To Fap or not To Fap

[lovetoread]

Would you rather fap or have sex?

What if the sex wasnt what you watch when fapping and left you without an erection?

Getting off offline: when porn gets in the way of a real-world relationship

Schmidinger is one of thousands of men, and some women, who report that their compulsive use of internet pornography is negatively affecting their real-world relationships, whether through erectile dysfunction, decreased sensation, or feelings of isolation and shame. Many believe that pornography is addictive, and that the endless stream of on-demand internet erotica catering to every imaginable fetish has hijacked their brain’s reward system. Compulsive porn use is often paired with a tight-grip masturbation technique that can’t be replicated by a human orifice. The result? Real-life sexual experiences are no longer stimulating enough.

 

[NOIRTRASH]

Youre speaking of appetite. And speaking for me I'd likely prefer virtual-visual YOU to many IRL women, because your visual appeal is plenty by itself.

 

[RoryN]

Compulsive porn use is often paired with a tight-grip masturbation technique that can’t be replicated by a human orifice. The result? Real-life sexual experiences are no longer stimulating enough.

Myopic, to the point of invalidating the whole (hole?) article.

 

[pointless]

well, since i've never masturbated before i really can't say.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

Would you rather fap or have sex?

http://geeksout.org/sites/default/files/blog-images/3481976-40237-why-not-both-gif-69vc.gif

What if the sex wasnt what you watch when fapping and left you without an erection?

Getting off offline: when porn gets in the way of a real-world relationship

It would be one thing if the end result of an orgasm was always at the same level every time you got your nut, but with either fapping or fucking, it's a different intensity of fireworks at climax. So, to me, it's unfair to gauge this sort of thing in absolutes. It's always a state of mind in flux. I think it has to do with how you are with your own sexuality and what sex, particularly the pleasure derived from it and the roads you go down to get it, personally means to you in your life.

I love sex and (at this stage of life) am both a social and private person at my own pace, so...I don't have any problems in separating the bang from my me time funsies with assorted smut and the intimate rush from getting the skin-to-skin huckle-buckle beat on with Ooomph.

 

[yossi]

I think porn (especially commercial) being someone's only frame of reference for sex is sad and definitely would adversely affect a person's sex life. But I feel in general people are going to have a hard time identifying with other people, because of way the internet is shaping interactions. I definitely see a trend of objectification and distant, selfish sex rising. Like masturbating, but there just happens to be another person the room.

 

[spacekowboy]

Pfffft. Who needs other people?

 

[neci]

i can only get myself off to a certain point. once my body seizes up, i need someone else to push me off multiple edges.

 

[pink]

That's why I dont masturbate often, it just don't seem as fulfilling. I would much rather have sex.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[spacekowboy]

I'll remember that if/when the next time someone is actually willing to allow me access to their fun zone.

 

[butters]

Me; at least one other.

Making love with yourself can be a wonderful experience, better than poor sex with someone else certainly, but....really, for me much of the reward is in someone else's experience and in how someone else makes me feel.

pretty much this

 

[lovetoread]

well, since i've never masturbated before i really can't say.

me neither

 

[patient1]

This sounds so mutually exclusive. It's the digital binary age, saturating our thinking, I guess.

 

[Fata Morgana]

Me; at least one other.

Making love with yourself can be a wonderful experience, better than poor sex with someone else certainly, but....really, for me much of the reward is in someone else's experience and in how someone else makes me feel.

This is spot on, lass.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[spacekowboy]

Is there not a little queue here?

It's very wee.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Fata Morgana]

Well.....how long do you need it to be?

He's not downplaying his cock size again is he?

 

[spacekowboy]

Well.....how long do you need it to be?

Let me rephrase, it's very wee, and the planet is very big.

 

[Fata Morgana]

Let me rephrase, it's very wee, and the planet is very big.

You want your cock to rule the planet? Arrogant bastard.

 

[Wings]

Both. I choose both. But then again I don't exactly use a tight grip when I masturbate. Unless you mean on my nipples.

 

[spacekowboy]

You want your cock to rule the planet? Arrogant bastard.

Just the western hemisphere will be sufficient. I'm not a megalomaniac.

 

[Fata Morgana]

Both. I choose both. But then again I don't exactly use a tight grip when I masturbate. Unless you mean on my nipples.

Don't you? I pull my clit like I'm bell ringing.

 

[lovetoread]

If you talk about your penis in my thread, I must see proof of said penis.

Thanks in advance,
LTR