Tips to prolong gentlemens pleasure.

[nakedginger]

I am looking for some advice on prolonging a man's pleasure during play.
I have been playing at some mild D/s with two gentlemen on a regular basis. We spent many sessions just exploring and finding out what scenarios we enjoy and can develop. None of these have involved sex and have been exclusively clothed male naked female (CMnf) scenarios. We have enjoyed some collar play, humiliation and rope play, which I loved.
Last week we decided to progress and allow the men to have sex with me. We did some collar and leash play and I was made to pose and let the men explore me then one had vaginal sex while I performed oral on the other man. They both came quickly and I felt like it came to an abrupt end and not as long as the non sex sessions. The men seemed fine but I feel like a longer experience would be better?
Obviously in a D/s scenario with myself as the s I don't feel like I should tell them what to do but we have always been open and discussed things.

 

[Carnevil9]

If you spent "many sessions" fooling around but with no sex, they were probably both on a hair trigger by the time you actually got to the sex. I predict that after a few more times, they will be able to last considerably longer. Practice, practice, practice!

 

[jehoram]

And it doesn't have to end with the first ejaculation. Give him time to recover, and he'll last longer the second round.

 

[nakedginger]

If you spent "many sessions" fooling around but with no sex, they were probably both on a hair trigger by the time you actually got to the sex. I predict that after a few more times, they will be able to last considerably longer. Practice, practice, practice!

Maybe. Just wondered how to slow things down but maybe it will take a few attempts before we can play for a longer time.

 

[nakedginger]

And it doesn't have to end with the first ejaculation. Give him time to recover, and he'll last longer the second round.

I can suggest it. Maybe a longer session with a rest.

 

[nakedginger]

A quick update.
I got to play with gentlemen over Christmas and I sucked them off at the start of the session then had a longer slow play with them and they came inside me towards the end and we had a rest and recovery at the end. It was so nice and very hot.

 

[Privates1stClass]

A quick update.
I got to play with gentlemen over Christmas and I sucked them off at the start of the session then had a longer slow play with them and they came inside me towards the end and we had a rest and recovery at the end. It was so nice and very hot.

Sounds hot! Keep us informed about how your play is progressing.

 

[nakedginger]

Sounds hot! Keep us informed about how your play is progressing.

We had another longer session last weekend. Tried lots of games and acted out a few scenes. I sucked the men but not to climax a few times and they penetrated me but held back until the end when they both fucked me at the same time. I got huge facials off both of them as they held out for the whole session.

 

[Jada59]

Have you tried edging them? Use your hands to gently stimulate them, but keep moving on to some other things so you are not constantly stimulating their cocks. You can bring them to the edge of orgasm time and time again like that. Perhaps threaten them with a punishment if they cum too soon.

 

[nakedginger]

Have you tried edging them? Use your hands to gently stimulate them, but keep moving on to some other things so you are not constantly stimulating their cocks. You can bring them to the edge of orgasm time and time again like that. Perhaps threaten them with a punishment if they cum too soon.

That is essentially what we did last time. Stopped before they came and carried on until the end. They certainly came hard when they did!

 

[Specula]

That is essentially what we did last time. Stopped before they came and carried on until the end. They certainly came hard when they did!

How long before THE moment?