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slightcrazed
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Not trying to pick a fight man.... seriously... but not everything has to be about sex. I'll probably get flamed like crazy for this, but sometimes I would take a good, deep conversation over sex, depending on my mood.
There are many pleasures in life... and not all of them have to do with getting naked and knockin' boots.
Just sayin'.
There are many pleasures in life... and not all of them have to do with getting naked and knockin' boots.
Just sayin'.
jonnyfingers69
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the reason is
if their spouse happens to stop by
if their spouse happens to stop by
jonpatato
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Dude, Most pleasures don't. But this is "literotica''.
but I do like to Mt.bike ride in the rough.
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Do you bag every hot person you see? Do you know people who are physically attractive but you shudder when you are forced to be around them because their personality sucks?
Most people want to connect with someone before they get intimate. Even a one night stand requires a few drinks and conversation before the sex.
Most people want to connect with someone before they get intimate. Even a one night stand requires a few drinks and conversation before the sex.
BurningMonkey
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A statement written from a quintessentially female frame of mind. Most guys I know--myself included--would be perfectly happy to start into the hot-n-heavy without any preliminaries at all...
Like a famous author said about prostitutes: "I don't pay them for the sex. I pay them to leave afterwards."
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Ldy_Sea
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So you would just walk into a bar and fuck the first female you see? No questions asked? Sorry but no guy would do that. What if she's a pyscho stalker?
Guys love the hunt. If a girl gives it up too quick they'll do her but then be an asshole to her.
If the girl resists a little and makes the guy work for it, he'll keep coming back. Men by nature Are hunters and need the thrill of the hunt. This is why the sure thing is quickly disposed of in favor of another conquest but the girl who plays hard to get keeps her man.
Everyone loves fast food on occasion, but not as a steady diet. Everyone likes to have a nice sit down multi course meal using all the utensils and maybe learning a few new ones too. Variety is the spice of life.
In response to your first three questions. "Yes, yes, and I won't know she's a stalker until I am done fucking her.
You have fallen for a big lie, and maybe if guys are an asshole to you after you give it up to them, then its not really because of a time frame, but because they weren't happy or satisfied by you.
Everyone loves fast food on occasion? You do not even know men at all, men love fast food and fast sexual gratification. I like it too. Its sex, you don't have to pretend its anything else. So live in your delusions and maybe you should keep reading harlequin romances. That's the real insight into men there. Women like you make me happy that my brain works and my body too. You brain deficient cunt! Live in your imaginary world!
You have fallen for a big lie, and maybe if guys are an asshole to you after you give it up to them, then its not really because of a time frame, but because they weren't happy or satisfied by you.
Everyone loves fast food on occasion? You do not even know men at all, men love fast food and fast sexual gratification. I like it too. Its sex, you don't have to pretend its anything else. So live in your delusions and maybe you should keep reading harlequin romances. That's the real insight into men there. Women like you make me happy that my brain works and my body too. You brain deficient cunt! Live in your imaginary world!
BrownIslandGurl
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So you are quite content living your life on fast food? Im not trying to be an ass at all about it just curious to be honest. I get where your coming from. I adore fast food (Not a slut btw!) and Im not saying that I agree with it at all. I just want to know, all the men that profess theyre love for the supposed one are just settling? When theyd rather be happy with a Hot pizza, easy sex and someone to clean the shit up afterward? Not saying that isnt a nice way to live, but is that really what all men on this earth want?
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So you are quite content living your life on fast food? Im not trying to be an ass at all about it just curious to be honest. I get where your coming from. I adore fast food (Not a slut btw!) and Im not saying that I agree with it at all. I just want to know, all the men that profess theyre love for the supposed one are just settling? When theyd rather be happy with a Hot pizza, easy sex and someone to clean the shit up afterward? Not saying that isnt a nice way to live, but is that really what all men on this earth want?
Not all the men, only the ones who live in momma's basement and insult people who use facts in arguments.
Few fact's about me never read a harlequin romance novel in my life. Never had a one night stand they always came back because I don't give it up u less the guy's willing to work for it. Friends of mine tough have told me stories.
Real men know how to treat a lady and wham bam is not how to treat a lady.
Maybe that's why you're the one here whining no one wants to talk to you cuz you have no respect for others, refuse listen to others opinions and result to insults and throw temper tantrums because no one spreads their legs for you seconds after you meet. So I guess it,s time to add another basement dweller to the Iggy list.
Have a nice whine. I'm gonna go make love to my husband for an hour or 2. I hope Rosie palm and her sisters don't have a headache tonight.
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Real men know how to treat a lady and wham bam is not how to treat a lady.
Nothing else matters
Nothing else matters
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First...the "men like women that are hard to get." is a myth...Men like hot women...hot women are choosy and so SOMETIMES men will put in the effort because...men like hot women...
P.S. "Hot" covers a LOT of territory..hard to quantify but you KNOW when you see it. And yeah..its a little shallow. Men are triggered visually...experience dictates that less attractive women are JUST as much (or more) trouble, so...
It's called "Attractive" for a reason.
WOMEN like MEN that are hard to get. Fact.
So they ASSUME men are similarly driven.
Women CAN get most men so they aim for the most desirable man they can find. How do they decide what is desirable? They look at other women's choices or the air of desirability that the man gives off. No that is not a cologne...it is assumed that if a guy ISN'T chasing her, he MUST regularly get girls HOTTER than her, therefore he must have that "something". Women are pretty flexible about what is desirable, and I regularly thank my maker for that..
Second: Men tend to fall hard for girls they are intimate with. They tend to attach emotional significance to the act. Bonding chemicals are released when men orgasm. I have no idea how it works for women, but I seem to see more FWB arrangements fail because the guy got to "needy' than the other way around.
The way I look at it you either decide sex is only for a long term committed relationship or it is just fun. Trying to calibrate a midpoint to the two extremes seems an exercise in futility.
It was a shock to me to learn fairly young that "Yes, Virgina, girls do use boys for their own sexual gratification."
I think everyone involved in such an intimate act owes it to each other to be frank about their objectives.
...and, no...I don't find that to be a very winning strategy...but I sleep ok.
I have no doubt that the stories your girlfriends have told you are accurate as far as they go from their understanding of what happened. I am sure MOST women have had an experience like you herein describe.
You have the correlation and causation backwards.
Only an asshole has the necessary credibility for a girl to give it up quick to.
There were ALWAYS signs that the guy treats PEOPLE that way, just maybe not HER as he was working on her defenses. How did he treat the waitress? His past girlfriend? His guy friends?
A "Nice Guy" doesn't BECOME and asshole because he got laid. The "Nice Guy" likely didn't get laid that night and left that bar alone. The "Nice Guy" scares women off, he might be clingy they fear.
The asshole seemed "safe" for a romp...they knew they wouldn't feel bad if THEY have to discard HIM. This stuff cuts both ways.
P.S. "Hot" covers a LOT of territory..hard to quantify but you KNOW when you see it. And yeah..its a little shallow. Men are triggered visually...experience dictates that less attractive women are JUST as much (or more) trouble, so...
It's called "Attractive" for a reason.
WOMEN like MEN that are hard to get. Fact.
So they ASSUME men are similarly driven.
Women CAN get most men so they aim for the most desirable man they can find. How do they decide what is desirable? They look at other women's choices or the air of desirability that the man gives off. No that is not a cologne...it is assumed that if a guy ISN'T chasing her, he MUST regularly get girls HOTTER than her, therefore he must have that "something". Women are pretty flexible about what is desirable, and I regularly thank my maker for that..
Second: Men tend to fall hard for girls they are intimate with. They tend to attach emotional significance to the act. Bonding chemicals are released when men orgasm. I have no idea how it works for women, but I seem to see more FWB arrangements fail because the guy got to "needy' than the other way around.
The way I look at it you either decide sex is only for a long term committed relationship or it is just fun. Trying to calibrate a midpoint to the two extremes seems an exercise in futility.
It was a shock to me to learn fairly young that "Yes, Virgina, girls do use boys for their own sexual gratification."
I think everyone involved in such an intimate act owes it to each other to be frank about their objectives.
...and, no...I don't find that to be a very winning strategy...but I sleep ok.
I have no doubt that the stories your girlfriends have told you are accurate as far as they go from their understanding of what happened. I am sure MOST women have had an experience like you herein describe.
You have the correlation and causation backwards.
Only an asshole has the necessary credibility for a girl to give it up quick to.
There were ALWAYS signs that the guy treats PEOPLE that way, just maybe not HER as he was working on her defenses. How did he treat the waitress? His past girlfriend? His guy friends?
A "Nice Guy" doesn't BECOME and asshole because he got laid. The "Nice Guy" likely didn't get laid that night and left that bar alone. The "Nice Guy" scares women off, he might be clingy they fear.
The asshole seemed "safe" for a romp...they knew they wouldn't feel bad if THEY have to discard HIM. This stuff cuts both ways.
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strong_daddy
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I'm going to skip responding directly to a lot of the replies in this thread and just respond to the OP. But I will say this, some of you have a vagina, congragulations. I realise that in your world it is THE most prized item in existence. But I hate to break it to you, there are about 3.5 BILLION vaginas out here in the real world. You having a vagina does not make you special, it only makes you female. You do not get to dictate how others feel and how they do, should, or will approach any situation. You can only respond or react to their actions and go on with your life. Trying to talk down at someone who is obviously frustrated with the lack of willingness by females on this board to step out of their VIRTUAL comfort zones just tells everyone which group you fit in. I always find it hysterical to see women talk about how sexually liberated they are and how comfortable they are with sex and their sexuality while making every excuse to not engage in any sexual activity. Guys perfected lying and spitting out bullshit about 6 minutes after the dawn of time, go spill your crap to your female friends if it helps you sleep at night. Any guy with an IQ above 95 knows you are full of crap and is just hanging around to see if he can still bed you.
Welcome to the world of supply and demand. You are one guy. For every one guy on lit there is probably close to 0.0105 women. Take away those that are going to get angry over what I posted above and that number could be divided by 2 to 2.5. Only thing I can tell you is don't come to lit just when you are horny. Come all the time. When you first wake up, after you shower, when you get to work, when you take a smoke break, etc etc... Post clear, concise threads about what you are looking for and let them sit. Don't bump them up every two hours, once every 24 at most. If you don't get any nibbles after a few days, abandon the thread and post a new one a few day later. Ignore those that deal in vinegar and just follow the honey.
Welcome to the world of supply and demand. You are one guy. For every one guy on lit there is probably close to 0.0105 women. Take away those that are going to get angry over what I posted above and that number could be divided by 2 to 2.5. Only thing I can tell you is don't come to lit just when you are horny. Come all the time. When you first wake up, after you shower, when you get to work, when you take a smoke break, etc etc... Post clear, concise threads about what you are looking for and let them sit. Don't bump them up every two hours, once every 24 at most. If you don't get any nibbles after a few days, abandon the thread and post a new one a few day later. Ignore those that deal in vinegar and just follow the honey.
jonpatato
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Maybe I'm crazy...but lit...erotica...means erotic literature...(that's not code for i wanna get laid)...maybe some people like to...gasp....read stuff here
Thank you! Some of these people are making way to much out of my post.
Simone808619
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Very heated discussion!!! But an interesting read. Cold world out there for so much passionate talk. I do think women get caught up in making excuses for the man that cums and goes. In all honesty some situations, while delicious are disposable and temporary. And there is nothing wrong with that IF there is respect and honesty. There are many reasons why two people may fuck then part. But be honest about your shit. Ones happiness should not depend on another. Easy to say but hard to attain. Don't fuck people you don't like and then say you were just doing it to get laid because the hot people wouldn't fuck you. Equalizing your idea of physical attraction with worth says way more about you than them.
Simone808619
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Lol just noticed I have been promoted from Virgin to Experienced!!!
Simone808619
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As for being disappointed in women who say they are not looking for sex or a sex chat, and suggesting that the obligatory alternative is to attend a religious based dating site is interesting. Because we all know that if a woman posts in this site and does not want to get you off she needs to join a convent like dating website? Maybe she should just curl up with a Harlequinn novel. Who are you to dictate what another person uses Lit for! I like to have intelligent conversations and definitely see how that could be the main attraction for a lot of people. I personally find the posts with only ones age and sex pretty funny. Like a cyber glory hole. Stick your cock in and someone or something will stimulate it.
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