HisInfinity
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- Joined
- Jul 30, 2016
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This is an updated repost of an ad from 5 years ago and last year…
I’ve tried this before (not in the BDSM threads so maybe that’s my mistake?)
I know that you are looking at the post count and thinking – “Yeah, right. This is so not a chick.” But, I promise that I am. This user name is new, but I’m not. I’ve been around this place for years – and I will tell you who I am if we talk. I’m not trying to hide or be someone else, but there are preconceived notions up in here and I wanted this ad to be a clean slate.
I’m a late 50s mom of two grown kiddos in a marriage that is unfulfilling but im not planning on changing anything. I’m not happy, but recent events in my life have made me realize that I deserve to be happy. I also have a deep need to be submissive.
The problem is, so far, my forays into the D/s dynamic haven’t worked out very well.
My last D/s interaction seemed like it was exactly right…but then POOF! Just disappeared. It’s taken me a year to recover because there had been A LOT of trust and trusting is my biggest issue and what attracts me most to this dynamic. But I think the universe was telling me it’s time because my Tik Tok feed all day was filled with D/s content. Not like porn or anything
- more about what a healthy D/s dynamic looks like and how to deal with brats (how Tik Tok knows that I am borderline brat I have no idea!)
I’m looking for a smart man who can make me laugh and then make me all warm and squirmy. A man who I can trust with my deepest secrets without any fear of judgment. A man who knows who he is and what he wants and isn’t afraid to demand it.
I want a connection. Someone who cares about my day, as well as craves to hear me beg. I want to be someone’s infinity – the beginning and end of their day, their happiness, their desire, their want, their fulfillment as a Dominant.
What I am NOT looking for is a man who craves to degrade and humiliate. A man who thinks that “bitch” and “whore” are terms of endearment. A man who desires more than giving a good spanking or pull of the hair to cause pain.
I am a smart and sassy woman (where the borderline brat comes in
), and want someone who can keep up with me and who can understand that my need to submit doesn’t mean that I hide that side of myself, but will embrace it and exploit it to their benefit. I want to have conversations as well as some one-sided exchanges where we both enjoy the time we spend together.
I’m sure that I could keep going on, but I’ve covered the most important things for me. PM me if anything that I’ve said inspires you. I will try to answer all serious PMs (and if you can make me smile, then you have a better chance – just a hint.)
I’ve tried this before (not in the BDSM threads so maybe that’s my mistake?)
I know that you are looking at the post count and thinking – “Yeah, right. This is so not a chick.” But, I promise that I am. This user name is new, but I’m not. I’ve been around this place for years – and I will tell you who I am if we talk. I’m not trying to hide or be someone else, but there are preconceived notions up in here and I wanted this ad to be a clean slate.
I’m a late 50s mom of two grown kiddos in a marriage that is unfulfilling but im not planning on changing anything. I’m not happy, but recent events in my life have made me realize that I deserve to be happy. I also have a deep need to be submissive.
The problem is, so far, my forays into the D/s dynamic haven’t worked out very well.
My last D/s interaction seemed like it was exactly right…but then POOF! Just disappeared. It’s taken me a year to recover because there had been A LOT of trust and trusting is my biggest issue and what attracts me most to this dynamic. But I think the universe was telling me it’s time because my Tik Tok feed all day was filled with D/s content. Not like porn or anything
- more about what a healthy D/s dynamic looks like and how to deal with brats (how Tik Tok knows that I am borderline brat I have no idea!)I’m looking for a smart man who can make me laugh and then make me all warm and squirmy. A man who I can trust with my deepest secrets without any fear of judgment. A man who knows who he is and what he wants and isn’t afraid to demand it.
I want a connection. Someone who cares about my day, as well as craves to hear me beg. I want to be someone’s infinity – the beginning and end of their day, their happiness, their desire, their want, their fulfillment as a Dominant.
What I am NOT looking for is a man who craves to degrade and humiliate. A man who thinks that “bitch” and “whore” are terms of endearment. A man who desires more than giving a good spanking or pull of the hair to cause pain.
I am a smart and sassy woman (where the borderline brat comes in
), and want someone who can keep up with me and who can understand that my need to submit doesn’t mean that I hide that side of myself, but will embrace it and exploit it to their benefit. I want to have conversations as well as some one-sided exchanges where we both enjoy the time we spend together.I’m sure that I could keep going on, but I’ve covered the most important things for me. PM me if anything that I’ve said inspires you. I will try to answer all serious PMs (and if you can make me smile, then you have a better chance – just a hint.)
