djspinner20999
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hot bi girl has offered to take my wife or a 3some how can i get here to go there
to get a wife to explore her bi side
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bisexplicit
but i'm a lesbian
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You can't get your wife to do anything. If shes interested, perhaps she might enjoy it - however there are a lot of potential problems that could go along with this experience as well.
Meilien
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Does she even HAVE a bi side? Not everyone does, despite the fact that it's in vogue right now to say you do. I'd venture to guess a good portion of them aren't & just saying they are because it's "cool" right now.
Have you asked her?
Have you asked her?
silverwhisper
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Eilan
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This sounds like something YOU want. However, SHE has to want it. If you haven't talked to her about it, or she hasn't expressed interest in being with another woman, then you're probably SOL.
Furthermore, as some of the ladies have already mentioned, you can't "get," "make," or "convince" your wife to do something.
Furthermore, as some of the ladies have already mentioned, you can't "get," "make," or "convince" your wife to do something.
M's girl
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Eilan said:
Right on. You can ask her, like I said before but somehow I get the feeling that is not even a good idea if you mention you think you will need to convince her. Sounds to me like you already KNOW she won't go for it. If my BF would know that and suggest it anyway? I would think (and tell him!) he was being a selfish bastard.
Besides.... this might sound like a good idea to you. What if she would suggest to introduce another man in your sexlife for a menage a trois? Same difference. Would you go for that?
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Good point.M's girl said:
There's nothing wrong with fantasizing about your SO and another person (male OR female). Hell, there's nothing wrong with acting on the fantasy. However, it has to be something that BOTH of you want to do, and even then, you can't necessarily predict how either of you will react when it actually happens.
We obviously don't enough about your relationship with your wife based on this post, but I'm guessing that she doesn't know you posted this or has already indicated that she's not interested in a threesome/bi encounter. If you push your wife into doing something that she feels like she HAS to do to make YOU happy, SHE probably won't be happy.
