tips for first-timer...

[wannaknow]

hubby and I live in a rural conservative area and have always talked about our fantasies. Up until about 8 months ago that was all that they were, fantasies. During a drunken evening with another couple we all voiced our fantasies and theirs are the sames as ours....shortly there after they had to move and we have only been able to live out our fantasies by cybering and trading pics....it has been awesome the wife and I talk atleast twice a week and we chat everyday. They will be coming for a visit in a couple of weeks and we are all wet with excitement.......they have experienced their fantasies in the flesh since they moved...my quesiton is any tips or advice for our liason?? I know it is a pretty broad and general question, but I value the advice found in the boards and thought I would defer to all of you....
Thanks!!
Wanna

 

[Mr.G]

Look up

the TRY THIS AND REPORT BACK thread. If you can pull that trick off you'll blow their socks off. I've got so much mail from swinging couples who use that technique and become the star performers for the evening.

Of course you didn't mention what exactly your fantasies were so being able to give her 40 or 80 mindblowing orgasms may not be what you're looking for anyway.

 

[ReadyOne]

Sometimes it takes courage to get things started. Everyone is looking at everyone else to make the first move, and everyone is afraid to make a wrong move.

Just start something, and then suggest that one or both others start doing something specific.

For example, undress your SO (if not already so) and start rubbing her vulva. Then invite the other couple to come look at how SO is opening up. The girl may actually be interested in what another girl looks like, and the guy will like the invite to get closer.

Then suggest to one or the other that they start rubbing somewhere. If the girl showes an interest in SO's pussy then encourge her to come closer and touch. Otherwise tell her to play with SO's breasts and invite the guy to touch.

If anyone has an idea they may speak up, and if the idea doesn't quite seem right then someone can suggest a substitute activity. Or ask some passive person what would feel good to them and let thier answer guide the action.

I suppose I'm saying that it's easy to change direction once things are in motion, so if you start going, and see it's the wrong direction, you can turn things around pretty quick.

PS: Some "shy" couples do well by agreeing that each couple sitcks to themselves until they've gotten their partner really aroused/orgasmed. After that, things are hot enough that any reluctance to touch the other couple pretty much drops away.