Threesome experiences

[NorthRockJohnson]

My girlfriend and I are talking about having a threesome. FFM. The "cool kind". So let's talk shop.

Questions:

Have you done a three way?

Would you?

Would you do it if you were in a serious relationship?

Who would you do it with?

 

[zydrate]

My girlfriend and I are talking about having a threesome. FFM. The "cool kind". So let's talk shop.

Questions:

Have you done a three way?

Would you?

Would you do it if you were in a serious relationship?

Who would you do it with?

Yes.
Yes.
Yes.
And who ever was willing, lol

 

[submit4pleasure]

My girlfriend and I are talking about having a threesome. FFM. The "cool kind". So let's talk shop.

Questions:

Have you done a three way?

Would you?

Would you do it if you were in a serious relationship?

Who would you do it with?

Yes, many times, both FFM and MMF. It's on my bucketlist to have a FFF....
Already have
Have in past relationships, wish I could convince my current man to do it with me now
The chick I'm crushing on.

 

[PaulieJay]

My girlfriend and I are talking about having a threesome. FFM. The "cool kind". So let's talk shop.

Questions:

Have you done a three way?

Would you?

Would you do it if you were in a serious relationship?

Who would you do it with?

I have, a few times (and the cool kind) & I would again but depending on the situation

I have done in a serious relationship my ex is bi, if my gf/wife wasnt experienced in it she would really really have to want to do it for me to go there...... the lifestyle isnt really for the faint at heart, requires alot of trust, self-confidence & communication. I will say sometimes usually the 1st time the idea is way more sexy than the action lol - think 1st having sex, there might be some awkwardness

EDIT
I forgot to answer #4. I'd probably be more prone to do it with women in the lifestyle, and I would possibly never try to convert/convince a "virgin" (to that world) woman to go there, it really world more likely be friends with benefits, rather than someone I was in a relationship with (Not to scare you away from it)

Good luck!

 

[Kat73]

My girlfriend and I are talking about having a threesome. FFM. The "cool kind". So let's talk shop.

Questions:

Have you done a three way?

I have been in 4 FFM and 1 MMF.

Would you?

Again? Absolutely.

Would you do it if you were in a serious relationship?

I was either dating my husband or married to him when all of them took place.

Who would you do it with?

The first four were planned out. We had been friends for some time. The last one was flirting turned more!! If it feels right, go for it. Be sure you and your girl talk, especially after. Jealousy tends to be the biggest issue from those I have talked to.

 

[Sundayschild]

Had an opportunity that I didn't pursue specifically because of a high chance of jealousy. Still think of what might have been, but it was (and remains) the correct decision.

 

[GimmeMooreGirl]

Questions:

Have you done a three way? Yes, twice. FMF and FFF.

Would you? I would do it again for sure.

Would you do it if you were in a serious relationship? Only if my partner was one of the two I was with.

Who would you do it with? I enjoyed both FMF and FFF. I am afraid of MFM. I like the fantasy of being controlled but I don't know about being controlled in real life. I think being with two males would be scary.

 

[cowslinger64]

My girlfriend and I are talking about having a threesome. FFM. The "cool kind". So let's talk shop.

Questions:

Have you done a three way?

Would you?

Would you do it if you were in a serious relationship?

Who would you do it with?

I've had ten ffms. 3 of them a couple months ago.

So, obviously I would.

I would certainly consider it in a serious relationship, but none of mine were. The first ones were with an ex and her best friend. The last were with a couple of fuck buddies.

There are women in this lifestyle looking for such things.. there are quite a few available that I'd think about doing it with.

My first one was an 8 hour marathon that I'd hoped to top with the last adventures, but that didn't happen.. it was still pretty freakin hot tho and I have good memories of them.

I'd be super cautious about it tho... the jealousy thing really can play into it.. if you have a really great thing, I'd think about it... they don't always end well.

Make sure we get details!!

 

[Penuche]

1) No
2) Perhaps
3) Perhaps
4) It would have to be somebody who both my partner and I find attractive, which is the main reason that when the chance arose it was rejected.

FWIW I agree that jealousy can be a problem which needs addressing preferably before it arises; friends of mine are swingers, and they thought they'd have no problem there, until they did, and it bit them hard.

 

[janeyl]

My girlfriend and I are talking about having a threesome. FFM. The "cool kind". So let's talk shop.

Questions:

Have you done a three way?

Yes...many...even the "uncool" ones...

Would you?

Yes...they're fun. I tend to prefer 4 with another couple-more options for play...or even more occasionally...

Would you do it if you were in a serious relationship?

I am in a serious relationship...

Who would you do it with?

I only do them with people who are really up for it-not doing it to please someone else or fulfil someone else's fantasy...bisexual couples suit me best because of the possibilities it opens up. People who are aware of and respect the dynamic of our relationship either couples or singles and couples who have a solid, open relationship with good communication between them. There have to be no insecurities in either partner because that just leads to conflict-sometimes mid play...not entertaining for anyone involved...believe me...

I'm not a performing seal, I won't just do girl on girl for someone to watch for their entertainment or wank fodder...don't treat the woman you invite on as one or as some kind of plaything to fulfil your fantasies...this has to be about her wants and needs too...

Set your boundaries early on. Will there be kissing? Some people don't. Are there things that are off limits? They don't have to be set in stone prior to meeting but do not deviate from them mid play...talk about it afterwards then adjust the boundaries again...stopping mid play to negotiate whether or not you can do something is really lame and just doing it can also lead to conflict...

Be prepared not to feel how you imagined you would when seeing your partner being pleasured by someone else...I find it a huge turn on but some people I know can't cope with it...

On the plus side...take lots of condoms, lube and be safe...enjoy and talk loads about it afterwards too...some of the best sex I've had with my partner has been after a third person has gone home and we relive our favourite moments...

 

[NorthRockJohnson]

Wow, thanks everyone for their thoughts. So we were talking the other day about things we would be into trying. I mentioned that I recently had a dream we had a threeway, not thinking it would actually be something to put on the table, but she actually perked up approvingly and we talked about it. It's certainly on the table but I told her too that what we have is to awesome for me to potentially fuck it up or cause tension and also I'm having way too much fun with just us for awhile. But hey, ya never know

 

[Backdoor_Bella]

Questions:

Have you done a three way? I haven't.

Would you? I just don't think I have it in me..I am extremely into my partner and everything else is a blur in the background. to be perfectly honest, I want a guy who wants exclusivity with me

Would you do it if you were in a serious relationship? I don't see myself ever doing it.

Who would you do it with? I think I'll stick to watching other people threesome-ing each other

 

[lakesailer_mi]

Questions:

Have you done a three way? I haven't.

Would you? I just don't think I have it in me..I am extremely into my partner and everything else is a blur in the background. to be perfectly honest, I want a guy who wants exclusivity with me

Would you do it if you were in a serious relationship? I don't see myself ever doing it.

Who would you do it with? I think I'll stick to watching other people threesome-ing each other

I actually think this is a great answer.

I've never done one.

Frankly, I'm kind of just like this: when I'm with my partner I'm focused on her. I think it would be pretty difficult for me to do a three way. I would have a tough time focusing, if that makes any sense.

 

[NorthRockJohnson]

On this subject I had another threesome dream. It was me, gf and Nikki Minaj. Go figure. Lol