Threesome with two guys

[maxxxxxine]

Honesty question for you guys (and I have an agenda on this one, if you can guess)

1. If you want your girlfriend to take part in a threesome, would you expect her to participate sexually with the other female?

2. If she was willing to take part in this for you, would it be a reasonable to expect that after this event, you could have a threesome that involved a male?

3. If so, is it not also reasonable to expect SOME sexual play between you and the other male?

I'm not talking anal - even though that would be good, but surely you could expect that you could masturbate him, or even take his penis in your mouth. Would it be that bad? It's not that hard to do!

Anyway, hopefully some of you will help my argument!!!!!!

 

[cheeky greg]

u got a good point there maxine.im in sydney also

 

[SallyIsHere]

It's healthy

I have had the wonderful experience of holding a guy's cock while my boyfriend sucked it. It was a huge turn on for me. He is straight but had always been curious about going down on a guy. It was a wonderful thing for us to share. We are all just people and you never know what might happen in the right circumstances.

sal

 

[kittycathunter]

Very good point!

You make a reasonable argument. My feeling would be in a group situation that one should be open to experimenting with various combinations that might arise. I don't think I would go as far as to allow a guy to mount my ass, but most everything else would be worth a try. People who stick to rigid ways of behaving risk missing out on some of life's pleasures. If I had a lady in my life who was turned on by watching me suck a cock, I would be happy to do this for her, as I hope she would do things for me that I found to be especially erotic. This is to me the essence of a good sexual relationship. Just one matue, straight, but open-minded man's opinion.

 

[riverfree]

seems pretty straight forward. What's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander. So if I want my partner to give me the great stimulus of her sexual intimacy with another woman, she has every right to ask me to do the same with a man.

trouble is, I've never had sexual intimacy with a man, and am not sure I could. But, if it were the right man, I'd be willing to give it a try - especially if I thought it would really turn my partner on. Masturbating him, or even sucking him shouldn't be too much to ask - since I'm quite happy to do the same to myself.

I better clarify that. When I was a teenager I managed to get myself in a position in which I could suck my own cock. Not sure I have the motivation or the flexibility to try it now... Would have to go into training...

 

[Guest]

threesome

I`m a 40 year old MWM who had always wanted a WMW thresome.When I married my wife knew this but it never turned her on ,so it never happened. For the last ten years of our marriage I`ve been fantasizing about sharing my wife with other men.She knows this ,but again,is not interested.It seems alot of other married men want this fantasy also,but their wives are not interested.Nothing would excite me more than sharing my wife with handsome young men.Though I am straight,I would be willing to have any type of contact with her partners.

 

[SallyIsHere]

common?

Didn't most guys jerk off with other guys when they were young, maybe even touching each other too?

Sally

 

[lakritze]

1.NO 2.YES 3.POSSIBLE 4.COME AGAIN?

 

[kittycathunter]

Sally .. you clearly are not a guy

Most guys didn't even admit they masturbated when we were young let alone do it in front of others. Even the hint of a desire to touch another guy might get the shit beat out of you. I doubt the population at literotica is representative - so a higher proportion of us may have experienced such things, but I am sure mutual masterbation among boys is enjoyed by a fairly low percentage of the males in the US anyway.

 

[adventurousform]

response to your survey!

Hi. In response to your posting...

1. yes, I would encourage her to participate in the threesome in all ways. It would be fun and a new experience.

2. Yes, it would be natural that I would be expected to participate fully in a reciprocal arrangement.

3. Yes, I would consider j/o and oral since this is a turn on for all.

Good luck with your agenda...invite me if you wish. I have enough frequent flyer miles to get to you and back!

adventurousform@hotmail.com

 

[Jack Steed]

3-somes

1. Expect it? No. But if it seemed like the thing to do in that situation, then ... let it be.

2. Yes, if she wanted to try two guys, that's only fair.

3. See no. 1, above.

And I agree with the above: guys jerking off together--circle-jerks, and such--wasn't a part of my youth.

 

[brillo44]

3-somes

I agree with Jack. I had the pleasure years ago of a MWM threesome. It was a wonderful experience among three friends. She wanted us to fondle each other, which was cool with us, but he was uncomfortable going any farther. That was also OK. Like most sexual activities, consensuality is important!

 

[maxxxxxine]

The latest so far!

Okay, I've shown my b/friend the responses thinking that somehow he might get a sense of equity, however his response so far is;
1. That it's unnatural (but somehow my being with another woman is perfectly natural)
2. That he "may not do it right" (after all, it's so hard to make a penis ejaculate)
3. That he's frightened of having a guy come in his mouth (okay, I can understand this to a point, but it's not that hard to avoid, and if it does happen ....... it's not poison .... think of what's in a vagina!)
4. That "anal sex would hurt", and that "it's okay for me because I'm a girl: (funny, but I thought that not only females had an anus)

So, that's where it sits at the moment, but I know he's going to do it because he wants the FFM experience .........

 

[Babydoll508]

Threesomes

If you want to have a guy involved after your FFM experience. Take it slow. Maybe just have them jerk each other off and see what else could happen.
I for one, want a FFM experience. My husband would definitely go for that. But as for a MMF experience, I would love it, but my hubby wouldn't be too happy.
Being a Bi-curious woman, I really don't mind if I never have a MMF experience.

 

[wruler]

threesome with two guys

a most interesting question.since i have been there done that. i thought you might like knowing my experience.for my birthday one year my wife brought her girlfriend in for a 3some.while my wife had expressed no desire for a woman to woman experience she was unhibited and went along.

almost a year went by before i was able to get her to agree to another 3some.this time we picked a guy.she had not given any sign she expected me to play with him.

after he had fucked her and pulled his cock from her she told me she wanted me to suck him.

i did willingly.i found i enjoyed it.since then our sex life has expanded.i have fucked men i have been fucked by men.sucked cocks been sucked while another woman and my wife watched.

i am happily bisexual now.my wife will do another woman if i insist but i really don't ask anymore as i am happy with the present situation.

 

[tonyp]

hmmmmmmmm

I think it is really cool that women can get turned on by the thought of having two men intwine themselves and be in part loving and absorbed by one woman. I like the thought that she can ask to extent that pleasure beyond herself.

 

[Nicodemus]

What are you people nuts...!!!! Just kidding.

I would have to say that reciprocation is only fair. It all comes down to being open and being able to be honest in your desires. Trying new things is natural and acceptable as long as everyone involved consents to it.

The whole shared masturbatory experience among guys is not a regular thing. About the closest I came was me and my best friend confessing to each other that we both did masturbate and being aware of when the other was going into the bathroom to do that.

Sex with a woman is still one of the greatest experiences in life although I will admit being with another man would be interesting and having a woman in my life open enough to share the experience with would be wonderful. Of course the thought of two women is and will continue to be one of my favorite fantasies (hopefully I can make this one come true).

Just a few thoughts on this thread.

 

[Nolan]

3 sum

For me the main attraction of a three sum with 2 women would be the inter action between the women. Or me and one woman giving pleasure to the other. I realy hadn't thought of both women giving pleasure to me. Any how better to give than receive.

Yes if she gave me a ffm then I should give her a mfm. Some how I always thought the idea of a mfm was for the woman to be doublely penitrated. either anus- vagina or mouth- vagina. I guess for me I want to double up on the pleasure for my partner.

If my partner wanted to see me with a man I would probably do it. But it would be easier if they were a shemale.

 

[Sillyman]

I would do anything that made my partner happy myself. It is only fair that you be willing to do yourself what ever your partner is supposed to do. If you want oral sex, you should be willing to give oral sex. If you want anal, than you need to be able to take it as well as dish it out.

As far as threesomes are concerned:

1) I would be to thrilled about being with two women to care if they played with each other or just me. I wouldn't expect mandatory lesbianism, but I wouldn't be shocked if it occured.

2)If she wants a MWM threesome, then sure. In fact I don't need my fantasy first. If it makes her happy, it's sexy.

3)Most women I know of do not find two men together as attractive as most men I know find two women together, but if it would get her rocks off and she'd do the same for me, then screw it. I've certainly done worse things with my mouth.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

This reminds me of a joke i've said for years with my friends take 2 pictures A two men together B two women together. show these to women they see no problem with eather, show it to men and they see a problem with both. A "it's not right" B "I'm not in it"

for your questions.
1. yes i'd expect the women to act together, not demand but expect it cause lets be honest. How many men can satifie two women at once? not to many
2. yes it would be reasonable for her to expect, if she is willing he should be willing too. one should not make others do what they themselfs won't.
3. Yes the women would probably expect the guys to do something together, or would it really be a 3-some? or a 2 on 1 thing?
Me personaly, I'm shy being naked around other men, and get nervus(sp?) if they touch me on the shoulder or brush by me. so i don't think I could do anything with another guy in the room, let alone in on the action.

 

[maxxxxxine]

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It's great that this thread has been going so long, and thanks all for your comments. I'm actually glad (and a bit surprised actually) that most guys don't find my request unreasonable. That shows real open mindedness!
The latest in my rounds of negotiations is my boyfriend (who won't allow even his first name to be mentioned, in case any Australian's recognise me from my pic) still can't get his mind around a guy, however a she-male would allow him to "do everything" (his words) with a penis, and not feel bi.
To tell you the truth I could actually consider having sex with a she-male quite easily, I mean, that's genuinely the best of both worlds. My only problem is that from most of the pic sites, only a small % look reasonably feminine.
Still, I'm going to investigate this ........
Good or bad idea? (or am I letting my boyfriend off the hook too easily?????)

 

[Nolan]

3 sum

maxine maybe you could try a modified 2 on one erotic experience. The two guys could service you first! Then you blindfold your boyfriend. You have oils, feathers, fur, silk, satan ect. to rub and arouse him. He does not know who is doing what to him. He does not have preformance anxiety because he is receiving.You get to watch 2 men together a little at a time. What do you think.
If i was blindfolded I would not be able to tell if it was a girl or guy giving me head.I think it would be hard to tell if it was a male or female ass being penitrated. Providing the guy does not have a hairy ass.

 

[xandermark]

I would have to use a food analogy here...

Some people like tomatoes and some people don't.

Some of the people who like tomatoes, like them in any form...cooked, raw, as a paste, puree...whatever...

I would say that sex is similar in that if you are going to ask someone to do something, you should already know a bit about their preferences.

If you know that someone has no experience with a certain food (or sexual act), you can expect them to resist trying it. This response is natural. If you present the new experience in the right manner, you may be able to persuade the individual to give in and try it. Some people are more adventurous (open-minded) and do so on their own.

My response to your survey:

1. No. But as someone said above, one guy servicing two women is asking a lot...often the women take it on themselves to do some of the work...

2. Yes.

3. No. This point begs more commentary though...if the guy hasn't had any experiences with other guys, you could expect at least an open mind...

You could try building up to the idea too. Turn the tables on your boyfriend the next time you are having sex and you use a dildo...after his using it on you for a bit, tell him how turned on you would be if he were to lick the dildo and put it in his mouth. Do this before you bring him or yourself to climax so that he has incentive...hmmm...hopefully my wife isn't reading this <grin>. She doesn't need any more ideas...

If he balks with a toy, chances are, you won't get him to do it with a live guy.

I don't know if I have helped or hurt your argument, maybe a little of both...

Xandermark

These thoughts are solely the warped and twisted ideas of a straight man...mmm, mmm, do I love a good curve...

 

[docisin]

So the question I have after reading all these great, honest posts, is, what about safe sex? I mean how do people handle it? If it's MMW and the men give each other head, do you use condoms for that? Sign me: really curious because I can't wait to try it!

 

[Guest]

I'am still a firm believer (pun...) that what goes around comes around...What ever m'lady desires it's all good. Washington state.