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arienette

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So, I've been thinking about this idea for quite a while and I've finally come to the point where I'm (thinking) about definitely doing it. I've been a "classy porn" / pinup girl fan for quite some time and I tried my hand at posing over at the Amateur Pic thread as well as had my own Yahoo group. Well the Yahoo group got closed basically because I wanted to expand on my idea a bit more.

I want to open up my own risque' picture/cam/video website. There's a lot of money to be made in something like this and it's something that I thoroughly enjoy and can do from home. Sites I've been looking at and would like to creatively parallel are: SuicideGirls.com (I'm the owner of a subscription and it's a wonderful site) and LoveRenee.com

So now I'd like thoughts, opinions, etc. I'm looking in to how I can do the billing and stuff, so far I've come across Verotel.com (tickets club) and CC Bill .

Thanks guys.
 
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Not sure about the process, but you're lovely. :rose:

Much luck,

Yui
 
My sister was pretty successful with http://suicidegirls.com/, but she ran into some "politics" issues. I guess some of the other women get really territorial or something. :confused: I don't know if that helps, but best of luck!
 
Have you looked into a pay-pal setup?

I don't know if it would work, but think of all the people who already have their info in it.
 
dizzylia said:
My sister was pretty successful with http://suicidegirls.com/, but she ran into some "politics" issues. I guess some of the other women get really territorial or something. :confused: I don't know if that helps, but best of luck!

Well I'm not going to pose on Suicide Girls, I've just been a fan for years so I'm using it as a frame of reference. Basically, I want to open my own website kind of like SG with the intention of it being more classy than pornographic; nothing too explicit is going to be on it.
 
arienette said:
Well I'm not going to pose on Suicide Girls, I've just been a fan for years so I'm using it as a frame of reference. Basically, I want to open my own website kind of like SG with the intention of it being more classy than pornographic; nothing too explicit is going to be on it.
Ah, very sorry, I misread. The alcohol had nothing to do with it, I'm sure :eek:

In that case, I think it's a wonderful idea. The world can always use more art, especially if it helps us get past the "Oh no, it's SKIN!" idea. I think if everyone were more comfortable in their own skin, we'd have fewer problems.

Sorry, tangent. Paypal might be a good starting point. It's easy to understand, it's safe... hard to get unexpectedly jacked in a bad way.
 
dizzylia said:
Ah, very sorry, I misread. The alcohol had nothing to do with it, I'm sure :eek:

In that case, I think it's a wonderful idea. The world can always use more art, especially if it helps us get past the "Oh no, it's SKIN!" idea. I think if everyone were more comfortable in their own skin, we'd have fewer problems.

Sorry, tangent. Paypal might be a good starting point. It's easy to understand, it's safe... hard to get unexpectedly jacked in a bad way.

Well I would definitely go with PayPal because that's what I use for my web design gigs, but anything "adult" oriented they won't help out with, so I'm really looking more into CC Bill, seems pretty okay so far and there's a very very very very low chance of getting "jacked", so that's good.
 
Billing is going to be your major barrier. The ones that cater directly to adult sites are going to stick it to you pretty heavy, and any service that doesn't directly cater to adult sites usually ends up refusing transactions from them eventually.

You'll also want to make sure you have all the appropriate 2257 paperwork in place, even if you're the only model on the site.

You might consider a testrun at someplace like Ifriends, or Peekshows. You might even consider using one of those as the cam component of your website, eliminating some initial overhead at first. Ifriends would be a good choice for that really, even though I'm a chat admin over at Peeks and really should be tooting their horn :p You can just do more linking back and forth, set your own prices, and have looser restrictions at Ifriends as to what you can/can't or are willing/unwilling to do.

Edit to add: Since you're aiming for something more classy, Ifriends would certainly be the better choice. There's an expectation of a lot more at Peeks. Ifriends has a lot more of the type of audiance you're seeking.

Just a few quick thoughts off the top of my head.
 
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arienette said:
Well I would definitely go with PayPal because that's what I use for my web design gigs, but anything "adult" oriented they won't help out with, so I'm really looking more into CC Bill, seems pretty okay so far and there's a very very very very low chance of getting "jacked", so that's good.

Drat. I was thinking of the convenience that would allow as a major plus.
 
Darkniciad said:
Billing is going to be your major barrier. The ones that cater directly to adult sites are going to stick it to you pretty heavy, and any service that doesn't directly cater to adult sites usually ends up refusing transactions from them eventually.

You'll also want to make sure you have all the appropriate 2257 paperwork in place, even if you're the only model on the site.

You might consider a testrun at someplace like Ifriends, or Peekshows. You might even consider using one of those as the cam component of your website, eliminating some initial overhead at first. Ifriends would be a good choice for that really, even though I'm a chat admin over at Peeks and really should be tooting their horn :p You can just do more linking back and forth, set your own prices, and have looser restrictions at Ifriends as to what you can/can't or are willing/unwilling to do.

Just a few quick thoughts off the top of my head.

I did a bit of a test run here and with a Yahoo group and it went over extremely well, which is why I have decided to really start getting on this website idea. Billing seems to be taken care of with this place, the only thing I won't be able to do is process a Visa card, but there's Mastercard, Discover, online checks as well as telephone billing, so it's cool.

Thank you so much, I really appreciate it.
 
I've had experience with CCBill as a customer, and haven't had any issues. :eek:

I haven't been billed when I sent in cancellations within the time specified by the website (DAMN CHEAP WINE!), and I haven't had any other problems.

Honestly, I think that there's sort of a porn consortium for independent girls starting their own sites - you see common layouts and common promotional venues. It's clearly a huge business, with its own structure and players. Follow the links on the top couple of sites advertised on this website, and you'll soon see patterns.
 
Huckleman2000 said:
I've had experience with CCBill as a customer, and haven't had any issues. :eek:

I haven't been billed when I sent in cancellations within the time specified by the website (DAMN CHEAP WINE!), and I haven't had any other problems.

Honestly, I think that there's sort of a porn consortium for independent girls starting their own sites - you see common layouts and common promotional venues. It's clearly a huge business, with its own structure and players. Follow the links on the top couple of sites advertised on this website, and you'll soon see patterns.

Yeah, I've done my research with that, but I'm a web designer and my boyfriend knows the ins and outs of ecommerce so hopefully I'll have a good layout up.
 
One more thing that will really help you capture your audiance: Interact!

Get a safe email, perhaps even put up a web forum with a shoutbox for pseudo-live chat. At the very least, put up some sort of regularly updated Blog.

If you have a good friend who can intimidate folk, you might even consider getting a PO box in a nearby town where viewers can send you outfits to wear in pics and on cam. Have your friend pick the things up and deliver them to you the next day, keeping an eye out for strange characters, or maybe even re-ship them to you to better secure things and keep your location secret.

While my girl was working on cam, she had people send her everything from leather bustiers to chainmail bikinis for nothing more than getting to see them on cam and exclusive pics. We're talking about some seriously expensive stuff that you can get a lot of use out of. Not to mention the vast quantities of sexy panties you'll end up with :)

The interaction will keep people coming back day after day, makes them feel like more than a member-number, and develops word of mouth that will grow your site. Just be *careful* Those stalker stories are far more than stories. People can easily go overboard.
 
Darkniciad said:
One more thing that will really help you capture your audiance: Interact!

Get a safe email, perhaps even put up a web forum with a shoutbox for pseudo-live chat. At the very least, put up some sort of regularly updated Blog.

If you have a good friend who can intimidate folk, you might even consider getting a PO box in a nearby town where viewers can send you outfits to wear in pics and on cam. Have your friend pick the things up and deliver them to you the next day, keeping an eye out for strange characters, or maybe even re-ship them to you to better secure things and keep your location secret.

While my girl was working on cam, she had people send her everything from leather bustiers to chainmail bikinis for nothing more than getting to see them on cam and exclusive pics. We're talking about some seriously expensive stuff that you can get a lot of use out of. Not to mention the vast quantities of sexy panties you'll end up with :)

The interaction will keep people coming back day after day, makes them feel like more than a member-number, and develops word of mouth that will grow your site. Just be *careful* Those stalker stories are far more than stories. People can easily go overboard.

Okay, you are awesome in my book now. Thank you so much for the tips, they're really great ideas. I'm going to set up a PO Box perhaps after a month of the site being open, but I will have a blog and also a forum, much like this - I know how to code them, so it should be no problem.

Thanks again.
 
If you get stuck trying to get something working in PHP, give me a hollar and I'll look into it. I'm not bad, and I've got connections to one of the best PHP coders I've ever encountered if I can't pull something off on my own. Good luck with everything :)
 
Darkniciad said:
If you get stuck trying to get something working in PHP, give me a hollar and I'll look into it. I'm not bad, and I've got connections to one of the best PHP coders I've ever encountered if I can't pull something off on my own. Good luck with everything :)

Thanks a ton! :kiss:
 
I checked out SuicideGirls.com and all I can say is

Does everyone have to pierce their nipples???

I love nipples!

I see those dumbell things in a nipple and I think OWHHH! POOR NIPPLE!

If I suck on one of those nipples, won't it hurt?

That POOR NIPPLE!

Oh, will that thing hurt my fillings if I suck the whole boob? Am I going to hear WXYZ in my molars?

OH, that POOR NIPPLE! It needs some tender care! Come to Papa, he'll make it all better.

Nipples are the most perfect part! It hurts to see them in pain!
 
Huckleman2000 said:
I checked out SuicideGirls.com and all I can say is

Does everyone have to pierce their nipples???

I love nipples!

I see those dumbell things in a nipple and I think OWHHH! POOR NIPPLE!

If I suck on one of those nipples, won't it hurt?

That POOR NIPPLE!

Oh, will that thing hurt my fillings if I suck the whole boob? Am I going to hear WXYZ in my molars?

OH, that POOR NIPPLE! It needs some tender care! Come to Papa, he'll make it all better.

Nipples are the most perfect part! It hurts to see them in pain!

I used to have mine done. The barbells were too short and they never healed, but I loved them and yes, you can suck on them; in fact, it's very important you do when they're pierced because they're oh so very much more sensitive. I want to get mine done again real badly.
 
Best of luck to you with your venture. Let us know the link when you get it up and running. I might stop by. :)
 
AchtungNight said:
Best of luck to you with your venture. Let us know the link when you get it up and running. I might stop by. :)

Thank you and thanks to the people who have PMed me about this and given me great advice.
 
Here I am again *laugh* It's been a while since I built an adult site that wasn't just a throw-together like my stories link, and I'm having fun offering suggestions.

Make sure you have a teaser portal linked from the main index as well. Put up a nice set of teaser pics, including at least a few member-side quality ones. Have a nice, sultry voice you're comfortable teasing with? Put up a link to an audio file welcoming people to come inside ;) The power of a woman's voice is not to be ignored. Perhaps even a short teaser video within the portal as well. Give people a good example of what they'll find on the inside, and they'll be ready to come on in and join you.

Outline the nature of what is available inside with the teases, including any differences between what is on the teaser and the member-side. No huge "JOIN NOW!" type links on the teaser pages, either. Just put a join link in the main menu. People will find it, and it feels like badgering when there's a join now link every three inches on a page.

Don't write the teaser, or the main site for that matter, like a webmaster. Write it from a personal perspective. Since you can code, you can really put some punch into the site by making it all about you, not filtered through a webmaster.

On the aside, Ari is the nickname of the central character in my Blackhawk Hall series, Arilee :)
 
Darkniciad said:
Here I am again *laugh* It's been a while since I built an adult site that wasn't just a throw-together like my stories link, and I'm having fun offering suggestions.

Make sure you have a teaser portal linked from the main index as well. Put up a nice set of teaser pics, including at least a few member-side quality ones. Have a nice, sultry voice you're comfortable teasing with? Put up a link to an audio file welcoming people to come inside ;) The power of a woman's voice is not to be ignored. Perhaps even a short teaser video within the portal as well. Give people a good example of what they'll find on the inside, and they'll be ready to come on in and join you.

Outline the nature of what is available inside with the teases, including any differences between what is on the teaser and the member-side. No huge "JOIN NOW!" type links on the teaser pages, either. Just put a join link in the main menu. People will find it, and it feels like badgering when there's a join now link every three inches on a page.

Don't write the teaser, or the main site for that matter, like a webmaster. Write it from a personal perspective. Since you can code, you can really put some punch into the site by making it all about you, not filtered through a webmaster.

On the aside, Ari is the nickname of the central character in my Blackhawk Hall series, Arilee :)

Suktry voice? Ha...I sound like I'm 8 - I have a tiny high pitched voice and people don't believe me when I tell them I'm 19; fuck, they won't even believe I'm 13. :rolleyes:
 
I just never could get into suicidegirls.com, too weird. I likes my womens more... I dunno... "mainstream"? I don't know the word for it.

But, hey, if someone can make a dollar and a cent off of mild personal exploitation, yee-haw, no?
 
arienette said:
Suktry voice? Ha...I sound like I'm 8 - I have a tiny high pitched voice and people don't believe me when I tell them I'm 19; fuck, they won't even believe I'm 13. :rolleyes:

Play around with a few different welcomes. If you have a higher pitch, perhaps shoot for something playful as opposed to sensual. You might just surprise yourself ;) Every woman has a certain something in her voice at times that can curl a man's toes. I'm sure your boyfriend knows what yours is, grab up some suggestions from him.

At the very least, even if you never find anything you're comfortable with, you'll probably get a few laughs out of hearing them played back to you. My girl recorded megabytes of stuff she would never let another soul hear once she played it back, but she had fun in the process, and there were always a few winners in the bunch that made it to the save button.
 
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