dhannagirl
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- Jul 20, 2008
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Bare with me. I already know that many people will react poorly to my claims. But the key word here is "react." Rather than reacting, why not respond? Take time to use critical analysis and then respond thoughtfully.
I am a fan of erotic literature. It is a pleasant way to experience arousal without being bombarded with the gonzo tactics of visual pornography. Sadly, I am noticing more and more, that writers for Literotica are simply relaying the same messages that gonzo porn aims to relay: women are not people they are objects with holes to be used at their male partners' whim. The other myth being displayed is that a women's pleasure is contingent on the pleasure of her male partners.
My holes are not meant to be used by pool sticks, multiple “cocks” or for the visual stimulus of men. Believe it or not, female sexuality is much more than a collection of holes awaiting male penetration.
I am tired of having to stop reading stories because they become degrading (towards anyone really) or are just outright abusive. If anyone is confused about what FEELS GOOD to a woman, I can assure you that being used for our holes – DOES NOT FEEL GOOD and is a sexual buzz kill.
I know there are people who disagree with me – but I also know that many people do not have a sense of what sexuality is separate from what they have been exposed to in the media.
We have serious sexual dysfunction happening in our culture and I challenge everyone to step outside of the porn-controlled idea of sex and step into the true eroticism of sex... Which is in no way about harm or objectification. If you associate sex with causing harm, then you may need to ponder why. It is not to judge people – my intent is to say that MANY WOMEN are tired of being portrayed as sexually insatiable THINGS that just want to fuck anything and suck cock until the cows come home.
Writers... try to be imaginative. Try to actually be erotic rather than just regurgitating the BS perpetuated by the multi-billion $ porn industry.
Remember your mother, your sister and your daughter are being treated as objects because of the belief that women are things to use.
Think about it.
I am a fan of erotic literature. It is a pleasant way to experience arousal without being bombarded with the gonzo tactics of visual pornography. Sadly, I am noticing more and more, that writers for Literotica are simply relaying the same messages that gonzo porn aims to relay: women are not people they are objects with holes to be used at their male partners' whim. The other myth being displayed is that a women's pleasure is contingent on the pleasure of her male partners.
My holes are not meant to be used by pool sticks, multiple “cocks” or for the visual stimulus of men. Believe it or not, female sexuality is much more than a collection of holes awaiting male penetration.
I am tired of having to stop reading stories because they become degrading (towards anyone really) or are just outright abusive. If anyone is confused about what FEELS GOOD to a woman, I can assure you that being used for our holes – DOES NOT FEEL GOOD and is a sexual buzz kill.
I know there are people who disagree with me – but I also know that many people do not have a sense of what sexuality is separate from what they have been exposed to in the media.
We have serious sexual dysfunction happening in our culture and I challenge everyone to step outside of the porn-controlled idea of sex and step into the true eroticism of sex... Which is in no way about harm or objectification. If you associate sex with causing harm, then you may need to ponder why. It is not to judge people – my intent is to say that MANY WOMEN are tired of being portrayed as sexually insatiable THINGS that just want to fuck anything and suck cock until the cows come home.
Writers... try to be imaginative. Try to actually be erotic rather than just regurgitating the BS perpetuated by the multi-billion $ porn industry.
Remember your mother, your sister and your daughter are being treated as objects because of the belief that women are things to use.
Think about it.
