tips for sucking better DICK?
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Brinnie,
From a guy's perspective, just do what feels good to you. We are fairly easy to please - so, use your imagination. That being said, use your hand right there with your mouth. And, this is very important, watch you teeth, please. Happy sucking.
Craig
From a guy's perspective, just do what feels good to you. We are fairly easy to please - so, use your imagination. That being said, use your hand right there with your mouth. And, this is very important, watch you teeth, please. Happy sucking.
Craig
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Tips...
Look in The Blank Manual, do a search, or find any one of the numerous threads on this and subsequent pages of this forum.
Look in The Blank Manual, do a search, or find any one of the numerous threads on this and subsequent pages of this forum.
Michi_Knickers
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guys seem to like it when I tease the tip with my tongue, and just along the shaft.
visionskate
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hum while your doing it the vibrations feel great
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Mmmmm
I agree with all of the above but some of the things I like:
1) Gagging noises. You don't necessarily have to gag yourself but these noises are amazing and shows that you want to suck and are not just doing it as a favour.
2) Lick it like a lollipop. Slurping and licking all over drives me wild.
3) Massaging my balls with hands while sucking.
I agree with all of the above but some of the things I like:
1) Gagging noises. You don't necessarily have to gag yourself but these noises are amazing and shows that you want to suck and are not just doing it as a favour.
2) Lick it like a lollipop. Slurping and licking all over drives me wild.
3) Massaging my balls with hands while sucking.
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I'd like to add to the enthusiasm comment by saying genuine enthusiasm! We get into it easier if we know you're not just there for our benefit. If you genuinely enjoy sucking a man off, he'll be able to tell and it'll be that much better for both of you.
Also, in most circumstances, don't let him feel like he has to do anything to help or reciprocate, and, swallow and milk it dry. Let him go soft with nothing more than the wettness from your mouth on his cock.
Also, in most circumstances, don't let him feel like he has to do anything to help or reciprocate, and, swallow and milk it dry. Let him go soft with nothing more than the wettness from your mouth on his cock.
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The best technique I've experienced:
She opens her mouth fairly wide while sliding the lips down my shaft, her tongue running across the underside on the way down.
She then tightens the back of her mouth/throat while keeping her teeth away from my skin. This forms a tight channel that really feels like it's drawing my cum up and out.
Of course it depends on the objective of the sucking. If it's foreplay it's better to tease, a lot of licking without as much pumping and sucking. If the blowjob is to completion then the "milking" action is what really does it for me.
She opens her mouth fairly wide while sliding the lips down my shaft, her tongue running across the underside on the way down.
She then tightens the back of her mouth/throat while keeping her teeth away from my skin. This forms a tight channel that really feels like it's drawing my cum up and out.
Of course it depends on the objective of the sucking. If it's foreplay it's better to tease, a lot of licking without as much pumping and sucking. If the blowjob is to completion then the "milking" action is what really does it for me.
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Well, what I prefer is that a woman tries to deepthroat me and makes a ton of gagging noses. Also, be liberal with the amount of spit applied, the more warm spit, the better 
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It's a two way street
I think listening to your partners body is important. I'm a guy, and this is what I will use with my partners. There are muscles twitches, tension, movement, etc. that should be listened to. There are some 'common' things that can be done with about any guy, and I would suggest finding a partner which you can share a comfortable level of communication and just say "oh yes" at certain times. Please don't get the idea though that every spot which brings about an "oh yes" should then be given the greatest attention...all the time. Keep track, come back from time to time and build a symphony of locations.
I would also suggest be ready for some long sessions. It will take a while to get the right locations, and then string them together. But over time you should find the time needed will be determined by you, meaning teasing and playing increases as the learning curve flattens out. God I love this stuff.
As far as the gagging sounds the others have mentioned, I have _no_ idea where this comes from. Personally I would be concerned if I heard this. And lastly, if you don't enjoy it, don't do it.
Happy, uh... adventures?
I think listening to your partners body is important. I'm a guy, and this is what I will use with my partners. There are muscles twitches, tension, movement, etc. that should be listened to. There are some 'common' things that can be done with about any guy, and I would suggest finding a partner which you can share a comfortable level of communication and just say "oh yes" at certain times. Please don't get the idea though that every spot which brings about an "oh yes" should then be given the greatest attention...all the time. Keep track, come back from time to time and build a symphony of locations.
I would also suggest be ready for some long sessions. It will take a while to get the right locations, and then string them together. But over time you should find the time needed will be determined by you, meaning teasing and playing increases as the learning curve flattens out. God I love this stuff.
As far as the gagging sounds the others have mentioned, I have _no_ idea where this comes from. Personally I would be concerned if I heard this. And lastly, if you don't enjoy it, don't do it.
Happy, uh... adventures?
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Okay, after a couple of e-mails I should point out I am a straight man. My post to this question was intended to be from the point of view of a recipient, but also as a someone who enjoys giving oral sex as well...to the opposite sex.
Sorry for any confusion.
Sorry for any confusion.
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No one has said a bloody fucking thing!
A cock sucked is sliding over the head, not deep at first, enjoying and taking, eating and playing with the head - teasing him in and out quick -make him yours - sipping and sucking, then trail your tongue the length of his hard, veining cock, pressing your fingers. ..
If you want more ask Brinnie.
What do you want, love?
A cock sucked is sliding over the head, not deep at first, enjoying and taking, eating and playing with the head - teasing him in and out quick -make him yours - sipping and sucking, then trail your tongue the length of his hard, veining cock, pressing your fingers. ..
If you want more ask Brinnie.
What do you want, love?
The two most important things have been said. 1 - Find what he likes (not everyone likes the same thing). Exploration is part of the fun and it helps to be in tune with his body language. Don't be afraid to ask. 2 - Do what he likes with interest and enthusiasm.
I'd add that the underside and edge of the head tend to be sensitive and deserve attention...
I'd add that the underside and edge of the head tend to be sensitive and deserve attention...
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Indeed, all the enthusiasm and "no teeth" posts are right on target. Thought I would add one more thing - don't look to most porn films for instruction, your man is a much better source of information. Yes, speaking as a hetrosexual man, men are pretty easy (from what I understand, not from experience) to please. But I will tell you from experience that there are no such things as bad blow jobs, but there are women who have much better technique than others.
That said, a woman's hand(s) come into play a lot for me. Coordinating them with a kind of "doorknob turning" motion as your mouth teases and sucks is always a crowd pleaser.
and if he is not against a little anal/prostrate stimulation at the right moment, that can be fun in conjunction with the above too. But really, like women, every man is different and there can be a lot of excitement for both of you from discussing what feels best for him.
Good luck! Let us know how things progress!
That said, a woman's hand(s) come into play a lot for me. Coordinating them with a kind of "doorknob turning" motion as your mouth teases and sucks is always a crowd pleaser.
and if he is not against a little anal/prostrate stimulation at the right moment, that can be fun in conjunction with the above too. But really, like women, every man is different and there can be a lot of excitement for both of you from discussing what feels best for him. Good luck! Let us know how things progress!
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You suck cock because you love it and you want to do it and you are willing to do anything to make your man happy. Don't do it just because he wants you to. Become the master of his cock and explore and alternate and pay attention to his reactions and tease and above all...look him in the eye as you do it...showing him how much you love to be his cocksucking slut....
Thanks for asking.
Cranky.
You suck cock because you love it and you want to do it and you are willing to do anything to make your man happy. Don't do it just because he wants you to. Become the master of his cock and explore and alternate and pay attention to his reactions and tease and above all...look him in the eye as you do it...showing him how much you love to be his cocksucking slut....
Thanks for asking.
Cranky.
I have to add to the enthusiasm points. If it's a chore, don't bother.
My wife loves dick. She will hunt me out sometimes to attack me. I can be in the garage and she will push me against the wall and drop my pants and suck me all the way in to her mouth while I am soft, and then keep me there while I get hard. Then she just feverously gives my head like she's licking a melting ice cream cone in 110 degree day, and does'nt want one drop to hit the floor.
She loves to suck my dick, and the enthusiasm is such a turn on.
My wife loves dick. She will hunt me out sometimes to attack me. I can be in the garage and she will push me against the wall and drop my pants and suck me all the way in to her mouth while I am soft, and then keep me there while I get hard. Then she just feverously gives my head like she's licking a melting ice cream cone in 110 degree day, and does'nt want one drop to hit the floor.
She loves to suck my dick, and the enthusiasm is such a turn on.
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Use your hand as a second mouth (fingers making a ring)
Swallow his cock several times teasingly (squeezing the base as you do) before you begin stroking and focusing on the head and back of the head
Not too hard, not too soft
Lots of spit, with moans of pleasure, mmmm...
No teeth EVER.
Swallow his cock several times teasingly (squeezing the base as you do) before you begin stroking and focusing on the head and back of the head
Not too hard, not too soft
Lots of spit, with moans of pleasure, mmmm...
No teeth EVER.
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Originally Posted by namron711
You suck cock because you love it and you want to do it and you are willing to do anything to make your man happy. Don't do it just because he wants you to. Become the master of his cock and explore and alternate and pay attention to his reactions and tease and above all...look him in the eye as you do it...showing him how much you love to be his cocksucking slut....
Thanks for asking.
Cranky.
Great answer.
Thanks Brinnie.
Cranky
Originally Posted by namron711
You suck cock because you love it and you want to do it and you are willing to do anything to make your man happy. Don't do it just because he wants you to. Become the master of his cock and explore and alternate and pay attention to his reactions and tease and above all...look him in the eye as you do it...showing him how much you love to be his cocksucking slut....
Thanks for asking.
Cranky.
Great answer.
Thanks Brinnie.
Cranky
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