This is funny..

[freakygirl]

So.. I get this pm tonight.

A guy asking if I wanted to "have a little fun before bed"

I pmed him back and said no.. I prefer it in real life.

He remarked that he doesn't cyber.. but he likes phone sex.

I said.. cyber and phone weren't for me. That I was happy with my real life sex life. I personaly didn't need cyber or phone. It didn't interest me. Had a boyfriend that keeps me happy.. blah blah blah..

He came back with "your bf can't be much if he let's his woman go around talking shit and talking about sex on the world wide web."

I came back with "I'm here for mature adult conversation. Out of my 7500+ posts.. only about 5% are "sex" related."

So.. my question is..

Why do you come to Lit? Looking for someone? Looking to cyber or have phone sex with anybody? Looking for a place that you can have fun.. safely with adults?



*added* I just got another message from this guy..

He says.. Literotica is COMPLETLY about sex.. and that there are things that men do not allow their women to do. I shouldn't be at Lit if I'm involved. That's it is wrong.

Ack.. the rest of this dudes message makes no sense. I think I'll stop while I am ahead..


This dude needs to read a little more.. and worry about phone sex a little less..

Maybe then he will get the idea that Lit.. isn't just about sex..

 

[Star of Penumbra]

Ignore his PM's and drop him on your ignore list. He is obviously an ignorant sexist who has no desire to change either.

 

[Siren]

 

[Guest]

So.. I get this pm tonight.
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Maybe then he will get the idea that Lit.. isn't just about sex..

I just love boys that don't understand the word 'no'.

Moon

 

[chromefreak]

I come here for entertainment of an adult nature. By adult, I don't ONLY mean erotic / sexual either. Most of the people who post here are highly intelligent, witty and open. Goodluck finding that other places on the net.

I can ask questions, get opinions, offer my $0.02 and joke with a friendly group of people. I can have in depth discussions and debates, or merely act like a jackass and have some cheap fun. I can use the personals if I want to get together with another user, or meet a large group of people from my area to arrange social events for some r/l fun. I can be an exhibitionist or a voyeur on the pic feedback board.

Sure, this site is sensual in nature, but ultimately it is what each user makes of it. The guy who PMed you didn't offer the be-all end-all explanation of why we're here, merely show you why HE's here, and what literotica.com is to him.

This site has been a wonderful place for me to spend my spare time and I would certainly not have any problem with one of my partners frequenting it.

 

[scylis]

hell, if i had a partner, and we had separate computers, i'd be afraid that we'd spend all our time here and not doing something, anything else.

THIS PLACE IS LIKE CRACK, MAN!!!

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I come here for entertainment of an adult nature. By adult, I don't ONLY mean erotic / sexual either. Most of the people who post here are highly intelligent, witty and open. Goodluck finding that other places on the net.

That's about it for me also.... my RL does not allow me to say out loud to others that I wanna stick my strapon up a mans butt..... but here I can say it and know one thinks I'm a slut or weird...

Lit is about adults relaxing with adult conversation....

 

[scylis]

can i get your phone number? it's not for me, really. well, not all for me, hehe. i find someone interested in that could be quite handy. aside from assassinations, i also do kidnapings and the dirty work of staging humiliations for powerful people.

you wouldn't happen to be adverse to wearing one of those leather masks and dominatrix gear, would you?

 

[asenath]

“your bf can't be much if he let's his woman go around talking shit and talking about sex on the world wide web.”

“Literotica is COMPLETLY about sex.. and that there are things that men do not allow their women to do.”

WTF? Let? Allow? I think I’m going to gag.

 

[complicity]

I came back with "I'm here for mature adult conversation. Out of my 7500+ posts.. only about 5% are "sex" related."

Says it all really! This b-board doesn't make me feel like part of the dirty make brigade.

 

[Georgia Girl]

For me, I found Lit close to a year ago at the beginnings of my divorce, at that time I didn't know "me". I had forced myself to fit inside the handy little box my ex wanted me in until I lost my identity.

Through open conversation with like minded adults who enjoy a more sexual and sensual life I have found "me".

You can't spend 24/7 having sex, be it cyber, real or phone. You have to do something else sometime --- seems your little pm buddy hasnt' discovered that.

But thats just me.

Dawn

 

[LovetoGiveRoses]

What's sex?

 

[Georgia Girl]

What's sex?

Come on over and I'll teach you.

You'll like it, don't worry.

 

[takingchances42]

Don't you just love people where if you say "no", they start telling you about what's wrong with you?

I am just here to play, have fun, and enjoy interesting people. What that play is, and what kind of fun, depends on what is happening and how I feel at the time.

 

[SweetCherry]

He says.. Literotica is COMPLETLY about sex.. and that there are things that men do not allow their women to do. I shouldn't be at Lit if I'm involved.

Oh joy! A caveman who thinks women need to do everything the man says. What a crock!

Anyhow, I come here to relate to adults. Otherwise I only get to talk to children. It bites.

 

[TheDR4KE]

reminds me of the dialogue:

"Which part of 'No.' don't you understand?"

"The part where you don't want to have sex with me."






Now, why am I here? I'm exploring the sexual side of me to see what's really in there in a safe environment. I also like writing poetry and stories. I like talking to people who think. I like flirting. Lots of reasons...

Quack

the D

 

[lovetoread]

Lit has more things than sex?

I'm shocked,really I am.


If it was all about sex,I'd be in a buncha trouble.

 

[crystalizedjoy]

*straps on his shit-kickin' boots, grabs his baseball bat*

alright, where is the little penis wrinkle? lemme at 'em..

 

[LordMagicMan]

People have sex here??

 

[Cheyenne]

He says.. Literotica is COMPLETLY about sex.. and that there are things that men do not allow their women to do. I shouldn't be at Lit if I'm involved. That's it is wrong.

Ack.. the rest of this dudes message makes no sense. I think I'll stop while I am ahead..

He'd do well in a debate with the women here, don't you think? Why don't you invite him to the general board to start a thread about his ideas of what men "allow" their women to do?

 

[brokenbrainwave]

I came by for the chips and dip, Laurel makes a damn fine French Onion one. But ick@dude, its guys like this that give us guys a bad name. What a fuckin putz. The reason I stolled into the door here is really simple, contact with the outside world!!!! Its all about fun for me, never has or ever will be merely about sex.

 

[peachykeen]

I am just a big ol' flirt, can't help it, and I see no harm in it. Neither does my husband, whom I adore to the ends of the earth. I come here to play, largely because this summer while he and I are on different continents, I have no 'real' social or sex life to speak of, and there's lots of fun, smart sexy people here. When I've had a particularly good time here or gotten a good idea from ohter people's posts, I share it with him in email. We have a nice list of new things to try when I get home. (3 more days! Woohoo!)

I love how this guy thinks every man thinks like him. As Problem child and Bugs Bunny would say, what a maroon.

 

[sunstruck]

Freaky this guy sounds like the one I've been looking for!!! So manly and sexy I...I just can't control myself. Give me his name!!! Please? Really I want to find him and break...umm I mean please him. C'mon! Please?

 

[brokenbrainwave]

Freaky this guy sounds like the one I've been looking for!!! So manly and sexy I...I just can't control myself. Give me his name!!! Please? Really I want to find him and break...umm I mean please him. C'mon! Please?

in that case come to msn messenger NOW!!! Do what I say, dont piss me off, you will regret it. You know you want it, do not resist any longer.

 

[PepperminTrish]

For me, it's a little bit of everything. I can interact with people in a way that my everyday life doesn't allow me to do. I can laugh and flirt safely and it's been a wonderful experience for me. I've also learned alot about my own sexuality through chats/talks that I've had with some people from here.

The chips and dip are just a bonus.