If your mate asked you to participate in a threesome would you do it? Are you a male or female? Would you insist that the third party be a member of the same sex as your mate or would it not matter? Would you divorce/break up with your mate for even asking?
Threesome anyone?
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I guess I'll throw my $.02 in on this one...
Yes, I would.
Male
With the right person, it wouldn't matter one bit.
No, again, with the right person, it could be great!
What can I say, I'm a "typical" male.
I guess I'll throw my $.02 in on this one...
Yes, I would.
Male
With the right person, it wouldn't matter one bit.
No, again, with the right person, it could be great!
What can I say, I'm a "typical" male.
dee_cole said:
Yes, Yes I would.
Female.
No way in this world is this girl going to have another woman touch her, so please yes let them be the same sex as my Partner (oh and yes he knows that).
No. This question is one of trust and openness, if you have that then your obviously going to feel comfortable asking.
Hope this helped
teresafannin
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Yes
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the third person would have to be a female as I know my sweetie wouldn't want to see me with another guy, but might be open to another female.
Nope, he is stuck with me forever.
Female
the third person would have to be a female as I know my sweetie wouldn't want to see me with another guy, but might be open to another female.
Nope, he is stuck with me forever.
insideShiraz
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I'd rather...
...That she had an affair that I didn't ever find out about, I'd do the same for her...I can't share like that...
...That she had an affair that I didn't ever find out about, I'd do the same for her...I can't share like that...
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Hey
whatever happened to dave-73 anyway? Weren't you two buddies?
whatever happened to dave-73 anyway? Weren't you two buddies?
My first & only threesome was amazing. Being female, watching another female being fucked was amazing....so unlike a porn film. I really didn't think I would get into it, but when he got up to go to the bathroom, she & I were all over each other. Goodies for him...he came back in time to watch.
Would I do it again? Probably, but not with her..she squeeked. Literally, and all the time. I figured we should set out mousetraps.
Would I do it again? Probably, but not with her..she squeeked. Literally, and all the time. I figured we should set out mousetraps.
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Damn Shelby, that really sounds hot! I've been involved with 2 bi-fems in a menage a trois, and I must say that it was probably the best sexual experience I've ever had.
Long live bi-females!
Long live bi-females!
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Well, I'll start off by saying that I am bisexual. My ex and I have been with other couples (never only a "third"). I have been in 3somes in the past though. It doesn't matter to me if the extra person is male or female. So, to actually answer your question (lol), I would not get mad at my mate if he asked to be in a 3some. I would most likely do it. It wouldn't matter really if the 3rd was male or female.
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Done most all of it......
And more than a few times too - your mind set and the chemistry regarding the other(s) is all that matters. If that's right - it's all fun. And rare fun at that.
My partner (me wife) and I - we seem to carry little baggage, and that baggage we do carry is fairly easily disposed of - at least long enough to share in "this kind of fun" - a kind of fun that most folks, seemingly - can only fantasize about.
I would wish those capabilities on anyone - any couple. Because it is very, very fun.
And more than a few times too - your mind set and the chemistry regarding the other(s) is all that matters. If that's right - it's all fun. And rare fun at that.
My partner (me wife) and I - we seem to carry little baggage, and that baggage we do carry is fairly easily disposed of - at least long enough to share in "this kind of fun" - a kind of fun that most folks, seemingly - can only fantasize about.
I would wish those capabilities on anyone - any couple. Because it is very, very fun.
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- If your mate asked you to participate in a threesome would you do it? No
- Are you a male or female? female
- Would you insist that the third party be a member of the same sex as your mate or would it not matter? No answer necessary
- Would you divorce/break up with your mate for even asking? No
We both consider it cheating we've discussed it. For us whether you're having sex with someone else behind their back or with them it is cheating to us. But, that is us. Although, if you are agreeable to do it then it would be preferrable to going out and doing someone behind your S/O's back.
We do participate in threesomes; I am a bi female so we have had both sexes in our threesomes...all were fabulous.
If we had not already been involved in this activity...would I divorce/breakup for his asking...
NEVER, everyone should be able to talk to and to tell their partner their desires and wants, they may not be in tune with your ideas but they should feel that they can come to you to discuss them. No one should be made to feel like they are "freaky" for expressing their sexual desires.
If we had not already been involved in this activity...would I divorce/breakup for his asking...
NEVER, everyone should be able to talk to and to tell their partner their desires and wants, they may not be in tune with your ideas but they should feel that they can come to you to discuss them. No one should be made to feel like they are "freaky" for expressing their sexual desires.
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I have had threesomes with my husband and a really good long time friend (male), but I would NEVER consider it with anyone else but them. I actually enjoy the threesomes. I have to admit they are NO substitue for the experience between two people. It was a mutual desision that we try this threesome and I wouldn't think anybody asking their partner for a threesome would be grounds for divorce or break-up. I have always wanted to try group sex (the thought of a big orgy turns me on) but I don't see that happening ever! I would also love to have sex with a woman but I would never do it in a threesome with my husband, he's all mine!
I am still in shock from last night.
Upon the positive feedback I got from some of you all I decided to get both of the women that I have been dating together last night. I had previously asked them both about a threesome and they both said that although they were curious, they would never go through with it. THEY LIED!
They both said it was their first time with another woman, but they were all over each other. I found out last night that one of them likes to be choked while she's being fucked, and that the other loves anal. She had never mentioned it before but while she was getting eaten out she asked me to fuck her in the ass.
In addition to the greatest blow job of the century, I no longer have to sneak around. The three of us are going to the movies and dinner on Friday.
I wonder how long it will be before they are sneaking around without me.
Ces't la vi'.
Upon the positive feedback I got from some of you all I decided to get both of the women that I have been dating together last night. I had previously asked them both about a threesome and they both said that although they were curious, they would never go through with it. THEY LIED!
They both said it was their first time with another woman, but they were all over each other. I found out last night that one of them likes to be choked while she's being fucked, and that the other loves anal. She had never mentioned it before but while she was getting eaten out she asked me to fuck her in the ass.
In addition to the greatest blow job of the century, I no longer have to sneak around. The three of us are going to the movies and dinner on Friday.
I wonder how long it will be before they are sneaking around without me.
Ces't la vi'.
How do you get there
Yes I would do it.
Male
My wife & I have talked about it (mainly during sex), fantasized and generally gotten off on the idea but actually making the move to get someone else involved hasn't been the easiest thing. She is interested in trying another woman but a man as a third ani't out of the question (I'm heterosexual). How do you go about getting the whole thing rolling!
Yes I would do it.
Male
My wife & I have talked about it (mainly during sex), fantasized and generally gotten off on the idea but actually making the move to get someone else involved hasn't been the easiest thing. She is interested in trying another woman but a man as a third ani't out of the question (I'm heterosexual). How do you go about getting the whole thing rolling!
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Yes
We had a threesome (mff) looking forward to mmf when the oppt. presents it's self.
No we aren't divorced or contemplating it -it personally brought us even closer together. see below
The internet and local clubs facilitate meeting people with similar interests (you'd be surprised as to the number of people who have really incorporated this a a "lifestyle".
Proceed carefully and always play safe!
What the notion of (and participating in)a threesome (and swinging for that matter) did for us was force a level of honesty (in my life in general as well as sexually)I had only been paying lip service to because of fear and personal insecurity. I made the decision and brought up exploring the fantasy b/c I wasn't happy limiting myself in this way. It's funny that two people who love each other and trust each other more than any other human being on the planet would rather remain in a mist of lies and deception than the truth.
Ex: I'm not knocking the decision others make as I hate when it's done to me. This is merely an observation not an attack or recruiting mission. Someone mentioned that they would rather their spouse and lie and cheat behind their back than explore a truth that this person has (or is entertaining).
Threesomes and other sexual fantasies rarely work out exactly the way they do in your head. It's all about will work for everyone involved. Above all everyone must be honest with the other person and themselves. Just my .025 cents and above all I reinterate you have to do what works for you in your life I was only making an observation so please don't let this comment spoil your day.
It's Friday --Yipeee!
Wg
We had a threesome (mff) looking forward to mmf when the oppt. presents it's self.
No we aren't divorced or contemplating it -it personally brought us even closer together. see below
The internet and local clubs facilitate meeting people with similar interests (you'd be surprised as to the number of people who have really incorporated this a a "lifestyle".
Proceed carefully and always play safe!
What the notion of (and participating in)a threesome (and swinging for that matter) did for us was force a level of honesty (in my life in general as well as sexually)I had only been paying lip service to because of fear and personal insecurity. I made the decision and brought up exploring the fantasy b/c I wasn't happy limiting myself in this way. It's funny that two people who love each other and trust each other more than any other human being on the planet would rather remain in a mist of lies and deception than the truth.
Ex: I'm not knocking the decision others make as I hate when it's done to me. This is merely an observation not an attack or recruiting mission. Someone mentioned that they would rather their spouse and lie and cheat behind their back than explore a truth that this person has (or is entertaining).
Threesomes and other sexual fantasies rarely work out exactly the way they do in your head. It's all about will work for everyone involved. Above all everyone must be honest with the other person and themselves. Just my .025 cents and above all I reinterate you have to do what works for you in your life I was only making an observation so please don't let this comment spoil your day.
It's Friday --Yipeee!
Wg
If your mate asked you to participate in a threesome would you do it? Most definetly!!
Are you a male or female? I am a male
Would you insist that the third party be a member of the same sex as your mate or would it not matter? It wouldnt matter, but she wouldnt want another woman.. (doesnt matter beecause I am bi. I told her about that and she got pissed off. oh well)
Would you divorce/break up with your mate for even asking? I wouldnt. she threatened to.. maybe I ought to tak her up on it...
Arkuss
Are you a male or female? I am a male
Would you insist that the third party be a member of the same sex as your mate or would it not matter? It wouldnt matter, but she wouldnt want another woman.. (doesnt matter beecause I am bi. I told her about that and she got pissed off. oh well)
Would you divorce/break up with your mate for even asking? I wouldnt. she threatened to.. maybe I ought to tak her up on it...
Arkuss
