Threesome Maybe?????

[Rashashea]

Ok, Here is my situation. been married for 5 years to dh and have a dd who is 4 and am expecting in about 6 weeks, anywho hubby and I have a pretty good sex life, well the other night we got to talking about having a threesome with another women and both got turned on so much that we had sex like 3 times in about and hour, has been quite a while since that has happened. Problem is I am not sure if we should act out or fantasy or just talk about it. I am a very jealous person and this really bothers me that I am so turned on by it. Hubby says he doesn't want to have entercourse with her just watch us and get in some oral action himself ( he loves to eat it) What do you all think?
thanks
Rasha

 

[kaiya]

My two cents

I think you should get together with a mutual friend, or at least get to know who it is B4 you 3-some... explore the grounds, talk about it with her first, too... who knows, you may even end up get so turned on just talking about it, that things just happen.

Whatever way you work it out, make sure that you are not jealous of anything that might go on... it's better to be comfortable and enjoy it more, than to have jealous feelings (from anyone) ruin the party...

Otherwise, I say, go for it!

 

[Guest]

me too

I have been married for 3 yrs, sex is better than great, and we recently had this fantasy also, but my hubby wants to go for it! I had no idea he would have any interest. He wants to have it with another girl and for me to get in on all the action, which I have never done, but the idea turns me on bad. So, what do I do? Neither one of us have ever done this before, is it Ok for married people or does it screw up your relationship. I am really not the Jealous type, but still... Any good ideas...Anything...

 

[Mellon Collie]

for Rashashea

I don't think you should go for it and if you do you should think long and hard about the consequences first. I mean you said it yourself, you're a person prone to jealousy and I'm sure seeing your husband even drooling over some other girl let alone being with her would agitate that part of you.

 

[LadyTabitha]

It's a peachy keen experience.....IF you can keep the right frame of mind about all of it. First of all, talk every last detail with your lover. Make sure they know it's going to be a ONE-time thing (if it is) so there is no "OH, well you let me sleep with him/her before...." afterwards. Also find someone you trust explicitly, and make sure they are clear that this does not mean they can come over and have sex with your partner when you are not there. Finally, make sure all parties are protected (in this day and age, even a nun could have a little "surprise" that could ruin your day for a loooooong time to come ) If you are willing to take the responsabilities for it, then act away! I've never regretted it.