Tired old Master

[seflamaster]

In 2009 I will have my 42 anniversary in this life style.
I have trained many males and females in my years.
After 2 years of training from an Old Guard Master I was allowed to have my first sub. In the past 42 years I have learned many new things and many new ideas have come to my mind allowing me to train crossdressers and tran’s and even 2 lesbians.
So now after 42 years I am hanging up my paddles and whips. Do to the many players and want-to-be’s that think the life is just about giving a spanking and then going to bed. Well it’s not! It’s all about domination and the training.
I will be on here to talk to friends and answer questions to anyone. I am so tired of the players that have ruined the life style.
I AM NOT LOOKING!!! I will come back to the life ONLY if the right slave or sub comes my way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[seflamaster]

Just a bump

 

[seflamaster]

Monday bump

 

[MarlieLastTime]

You know, it isn't just about You and the 'lifestyle', it isn't just about the Master and the slave or the submissive, it isn't even about the excitement or the 'novelty' to someone new or fake or player looking for a quick squeeze. if You look deeply enough, its about 'being there'.

OK, so You have had Your experiences, You have had Your female or male submissives, both real life and otherwise, You've run amok or been run up a pole, whatever the case may be, You cannot possibly 'tar' evryone with the same brush and leave the world short of Your 'experience' wether online or real life, if You are going to 'give up the ghost' and pack it all in, then why raise holy kaine about it all?, why not just pale off into insignifficance and slide out gracefully?.

No my friend, that is not for You i am thinking.
Here is a place You wish to voice Your disdain at the 'world' in general, of the deceit, the conivance (spelling i know), the fakery and tomfoolery, the players, the not so serious and the downright outragious.

Take a time to ponder over this. You have the experience?, the knowledge, You have the time im guessing, time to have been fooled, have the wool pulled over Your eyes, or perhaps You got involved somewhere that didnt rightly belong to You, wasn't Your 'place', wasn't quite Your time.....thats what im seing by Your post...i could be wrong.

If i'm not wrong then, there are people out there who need You, Your time, Your experience and, Your guidance. Your word, in a world full of players and fakes, where a timely remark, a casual observance or a freindly word of advice might be greatly aprecciated . Too much does one come online, meet people online, take up with someone online and in so doing, place their faith in someone 'online' without having the benefit of someone real and 'there', only to find themselves left out in the cold, finding their 'trust' stretched to the limmit then, coldly dashed against the wall and left bereft and confused.

Why dont You 'mentor'?.
Why don't You offer Yourself up for a service if You cannot withstand the 'truth' of the harsh world of the 'players who have ruined the lifestyle'?. There are plenty of new people out there wishing to investigate this 'lifestyle' who have no clue, who are vulnerable and gauche, i see them pop up all over the place evry other day, evry other day i repeat myself, offer up 'links' offer up 'help' direct them to a place where they can find somewhere 'safe' and 'sane' to learn about evrything they are feeling.

Is no good coming to a public 'forum' to complain and to declare to the world at large that You are dissapearing from the world at large....You have to 'participate'...and in a way that is selfless and thinks about others and what You can give back from the place which You 'took'. Does that make sense?.

If You have nothing left to give, then so be it.....if You think there is nothing left out there for you to 'take' then so be it too. i may be wrong and, if i am then i will gladly stand corrected but, if i am right, it seems to me that Your very open and public declaration is in effect, a plea. A plea to 'come to me' or 'notice me, somebody, somewhere, be what im looking for'..if thats the case then, Your looking in the wrong place and in the wrong way, don't You think?, and, i dont say that to insult You in anyway, i say that to perhaps make You look in another direction, from new eyes and a new idea.

Often, we find what we are looking for in entirely unexpected ways or places, the last place on earth we may think of looking.
Perhaps its time for you to look somewhere else or, some 'way' else my friend <smiles>.

For a Man of fourty two years experiences, i would hope myself, that You would be the one to know what i'm talking about.
Change direction. Have a go. Be the One that somebody needs as oposed to being in need <smiles>...of course, You can allways tell me to get lost, that i dont know what i'm talking about <smiles>...if iv'e got the wrong 'feel' for Your post, then i'll be the first to say sorry and move on, if i hav'nt, then nothing is lost and something may be gained by You.

i hope You find that.

respectfully submitted,

marlie.

 

[seflamaster]

As I stated I would help anyone. All they have to do is ask for advice, answer their questions what ever help I can give I give freely.

 

[Shannara1804]

I believe Marlie is correct, Sir. After 42 yrs of experience in this lifestyle, you just quit and decide to tell the world about it? Forgive me Sir, for sounding sarcastic, but YEAH RIGHT. I am coming out of the vanilla lifestyle, looking for Someone to help me understand myself, but to read this very first post on the personals totally throws me off Sir. I just dont understand....

 

[Miss Diva]

what do you want

 

[JupitersGirl]

what do you want

He wants attention.

 

[seflamaster]

If you all read my post its about the fakes and players on the web
I am tired of all the players. I state that I will help anyone that comes to me and asks a question. I am just NOT looking for any new sub or slave.