Thursday BS sex question

Netzach

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can you tell

A) when someone's been fucking?
B) when someone's been pawing at someone else?
and C) discern a difference between the two?

I can tell when someone's been screwing or doing something based on smell, glow, fucked up hair, and that je ne sais quoi but I sure can't tell if they had their clothes on the whole time or not.

I ask because my partner in crime thinks he can smell a difference. Sounds crazy to me.


(We had our clothes on. Mostly.)
 
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Netzach said:
can you tell

A) when someone's been fucking?
B) when someone's been pawing at someone else?
and C) discern a difference between the two?

I can tell when someone's been screwing or doing something based on smell, glow, fucked up hair, and that je ne sais quoi but I sure can't tell if they had their clothes on the whole time or not.

I ask because my partner in crime thinks he can smell a difference. Sounds crazy to me.


(We had our clothes on. Mostly.)

the huge smile is a sure give away....

there is an “air” about playing around, if a nose can pick it up - can sense it, I can’t say

wish I had more to add - later I might once I get home from work....
 
Answer to all of the above: Sometimes :p :D

However, if a particular person has a particular favorite sexual activity, I can usually 'feel' it. There's just something about them that says, "blowjob queen", "buttslut", what have you. I dunno what it is, it's just there. And yes, I have to be sexually interested in them to 'feel' it.

And yes, I've had suspicions confirmed too many times to just write it off. Like this one really cute girl I knew, I just got a 'buttslut' vibe off of her the minute we met. She liked to tell me about things her boyfriend and she got up to, and told me flat out that anal was her favorite. (There are times when I curse whatever vibe it is I have that gets me put into the 'safe guy' category.)
 
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SpectreT said:
Answer to all of the above: Sometimes :p :D

However, if a particular person has a particular favorite sexual activity, I can usually 'feel' it. There's just something about them that says, "blowjob queen", "buttslut", what have you. I dunno what it is, it's just there. And yes, I have to be sexually interested in them to 'feel' it.

And yes, I've had suspicions confirmed too many times to just write it off. Like this one really cute girl I knew, I just got a 'buttslut' vibe off of her the minute we met. She liked to tell me about things her boyfriend and she got up to, and told me flat out that anal was her favorite. (There are times when I curse whatever vibe it is I have that gets me put into the 'safe guy' category.)


oooo nice, I wish I had that 'dar more. It's like a superpower!
 
I can't, but I don't care to know that stuff about other people. I do know that the day after me and K had sex for the first time my (soon to be) sister in law called k and said 'YOU HAD SEX DIDN'T YOU?'. Turns out her husband can tell. :eek:
 
i think i read people very well, but this is not something i'm good at discerning. possibly because i think it's none of my business, so i really don't look for it.

unless i'm somehow involved intimately in the situation, i really don't want to know who has been fucking whom, especially if there's a chance they haven't washed their hands before shaking mine or their face before kissing me hello.
 
I had a married Dom once who always showered before he left my place. He said his wife had the "nose of a bloodhound". According to his statement, some people have a nose for it.
 
I have a friend that sure can tell the difference with me. She can look at me and every one else will be like "oh she must have gotten fucked this morning" and she'll look at them and say "no she just had some great phone sex this time" and she's right every time. Even down to if it was just a spanking. Some times I think she could tell the whole story of what I'd been up to just by looking at me....and this is after a shower and some times even a day or two later.

me...I can't tell at all.
 
I can sometimes tell over the phone but some people are pretty fucking obvious.

Damn those Grandparents!

Fury :rose:
 
Netzach said:
can you tell

A) when someone's been fucking?
B) when someone's been pawing at someone else?
and C) discern a difference between the two?

I can tell when someone's been screwing or doing something based on smell, glow, fucked up hair, and that je ne sais quoi but I sure can't tell if they had their clothes on the whole time or not.

I ask because my partner in crime thinks he can smell a difference. Sounds crazy to me.


(We had our clothes on. Mostly.)

I can "often" tell by smell...I have a strong sense of smell. I have to be close enough though. Like a hug, whispering something, or laying head in lap. A woman's scent changes from normal, sexually charged(like from heavy petting), and post orgasm.

As far as appearance goes, it depends on if I know what comparitively is out of place. Like how the hair might be out of place. Usually a woman's lips is a good indication too. After some serious suck-face, they tend to swell and be fuller than normal. The difference in the eyes can be a good indication, like an almost glossy look to them. Tone of voice can be an indication too. Normally its like a combination of these which draws a curiosity.

But for me smell...mmmmmm yeah.
 
I can usually tell by the smell as well. Also, the condom sticking out of a guys pants zipper is a bit of a giveaway too. :D
 
Netzach said:
can you tell

A) when someone's been fucking?
B) when someone's been pawing at someone else?
and C) discern a difference between the two?

I can tell when someone's been screwing or doing something based on smell, glow, fucked up hair, and that je ne sais quoi but I sure can't tell if they had their clothes on the whole time or not.

I ask because my partner in crime thinks he can smell a difference. Sounds crazy to me.
No idea about the way men smell.

As for women.... of course your partner can smell the difference.

Do you honestly think all that moisture in the pink is non-aromatic? :confused:

RJMasters said:
A woman's scent changes from normal, sexually charged(like from heavy petting), and post orgasm.
Exactly.
 
JMohegan said:
No idea about the way men smell.

As for women.... of course your partner can smell the difference.

Do you honestly think all that moisture in the pink is non-aromatic? :confused:

Haha, I've gotten my nose in it a lot, my friend, I just don't greet most like a doggie. :)

I'm not trying to pull a fast one on anyone, for the record, either, the first person I asked this was M and he guessed wrong. Which gave his little cuck-fetishy self a boner.

It's a passing curiosity.
 
Netzach said:
oooo nice, I wish I had that 'dar more. It's like a superpower!
yeh, but like I said, it comes with the drawbacks that it only works on someone I'm interested in sexually, and I broadcast "Safe Guy" somehow, so I only very rarely get to put that knowledge to use. It's more like a pseudo-psychic tease and denial than anything else.
 
SpectreT said:
yeh, but like I said, it comes with the drawbacks that it only works on someone I'm interested in sexually, and I broadcast "Safe Guy" somehow, so I only very rarely get to put that knowledge to use. It's more like a pseudo-psychic tease and denial than anything else.

Do something radical and seem safe but then don't be safe. :)
 
A Desert Rose said:
I had a married Dom once who always showered before he left my place. He said his wife had the "nose of a bloodhound". According to his statement, some people have a nose for it.

I had an acquaintance who divorced because his wife found out he was cheating on her due to the fact of the exaggerated number of shower he was having !!! :D

( hello ADR how are you doll ? *hugs *) :rose:
 
Netzach said:
Do something radical and seem safe but then don't be safe. :)
...If I could figure out how to do that, I'd have fewer depressive triggers. :p :D
 
It could be visible in your behavior, or perhaps a subtle scent or pheromone but I've long suspected that people could unconsciously recognize when you are getting laid. I think women find a man who is getting laid to be much more appealing than a man who is not, at least on an unconscious level.
 
SpectreT said:
...If I could figure out how to do that, I'd have fewer depressive triggers. :p :D


Read The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene.

Law 17
Keep others in suspended terror: Cultivate an air of unpredictability

Humans are creatures of habit with an insatiable need to see familiarity in other people's actions. Your predictability gives them a sense of control. Turn the tables: Be deliberately unpredictable. Behavior that seems to have no consistency or purpose will keep them off-balance, and they will wear themselves out trying to explain your moves. Taken to an extreme, this strategy can intimidate and terrorize.
 
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