TO BE OR NOT TO BE....sexy any more

[secrecy72]

Ok first a background check. My wife is in her thirtys(and thats all I will say about that). We have two kids and have been married for over seven years. The point to this question is: How do you make a woman know she still looks fantastic?

My wife thinks she is fat and cant be sexy because she is a Mom now. My wife can still put half the women on the beach to shame in a bikini. And even after two kids, I drool at the sight of her. When we first met, she would wear a thong bikini(and look absolutly hot in it), but now she will only wear a one piece. I could tell here she looks good till I am blue in the face. And YES I do show my appreiciation for her body a lot. So there is no lack of attention. But she just refuses to take my words as truth. I dont even get to see her skimpy underware anymore. Just cotton panties(which looks great too,dont get me wrong) and t shirts. Do women turn into Moms? As sick as this may sound, why cant Moms be sexy too?

 

[llee69]

Maybe its time to have her go out with some girly friends? You know out to a club for some music and dancing. Someplace where other guys can hit on her, telling her all the things you say, but coming from a differant mouth.

Of course this means a lot of trust too on you part. I prefer it when whoever I am dating goes out with their friends. I hope they are doing the same flirting I am!

Maybe if this is not possible then... Take her out shopping somehwere where she can get a hot new outfit (call ahead to make sure a sales person will chat her up and tell her how hot she looks). Then go out for a special night where she can show off her now outfit. A symphanie(oops on spelling) or a ballet, a play dancing, somthing other than a movie! Dinner before/after in a nice restaurant too.

Hell if she is like my favorite girlfriend then new skin tight leather pants, midcut top, matching boots, and a day long poker run with a bunch of other bikers. Maybe I love the lng shower after that involves a LOT of conditioner (for her hair, really....)