If I were your wife... I'd be in heaven that you want that... Most men only want to have a threesome with two women... Just ask her, she might surpirse you with the answer you want to hear... Good luck to you...
well thank you dee j. i've had two women on three seperate occasions,so i want to give her something in return. i've asked her and although she fantasizes about it she still says no.
You don't talk her into it She either getscomgortable wiyth iy on her own or she doesnt.
In my life i had three such experiences and each time it was my partner who dfecided that it was something she was ready for not somethhing i talked herinto
One of the more interesting aspects was when my partner arranged a trio for my Birthday with a gal pal and a fewdays later teh pal called and wanted to see me without my partner.
create an environment where your partner knows it is for both of you and noty just a cheap thrill for you.
I just broke my virginity on this 3some thing. I was the one to invite another guy to join (after I had gotten to know him very well) in with my husband and I. I had already known, though, that a 3some was my hubby's fantasy, and he never thought I'd go for the idea. Surprise!
Does she know who the other guy would be? I think it would make a big difference to her, if she could relate and trust him. If you have someone in mind, can he visit at your house, while both of you are home, and give her a chance to get to know him? Later, him discretely flirting with her give you better signals.
You need to try to explain to her WHY this is a fantasy of yours. Whatever you do, don't tell her if you have someone in mind. If she considers it, let her choose the guy. She will feel more in control of the situation and if she loves you, she would not choose a man who she thinks you might have a problem with. Meanwhile, try to include your fantasy verbally while having sex or foreplay. Maybe you might want to experience some bi-male action as well. If she is not homophobic, then this may be a way to make her feel like it is less about her and more about the two of you sharing a new experience. Hope this helps!
Good Luck, and don't push it, if she is resistant, plant the idea in her head and let her come around in her own time. She WILL be thinking about it, even if she tells you "No."
I've found that the easiest way to get my girlfriend(s) into threesomes is to just introduce the idea during sex. It sounds like you've already done that. The next step is to introduce some specifically. Some women prefer to know the 'other man' very well before they'll sleep with them, and others prefer not to know them at all (like when you're a long way from home on vacation). You know her better than anyone here, so you decide which tack you want to take. Do you have anyone in particular you'd like to see her with?
