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[Sexy&SweetinMN]

I am really wanting to have a threesome with my fiance and his best friend. My fiance knows about this and says that he would if his friend goes for it. I know his friend is attracted to me, because he has told me so. So how do we make this happen? We can't let his gf find out either because she is kind of my friend and is a total prude. Suggestions please!!

 

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[ExtacyCouple]

My wife and I had a threesome with my best friend a few years back. We were all very drunk and my wife just reached over and pulled his cock out and started sucking it. There was no prior discussion or planning. We have done it about 4 or 5 times since then and it has always been great. We actually just got together about a week ago while we were on vacation.

My advice is that if you both really want this take him out have some drinks to loosen everbody up and you be the aggressor and just make it happen. When he sees that your fiance is into he will be to. He will probably freak out when you first touch him thinking your fiance is going to kick his ass.

Another approach would be for you all to go out and when you get a chance get him alone and tell him that you would really like to have sex with him and your fiance at the same time and that your fiance is into it as well. If he is into it well then it's on, if he is not say no problem and that you totally understand.

Last piece of advice give yourself a good reality check before you do it. If either one of you is the slightest bit the jealuos type don't do it.

Lastly, have fun.

 

[TimeCrisis]

Actually funny you ask about a month ago i was in pretty much the same situation except i was the extra person. There were actually 5 of us we all got liquored played some cards with cards with wonderful sex scenes on them and the rest happened from there. Expect I think it helped that we were all swinger really. If anything Im in MN too and always love a good threesome if your interested

 

[tupak187]

I WANT A 3SOME

I had recently lost my virginity, and i wanted some information on 3somes itself.

My girlfriend is kinda into the idea herself, but we lost our virginity to eachother and we are both kinda inexperienced. We have great sex but i kinda always wanted to try it. how do i get my gf out of the shyness. oh, and she has friends that are wlling

 

[DuckLover]

I'm interested in people's advice too. I've been turned on by the idea for quite a while (what guy isn't?) and the woman I've been sleeping with has recently started getting interested too. (All those great 3some stories on Lit have played a big role!)

Neither of us knows quite how to proceed-- finding someone (another F preferably), approaching them and then having it happen.

I've been in situations with the potential for group sex to happen, but it never did. One person was in approach-avoid mode, and poor me was feeling like an extra wheel. I think the idea of two people starting to make out and then the third joining in sounds most workable of what's come up so far.

Ideas?

 

[Sunday Comes]

my questions are how do you find someone who is good for the 3rd person, and how can you be sure that it's safe?

both my gf and i got tested before we started having sex. i think both of us might like to have a third person to help please us, since every time (well, it happened twice) we have both kissed a girl, it was really fun and got us really horny.

i have no idea how to pull it off! an escort service? are those safe at all??

 

[KMann]

We can't let his gf find out either because she is kind of my friend and is a total prude. Suggestions please!!

Sounds complicated, maybe you should look elsewhere. Consider Dan Savage's recent advice column,

http://www.eastbayexpress.com/savage/2002-07-10/index.html

 

[latinlove]

threesome

As far as wanting a threesome, my husband and I do. We are having a really hard time trying to find a woman to join us. Since we have never done this before, we don't know where to look. I am more sure of doing this than he is, but he is very open to the idea... any advice as to how we can find someone willing to join a couple?

 

[Native Alien]

Might I make a suggestion to you all? Try looking into swing groups in your area, or poly groups. Those are usually good places to start. Or if you want just pm me and I have a couple of other places that you can look.

 

[wonderful]

Alcohol is a good way to get people relaxed. Once inhibitions come down, the rest can happen if it's what people really want.

Your boyfriend is going to need to be in the right mind for this. It's a pretty emotional time when you see your loved one making love to someone else.

A comfy situation is what you need ... no pressure ... just let it happen. Forcing it can add all sorts of extra ramifications to the inevitable ones of something like this.

Good luck ... it is fantastic if it works.

 

[DuckLover]

A common piece of advice I see, and tend to agree with, is that explicit prior communication is critical. My gf and I have talked about our desires and expectations and limits, both for ourselves and each other. We now both know what is and is not acceptable in different situations. Our conversation developed after reading lots of Lit threads on the topic and one soft night with a mutual friend (M). Body shots started getting intimate; we got excited and he got hesitant and backed off (he didn't want to be unfaithful to his gf).