thoughts on man hitting a woman

[angel_of_love67]

my friend called me a few minutes ago and told me that her brother hit her after they were arguing ....someone said that she probably deserved it but in my opinion no man has the right to hit a woman


opinions??

 

[scarey123]

I gotta vote never. No place for physical violence between couples.

 

[angel_of_love67]

how is it that no one has any comments at all

 

[angel_of_love67]

but its not a couple it was her brother

 

[MT_Pitcher]

but its not a couple it was her brother

My thoughts
Came every close after being very provoked.........

I'm not talking spankings here....angry ..
Don't think it's right...........

 

[angel_of_love67]

did u try to post something mt

 

[angel_of_love67]

Mt you seems like a really sweet guy whats your opinion...ever if its her brother do you think he has the right to lay a hand on her

 

[angel_of_love67]

he also hit her while she was holding her 2 month old baby

 

[MT_Pitcher]

he also hit her while she was holding her 2 month old baby

No excuse whatsoever.........

 

[angel_of_love67]

yeah i didnt think so either ......

 

[pleasteasme]

my friend called me a few minutes ago and told me that her brother hit her after they were arguing ....someone said that she probably deserved it but in my opinion no man has the right to hit a woman


opinions??

That would be a BIG NO, NEVER. . . .unless he plans on getting his ass kicked by a girrrrl!!!

*sorry, sore subject*

Violence is not an answer - a cause, but not an answer!

 

[angel_of_love67]

THANK YOU some one with a brain how can anyone think that its ok i mean seriously but at least i know that some of you ppl out there dont believe in letting a man hit a woman

 

[pleasteasme]

THANK YOU some one with a brain how can anyone think that its ok i mean seriously but at least i know that some of you ppl out there dont believe in letting a man hit a woman

Without going into too much detail: I grew up in a physically abusive home and it was NOT pleasant in any way, shape, or form. it has left scars on more than just my body and anyone that has dealt with that type of abuse tends to be more 'accepting' of it as they are older. I on the other hand - DO NOT ACCEPT that behavior what so ever! It is not allowable and those that live that lifestyle and raise kids should be sterilized and dropped off on an island so they can beat the crap out of each other and leave everyone else out of it!!

OK, I am a little radical in my views, but I am passionate about this subject (so sue me)

Just my $ 0.02

 

[angel_of_love67]

no you are absolutly right and my friend the only reason she was upset was because she happened to be holding her baby and i flipped out i couldnt believe that she didnt care that he hit her it was more that he didnt it while she was holding her baby...i was like omg he should be hitting herr no matter what

 

[Cathleen]

No matter what the relationship is, there is no reason for someone to raise a hand to another. That is abuse plain and simple ~ violence is never appropriate.

 

[MT_Pitcher]

Without going into too much detail: I grew up in a physically abusive home and it was NOT pleasant in any way, shape, or form. it has left scars on more than just my body and anyone that has dealt with that type of abuse tends to be more 'accepting' of it as they are older. I on the other hand - DO NOT ACCEPT that behavior what so ever! It is not allowable and those that live that lifestyle and raise kids should be sterilized and dropped off on an island so they can beat the crap out of each other and leave everyone else out of it!!

OK, I am a little radical in my views, but I am passionate about this subject (so sue me)

Just my $ 0.02

For the abusive asses, that sounds great to me!!!
Not radical to me baby...

 

[angel_of_love67]

you are absolutely right cathleen it is very inapropriate no matter what

 

[CagedDesires]

Honestly face slapping...and getting rough in scene is okay,but if its not consensual that big no-no. No one should ever be put in such a situation

 

[angel_of_love67]

my parents always taught me and my brothers that a man should never hit a woman there are ver few instances where i would find it alright for that kind of behavior......and bring a 2 month old baby into the scene made it a 1000 times more wrong

 

[DirkPryde]

How about violence full stop ?

There is such a thing as being provoked ... I agree that every situation is different and as a general rule arguments should not be ended in violence.

On a bigger scale it would be nicley idealistic if, as a society we could end domestic violence altogether. Imagine if you will a society where the fundamental idea of resorting to violence was as far removed from us that it never became an issue, where the term violence was only used in reference to history.

Just some thoughts ...

 

[angel_of_love67]

i agree that it would be idealistic to think domestic violence could be done away with and that every situation is different ...but i stand by that there are very few instances where i find that it would be ok for a man to hit a woman..........for any man who has ever hit a woman all you are is a fucking bastard and a weak one at that

just my 0.02 cents

 

[islander01]

I disagree with the premise of the basic question. Hitting is just not acceptable in the realm of normal realtions... However If someone threatens My life or the lives of my loved ones that persons gender dosent even enter into the equation.

 

[angel_of_love67]

i agree that would be one of the few exceptions

 

[sxy_bi_horny_chick]

What her brother did... so not o.k. Violence between anyone shouldn't happen.

However, this is what I believe and I hope I don't get ragged on too much for say this, but I believe if a woman has enough balls to strike a man then she should be prepared to get hit back. If you wanna fight like a man, the do it. Don't go around hitting men and then act surprised when they hit back. Just my opinion.

 

[angel_of_love67]

i agree with that however she did not hit him first