

[SlyFox]

Threesomes & Moresomes

My wife and I agreed, almost from our very first date, that we both wanted more that one sexual "playmate" in our lives. So we set up a few rules that were meant to alleviate any potential hurt to anyone ... either of us, our playmate OR their S.O. if they had one. That meant that we didn't "play" with others (individually or together) who was in a serious relationship with someone else unless that person also participated or at least knew and approved or what was going on.

As a result we have had many, many such experiences over the 20 + years of our relationship- which is as strong, satisfying and FUN as it was when we first began going together. We've had a couple of "bummers" of course, but most of them have been VERY satisfying, with NO lasting asverse repercussions.

We prefer MMF 3somes because I am somewhat more "bi" than my wife - although once she gets into the action she doesn't care what sex the other person(s) is/are.

If anyone is interested in the details and/or reading some of my writings on this subject, just drop me an e-mail and I'll be happy to share with you.

SlyFox

 

[Babydoll5272]

Boundries

That is great you talked and were open and agreed and set boundries and rules! That is what we have done should the reason arises again where we are involved in another threesome or group sex! We know the boundries and rules and are secure with them and are relationship!

DOLL

 

[tonytuna1957]

Yes to groups

m/m/f....f/f/m/m.....f/f/m...m/m/m/m/f.....m/m/m/f/f/....All good oh I almost forgot.........f/f/f/m

Group sex is how and what you make of it.......if you alway want to be the center of attention....it may not be the place to be...I think one of the best groups I was in.........I was the last to cum
I guess mainly its the voyeurism in me.


The Tunamaster

 

[Eroticus]

Closest I came was in college. My best friend and I were on a double date with girls who didn't know each other, but who we had individually fucked. We ended up in a motel room on twin double beds in indivdual heavy make out sessions. The girl I was with kept fending me off every time I tried to fuck her saying we can't do it with someone else in the room. Fortunately my friends girl didn't have the same hang-up and before long they were knocking the headboard against the wall. After we finshed fucking the two girls, my friend and I went into the bathroom and agreed to try a switch, hoping it might lead to an orgy. It was dark in the room when I slipped into the other bed and slid up behind the other girl. She pulled my hands to her tits as I slid my hard cock against her ass. She opened her legs and guided me into her pussy. I was slamming her hard when all the sudden I heard screams coming from the other bed. Apparently my date had discovered the ruse and was not happy. She went and locked herself in the bathroom. Strangely, my friend's date let me finish fucking her but refused to participate in a threesome despite my friend's efforts to shove his cock in her mouth. Go figure.

 

[Eroticus]

Closest I came was in college. My best friend and I were on a double date with girls who didn't know each other, but who we had individually fucked. We ended up in a motel room on twin double beds in indivdual heavy make out sessions. The girl I was with kept fending me off every time I tried to fuck her saying we can't do it with someone else in the room. Fortunately my friends girl didn't have the same hang-up and before long they were knocking the headboard against the wall. After we finshed fucking the two girls, my friend and I went into the bathroom and agreed to try a switch, hoping it might lead to an orgy. It was dark in the room when I slipped into the other bed and slid up behind the other girl. She pulled my hands to her tits as I slid my hard cock against her ass. She opened her legs and guided me into her pussy. I was slamming her hard when all the sudden I heard screams coming from the other bed. Apparently my date had discovered the ruse and was not happy. She went and locked herself in the bathroom. Strangely, my friend's date let me finish fucking her but refused to participate in a threesome despite my friend's efforts to shove his cock in her mouth. Go figure.

 

[SilverVeil]

I let an ex-boyfriend talk me into putting a pic of my boobs in a " swinger mag " when I lived in TX. We got a lot of responses to the ad. We arranged to meet one couple and on the day of the meeting ... HE backed out. Well, I was curious and so I went on and met the people. They turned out to be very nice and wonderful.

We set some guidelines down for the physical fun, and as long as everyone followed them it was fine. I had more contact with the man than the woman. She and I kissed and she played with my breasts while he played with my pussy, but the actual penetration was between them. I was more a plaything than a play mate I suppose. But I loved every minute of the times I was with them. I wonder where they are now and how they are. We lost contact and I lost 2 very good friends.

I would say to be very careful any time you plan something like this. Emotions people are not aware of can come to surface and do some psyche damage if everyone is not careful. While a person may not think they would be jealous or insecure about a 3 or more some, hidden feelings can come to light and surprise you.

 

[Italian_4_U]

I had a m/m/f (while hubby watched)

This evening that I had was the most incredible/erotic sexual event. I think the most erotic thing was having the husband watch. The biggest point is knowing the "rules" with no strings attatched. I have always had fantasies about threesomes and more and now that I have expierienced it....I need more. It is so sexually rewarding to participate in a threesome. So if there are any other couples in the Maryland area that need a 27 year old single male that will help out in fullfilling their threesomes or more drop me an e-mail.

t_j_tiger@yahoo.com

 

[SlyFox]

Re: I had a m/m/f (while hubby watched)

This evening that I had was the most incredible/erotic sexual event. I think the most erotic thing was having the husband watch. The biggest point is knowing the "rules" with no strings attatched. I have always had fantasies about threesomes and more and now that I have expierienced it....I need more. It is so sexually rewarding to participate in a threesome. So if there are any other couples in the Maryland area that need a 27 year old single male that will help out in fullfilling their threesomes or more drop me an e-mail.

Let me get this straight... You had a "threesome" but the husband only watched ??? IMHO that's not a 3some - it's a twosome with a voyeur present. That's not bad mind you, but until you have experienced a threesome where everybody does everything with everybody else you've yet to experience what a mind and nut blowing blast a threesome can be. To bad you're so far away... My lovely wife and I would love to give you that treat!!!

SlyFox

 

[Italian_4_U]

Three or more

I hear you on that Sly....I am open for that type of expierience. I think also that the way that these types of expieriences work best is when each participant is confident enough to know that what is about to happen is all about the pleasure and nothing else. Once that is understood......Heaven help me beacuse it will be "ALL GOOD"

Just thinking abouth this gets my mind racing.....

 

[SlyFox]

Re: Three or more

I hear you on that Sly....I am open for that type of expierience. I think also that the way that these types of expieriences work best is when each participant is confident enough to know that what is about to happen is all about the pleasure and nothing else. Once that is understood......Heaven help me beacuse it will be "ALL GOOD"

Just thinking abouth this gets my mind racing.....

Interested in hearing a story or two on the subject???

SlyFox

 

[Italian_4_U]

Three or more

Absolutely.....I would thoroughly enjoy hearing about your adventures (all of them) Sly...

 

[SlyFox]

Re: Three or more

Absolutely.....I would thoroughly enjoy hearing about your adventures (all of them) Sly...

Ok, drop me an e-mail and I'll see what I can cum up with:

slyfox@attbi.com (or go to my profile and send from there)

SlyFox

 

[Curtis71]

I have had a few 3 and moresomes, m/m/f, m/f/f, and variations up to 6 participants. They were, almost without exception, harmless, exciting and erotic. I am still close friends with all but one of the involved and in fact am still lovers with 3 of the women who were there at different (and the same) times. I have not done this for some time now though and don't actively seek it but I would certainly be up for it again!