Well I met my some of my " men " in the so called "usual " places.
I met one of my men in a club called " Inferno"... he was walking out the door & I was sitting down by the stairs ... I simply waved & next thing I knew he was kneeling next to me. We dated for a while... I really liked him... * giggle *
My next man... I came upon him ... @ the airport. I was waiting for my friend to get there & I ended up picking up a man... lucky me !
But enough about me and my "men".
I would suggest a book store , art museum , or if all else fails I hear those personal ads on the net' work for some people. Some one did a thread about it a while ago.