To all women who Xander ripped off...

[TBrady]

Please, don't be afraid to come forward, let this thread be the one for you to get it off your chest!

You don't have to be ashamed of having him pull his scam on you, he seems to be very good at it, but maybe if enough of you come forward, you can help stop this from happening anymore!

Together, we can put a stop to this! time for all you women to band together and drive this freeloading scamming bum back to Demark where he came from.

He is preying on vulnerable women on the internet and trying to charm them into believing that he actually loves them all the while he is taking money from them, hard earned money and then he gives them false promises and hope while he moves on to his next victim.

But he can be stopped! and all it takes is warning other potential victims before he has a chance to pounce on them, please, put a stop to this nonsense now!

Unite and be heard sisters!

 

[KID ROCK1]

Well Said TBrady...

~i~

 

[LAVA GODDESSS]

Oh no...you did not.

I have had his venom pointed towards me, but back off. Xander makes his own decisions, and as much as sometimes I don't agree...I do NOT think he is scamming anyone. This is heartless...he is a sweet guy, with some misunderstandings. Back the Fuck off. I for one can say this, because I understand what some are going through, but this is CRUEL.

Please, delete your post. This is just mean.

 

[SexyThang]

No, it's not cruel.

He has being travelling all over the U.S., mooching off whoever will let him. First he was gonna marry Angelique, then she dumped him. Then he was madly in love with Angel and writing love poems and travelling to meet her. Then she dumped him. Between that, he was falling in love every other week.

Now, he picks the one person with the least amount of self esteem, who already has a boyfriend and enough mental problems that the last thing she needs is con man like him.

How long before he dumps her for the next free bed and meal?

I don't know about you guys, but is this REALLY acceptable behaviour, to take and take and take from people, rely on their kindness, their money, their homes, their food?

If you agree with that then it makes your moral fibre not much better than his.

 

[ShyGuy68]

SexyThang honestly how dare you talk about acceptable behaviour, with the "witch hunt" you have started on the BB?? Is that acceptable?? No it's not!! Which it probably why a big part of the regulars that come to the board have put both you and kid rock on their ignore list! And I honestly have to admit that I do understand them!

So honestly, quit it while you can, or everybody will turn against you! Well that's probably to late anyway, since it looks like that have happened already!

 

[SexyThang]

Well damn.

Now for sure I won't be able to sleep tonite.

Hmph

 

[Guest]

Then is it any more acceptible when

you take money and pretend that you care for them so the money keeps on rolling? Quite honestly, the people in here were questionable morals to begin with but now condoning what Xander is doing makes me feel that all of you deserve each other all the more. This is real life, with real people that you all are messing with. THAT, my friends is what's cruel and the sooner you stop all of this lovey dovey crap and see reality for what it is, the better off you'll be.

 

[MoronAlert]

You two are such fucking idiots

No, it's not cruel.

He has being travelling all over the U.S., mooching off whoever will let him. First he was gonna marry Angelique, then she dumped him. Then he was madly in love with Angel and writing love poems and travelling to meet her. Then she dumped him. Between that, he was falling in love every other week.

Now, he picks the one person with the least amount of self esteem, who already has a boyfriend and enough mental problems that the last thing she needs is con man like him.

How long before he dumps her for the next free bed and meal?

I don't know about you guys, but is this REALLY acceptable behaviour, to take and take and take from people, rely on their kindness, their money, their homes, their food?

If you agree with that then it makes your moral fibre not much better than his.

SkankyThang - You are, as usual, making no sense. On one hand you say that Xander is picking up chicks, using for their money, then ditching them. On the other hand, you say that every girl he dates ditches HIM. Do you have ONE instance of him ditching anyone, or are you talking out of your ass as usual?

Speaking of moral fiber, you're one to talk, Spammer. Using other peoples sites and other peoples problems to promote your own spam-filled crappy site is not exactly the height of morality. How about you and KR1 go spam somewhere else. You're a bigger thief than Xander any day of the week.

I can't believe that you two are spending so much time on two people you don't even know. What total nerds.

 

[OUSIDER]

Hey shittythang when didya start modelling

 

[GuyJD]

Please, don't be afraid to come forward, let this thread be the one for you to get it off your chest!

But he can be stopped! and all it takes is warning other potential victims before he has a chance to pounce on them, please, put a stop to this nonsense now!

Unite and be heard sisters!

Hmmmm.....well, I can remember that when I was in law enforcement, what has been allegated constitute EMBEZZLEMENT and Xander can, and should, be arrested and/or sued by each of the individuals who "dumped" him. I mean please ladies, is a good fuck or an orgasm worth your dignity to be used by an alledged illegal imigrant who may be making a living by doing what he's doing?

 

[April]

GuyJD, why do you believe what these people are saying? Do you believe that if someone posts it enough it must be true? Have you taken the time to get to know any of the people involved, or are you just believing whatever someone feeds you?

Come on, wake up and think for yourself.

Xander has friends, and those friends have generously tried the best they could to help him. Wouldn't you want your friends to do the same if you were in a bad situation? I sure would. I only hope I never have to rely so heavily on them. But I think most of us have had a long run of bad luck at one time or another. And good friends are invaluable. They cheer you up when you are down, and try to help you when and where they can.

Or do you see this as just a load of crap? I feel sorry for anyone that does.

 

[MoronAlert]

Birth of an Idea

KidRock1: No one's coming to our shitty ad-popping slow-as-hell site anymore! All that's left are a bunch of retard regulars who never click on the ads. We need to find a way to get people to our site.

SexyThang: We sure do! I'm sick of giving blowjobs on street corners for beer money.

KR1: Me too! What should we do?

ST: We could get rid of the pop-up ads so people would visit more often.

KR1: Screw that! Fuck our users. If they want to see my shitty freehosted site they're gonna have to deal with the pop-up ads. How else will I make that extra 5 cents a month?

ST: Oh yeah, huh. We could buy banner ads on other sites to get people to our site.

KR1: Yeah but I don't want to have to spend any time or money on my shitty board. I am a cheapskate stingy loser leech.

ST: Oh yeah, me too. Hmm. I have an idea! Why don't we find other sites and leech off their users?

KR1: That's a great idea, but how?

ST: We'll invent some lame, stupid feud between us and someone else. We'll start attacking them nonstop with the dumbest insults we can think of. Then we'll go to other sites and make dumb posts about our stupid feud. Everyone will be so amazed at our stupidity that they'll have to visit our lame site at least once!

KR1: That's perfect! We can start calling someone else a leech, and at the same time we can leech off other peoples sites!

KR1 & ST (chanting): Spam, spam, spam, spam....

 

[GuyJD]

SOMETHING THAT WE'RE TAUGHT IN THE ACADEMY, APRIL...SORRY

GuyJD, why do you believe what these people are saying? Do you believe that if someone posts it enough it must be true? Have you taken the time to get to know any of the people involved, or are you just believing whatever someone feeds you?

Come on, wake up and think for yourself.



Or do you see this as just a load of crap? I feel sorry for anyone that does.

APRIL....Might I reccommend a cram course of Reading Comprehension 101. If you've noticed, I used words such as IF, ALLEGATIONS, & ALLEDGED. That means that I am only quoting and not making any judgements of my own.
However, let me explain something about myself. If one person was to accuse you or tell me that you are a thief. Without any sound proof, I will not believe that person. If more than one person, not being of any relation with each other, told me the same, then I may have a possibility of belief but will still need proof.
In other words, KIDROCK and SEXYTHANG seem to be making the exact same allegations. Either or both of them may be getting their sources from the alledged victims or the alledged suspect. We don't know and, apparently, no one is giving them the chance to back up their allegations. Maybe they are both "blowing smoke up the asses" of the Lit borard members. We don't know for sure. But 2 people can't be wrong. But here's a thought....(1)Why hasn't Xander come forward to defend himself and (2)Why hasn't any of the mentioned women come forward to deny the accusations?

 

[OUTSIDER]

Highlight's dude we got colour now.

 

[GuyJD]

NO SHIT!!!

Highlight's dude we got colour now.

AND YOUR POINT IS?

 

[Weevil]

Re: Then is it any more acceptible when

you take money and pretend that you care for them so the money keeps on rolling? /B]

WHo can say? Life is too short to choose sides and I am certainly not one to tell another how to live their life.

 

[April]

I don't want you to misunderstand me, Guy. I don't mean to attack you. And yes, I did go back and read your post again. It's just the general tone of it sounds like you believe the attackers.

What I'm seeing here at Lit is a lot of people starting to be swayed to the attacker's side simply because they keep posting, and there is no defense being made. But you see, this is a no win situation. If you respond, it escalates. If you ignore, it continues. So what would you have them do?

There is much more to say, but I don't see how it would make any difference to those who have made up their minds. Would it make any difference to you? Personally, I'm at a loss here. Xander's a good person, and my friend. I don't make friends easily or lightly. These allegations are baseless, and offensive.

Shutting up now.

 

[GuyJD]

MY BAD, APRIL

I don't want you to misunderstand me, Guy. I don't mean to attack you. And yes, I did go back and read your post again. It's just the general tone of it sounds like you believe the attackers.

What I'm seeing here at Lit is a lot of people starting to be swayed to the attacker's side simply because they keep posting, and there is no defense being made. But you see, this is a no win situation. If you respond, it escalates. If you ignore, it continues. So what would you have them do?

There is much more to say, but I don't see how it would make any difference to those who have made up their minds. Would it make any difference to you? Personally, I'm at a loss here. Xander's a good person, and my friend. I don't make friends easily or lightly. These allegations are baseless, and offensive.

Shutting up now.

I'm sorry, it was my misunderstanding of your post and not the other way around. I stand corrected and you're right.
My only poiunt is, as stated, I am wondreing why Xander has not defended himself yet? I haven't seen him on board for weeks now. But I apologize if it appeared that I was attacking your friend as such.

 

[April]

Like I said, Guy. If he responds, the attacks will likely escalate. I think it's the wisest thing to lay low until they get tired.

How do you win a flame war when the only condition for victory is attention? And hey, it's one way to weed out who your real friends are.

 

[Guest]

Never let it be said that I avoid anything.


Ok... so Xan had a few bad relationships with people online..... whooo hooo..... suddenly someone has to twist it into they were taken Advantage of. Well lets think about this for a minute. Yes that means a few people out there have to blow the dust off their brains and try to get those rusty old gears to work....

When you take advantage of someone... they usually have to be in some sort of state to be taken advantage of..... and personally.... I don't think anyone has been or They themselves would be responding to this poor excuse of an attempt to fuck up Xander's birthday.

I like the guy, and I am one of the most Untrusting gals on here. And if I had been in a position to do so, I would've invited him to come stay here. But then some would've blown that out of proportion just like some are doing this other shit.

Some people live to stir up shit because they long for the attention that other people get just for being themselves. I like Misty alot... and even if half that shit that was said about her was true, it wouldn't make me like her any less.... same goes for Xander, or any of the other people that I like on this board. I come here to talk to
Them regardless of what problems they might have.

 

[beckbabe]

can't we all just get along

 

[KillerMuffin]

I wouldn't count KR and ST as two people. They've had a thang for years apparently. They are a couple.

Hey, KR, let he who is without sin cast the first stone.

 

[Ezzy]

This was what got...

let he who is without sin cast the first stone.

Mick Jagger his film roles.



A casting director without sins.




EZ

 

[Dreamweaver72]

But 2 people can't be wrong

ahhh. but is this true?????????
Whole nations have been wrong.....Germany
12 people in LA were wrong.......O.J.
9 have been wrong....Supreme Court
and I could go on for a long time....
I ain't saying what is right or wrong....it's just getting tiring.

 

[Angel]

Re: SOMETHING THAT WE'RE TAUGHT IN THE ACADEMY, APRIL...SORRY

(2)Why hasn't any of the mentioned women come forward to deny the accusations?

Because it's none of your goddamn business?