tied up! ideas?

[dub_daz]

hi! long time lurker here!

me and my gf are experimenting in tying her up, she really like the domination and i really enjoy just making her feel amazing! especially enjoy oral and making her squirt! lol

i am not entirely experienced anyone have any ideas as to what i can do to her to make her feel good? i only have fingers and tongue basic ideas!

hoping you good people have some cool ideas that will blow her mind!

 

[SweetErika]

Have you two been through a comprehensive BDSM checklist (google it) for ideas and limits? If not, I'd suggest starting there. That should give you some ideas to talk about and work from.

 

[Jamesricho]

Have you two been through a comprehensive BDSM checklist (google it) for ideas and limits? If not, I'd suggest starting there. That should give you some ideas to talk about and work from.

Sound Advice

 

[DormantEvil]

Try this!

http://giltmenagerie.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/12/karada.gif

I like to try this with an inch wide ribbon, black or red, depending on the mood you are going for. Romantic or just naughty. Make sure it's soft fabric ribbon, not the plastic sort that just cuts way too easy.

I find it gives the allusion of bondage without taking away movement, and you can simply attach more ribbon to restrict her movements. Or use the same ribbon to tie her to the bed.

 

[Jamesricho]

Try this!

http://giltmenagerie.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/12/karada.gif

I like to try this with an inch wide ribbon, black or red, depending on the mood you are going for. Romantic or just naughty. Make sure it's soft fabric ribbon, not the plastic sort that just cuts way too easy.

I find it gives the allusion of bondage without taking away movement, and you can simply attach more ribbon to restrict her movements. Or use the same ribbon to tie her to the bed.

Great post

 

[borisk]

You are only limited to your imagination (safety 1st). There are a lot of household items that can be used to arouse your partner.

If you want some good rope techniques search for Two Knotty boys and Midori. They have some free instructional videos. Its also good to get a book on basic knots.

DormantEvil link is a great base to expand upon. I find if the rope is too long it gets cumbersome to handle and adding a 2nd rope on the back to create a lead that can then be used to restrain the hands.

Good luck on your adventures and let us know!

 

[DormantEvil]

And have scissors/knife nearby just in case the knots you tied weren't tied correctly and tighten with 'pressure' on them. That way she won't turn purple whilst you're searching the house looking for them.

I can imagine there is nothing like dampening the mood than cutting off the blood supply unintentionally.

Just make sure if you do need a knife to have the blade out! XD

 

[SweetErika]

And have scissors/knife nearby just in case the knots you tied weren't tied correctly and tighten with 'pressure' on them. That way she won't turn purple whilst you're searching the house looking for them.

I can imagine there is nothing like dampening the mood than cutting off the blood supply unintentionally.

Just make sure if you do need a knife to have the blade out! XD

That's what EMT/safety shears are for. I don't know any responsible bondage practitioner who doesn't have them at hand while playing.

It's patently stupid to use a knife or regular scissors when you can get the right equipment for under $5. What if the bound person is having a seizure or something and can't be safely cut out w/ a knife or scissors? I think ours were $1 or 2 at Harbor Freight Tools, and they cut just about anything.

Other than that, if you don't know how to do something safely, like tie the proper knots and not cut off blood supply, you shouldn't be doing it at all. Considering the amount of great info that's available for free online, there's no excuse for not knowing basic safe bondage.