thinking WAY outside the box

[SweetDevil1977]

ok ya'll this is my first post on Lit and i need some help

my b/f and i are a very adventurous couple...he has had alot more kinky experiences then i have though...last nite he asked me to shock him and i got so fustrated that i couldnt do anything...he is one of those guys that does not shock easily at all...he likes a finger or vibe in his ass things like that...how in the hell do u shock a guy who has done it all...and i do mean all...he has asked me to think outside the box...WAY OUTSIDE THE BOX....HELP!!!

 

[Weird Harold]

how in the hell do u shock a guy who has done it all...and i do mean all...he has asked me to think outside the box...WAY OUTSIDE THE BOX....HELP!!!

Take your video camera and some rope down to the local college's locker room and make a home movie for him with whatever team finishes practice first?

I'm fairly sure that's not the kind of "shock" he's looking for, but you never know.

I think something more conventional -- like meeting him for lunch with a tube of astro-glide and stripping naked in his office is mor what he's got in mind.

 

[SweetDevil1977]

lmao...ok i would b up for the whole team thingbut ur right not exactly what he had in mind....the other prob...he has no office at work but im thinking the car in the parking lot would work for that

 

[crazybbwgirl]

Or meeting him for lunch wearing nothing under your trench coat. What a NICE shock!

 

[ReadyOne]

Time him up and go to work on him. You can make some notes for a script or plan before hand and consult them if you get stuck during the scene.

Take a dildo and really fuck his ass, reversing roles and telling him how he has to take your "cock" and describe to him what he would be feeling if he were female. Just tell him how you feel when you get fucked -- use lots of details -- imagine you have exchanged bodies and his ass is really your pussy.

Put him (tied up) on the bed in front of a TV, show him some gang-bang porn (or some other fetish) and give commentary about how it turns you on, how you wish something happening on screen was happing to you, what you would do if you were one of the actors, etc. The pause button on the remote can give you plenty of time to critic a scene that makes either of you hot.

Tie him up and experiment with pain as stimulation. Get him rock hard and then put on some nipple clamps, cock ring. (You can improvise them -- check out the BDSM stickies). Put him on his knees, do a slow hand job, and when he's oozing cum, start slapping his ass. Start gentle and work up to making it sting.

Got a girl friend to help?

Tie him up, bring her in, and both of you work together to keep him rock hard for a couple of hours. (She can always leave before you release him if there would be a problem him fucking her too.) You can try some little girl-girl action, using the excuse that the show is for him if either of you are reluctant about touching each other...

Got a guy friend to help? (Maybe recruit an old bf of yours?)

That could really get interesting -- you say he's done it all -- and if your guy friend is interested in trying some boy-boy, blindfold your bf before you bring the guy in.

When it's all over, promise him a "repeat" the next weekend if he will accept cfnm (clothed female, naked male) with you, your girlfriends, and anyone/everyone who helped or is interested. You all can live the high life -- lead him around by his stiff cock -- and be waited on hand and foot.

 

[SweetDevil1977]

ty Ready...i will definately try most of that...i should clarify one point though...he has not let another man fuck him and wont....although he does have bi-sexual tendancies they dont go quite that far...but i did most definately take notes

oh yeah and come on people...i need more ideas

 

[ReadyOne]

You could well well work him up to a guy-guy thing. One trick is to always keep contact with him (touch, eye contact, talk) while guiding him and the other guy together. It makes bf more secure, lets the 2nd into bf's intimacy zone through the 'hole' you create, and the FM contact offsets the mental impact of the MM contact and can help cope better if he starts to panic.

For example, lay bf in the center of the bed (or on the far side) and sit yourself on the edge of the bed so you can lean over to caress his face, kiss him, rub his chest, or lean over the other way and work on his cock. Take the second guy and while you are working on bf's cock with your hand and mouth, replace your hand with the guy's hand. As he takes over, shift back up to cradle your guy's head and kiss him. You want him to have lots of female contact to offset the male contact.

Or, ride your bf facing him and play with the 2nd's cock so both of you can see, then move to a 69 with bf and have the 2nd help you with bf's dick while he straddles your bf's legs. Ad lube to the hand job, then have the 2nd slide up and impale himself. Play with 2nd's cock and use it as a handle to get some motion up and down bf's dick. Your weight can also help hold bf down while the 2nd gets into position.

It may help to verbally tease your bf ahead of each step. Ask your bf how his MM fantasies run and play toward them. For example, tease your bf about being sucked off by both a girl and a guy. Before the 2nd moves up to impale himself, talk about how the 2nd needs to feel a cock up his ass and how he needs to get fucked, have his prostate probed, set the scene that the 2nd is going to bottom to you bf. Tell bf how horny it makes you to see bf doing another guy.

Don't forget the 2nd needs to get the focus sometime during the evening and feel that he gained as much as he gave.

 

[large64]

make him put on womens lingerie

 

[Aaron Dazer]

this all sound inside of the box to me.

Try Tieing him up and blindfolding him. then leave the room for about 20 miniutes and don't clue him in on anything. Get a Strap on and a lot of Lube. When you come back in don't say a word. no matter how bad he beggs. and don't let him know it's you. then get him in the ass.

Afterwords leave him again and come back as your self. unbind him and see what he though.

Now you'll know in the middle of all this how agianst it he his. push him a little bit and see where it goes.

 

[Aaron Dazer]

Tell him you want to write a Feaky story for lit and it has to be really really dirty. then turn his Ideas on him.

 

[thickspear]

the story idea was my response too but it's also possible to track what kind of story or thread he follows here on lit...non-consensual or transexual or voyeuristic or threesomes etc...

guys are not usually shy about their desires except if they're testing the waters to see if you'd freak or tell his secret to others he doesn't want to know...

or grab his erection meter and look into his eyes and tell him of an idea like "i'm going to dress you like a fag and take you to a gay bar where you'll let the men...." or my old gf is coming over and we're going to watch you walk around naked till we tell you to whack off"

instant boner rings the bell

ts

 

[AvaAdore]

Shit on him.

Get a bunch of friends and have everyone dressed as clowns. Rent a white van. Kidnap him and have the clowns strip him naked, tie him up, put their clown noses in his ass, and tie him to a tree and leave him there.

Bring a she-male into bed.

 

[thickspear]

The old clown gag again huh ?

 

[millieteases]

Save up some money and take a little trip.

Take him to a town where you've never been and nobody knows you.

When you get to the hotel, tie him up. Shave his body - everywhere.

Give him an enema - get his backside nice and clean.

Put a remote control vibrating plug in his ass.

Then dress him as a woman - be sure to get a gaff to help pull his genitals back and maintain the "line" of his clothes. Remember the wig.

If you wearing sexy lingerie turns him on then dress him in it - rith down to the garter belt and hose, fuck me pumps, etc.

Do his makeup, comb his hair, etc.

Take him out for the day - museums, shopping, a show, whatever - he just has to be out in public all day. Every so often, of course, turn on that vibrator.

Take him to a bar and flirt.

If you're into swinging, you might set up a surprise meet with a new couple - who know that he will be dressed as a woman and who will pick him up.

Go really nuts - dress yourself as a man - including a packer. Both of you spend the day as a member of the opposite sex.

As suggested before - do him anally with a nice big strap-on.



Another idea -

Spend the day at a nudist resort. Remember, at these resorts overt displays of sexuality are frowned upon, as is staring.

While you are there, tease him mercilessly, but discreetly. Your goal is to make him spend the day finding some place so he can lie down on his stomach so he can discreetly hide the erection you're causing him to sport.

Make him drive home naked - have a towel ready to discreetly hide himself with when necessary.

When you get home, tie him up.

Masturbate for him - as wildy and exotically as you can imagine - dildo's in your ass and vagina, nipple clamps - whatever turns you on and pushes you right up to your edge.

Don't let him touch himself until the next day.

And finally, because I'm in rare form this morning:

Tie him up so he can't touch himself.


See if, without touching him or him touching himself, you can arouse him to orgasm. Have lots of your own orgasms, if that helps. If you swing, get some friends and act out his fantasies in front of him. Remember, nobody touches him until after he orgasms.

 

[thickspear]

I'm falling in love with Millieteases

 

[millieteases]

I'm falling in love with Millieteases

Thanks - I'm just in full fantasy mode this morning for some reason.

 

[Guest]

 

[wicked woman]

Re: Re: thinking WAY outside the box

Too many women and too much kink equals a man who feels like a piece of meat in bed. Nothing more. He will be grateful to just be loved for who he is , not for his body.
Pay attention to his emotions. Tell him how he makes you feel. Tell him what you love about him. Touch him everywhere as gently as you can. Push all the emotional buttons and the physical will follow.
He will be shocked when he cries with overwhelming emotion.
Trust me. [/B]

oh my! I do love this response...even more so since it is from a man. Thanks hersixstring

 

[Metal_Monkey]

Although not as adventurous as some of the others' suggestions, I would recommend acting the opposite of how you do now. Maybe the "shock" isn't as necessary as the "different" to shake it up in bed. For example: I don't swear often if at all. Maybe you don't either. The next time you're in bed, talk the dirtiest talk you can think. Make your sailor blush. It's not shocking per se, just shocking in context to you.

The other thing I was thinking is that you literally meant "shock." Mosey over to the fetish folks, and they might have some suggestions. I remember testing 9v batteries by licking them (sometimes I wasn't the smartest kid, growing up). Not that I recommend that, but the more extreme among the board might be interested in experimenting and reporting back.

 

[BlueSugar]

Hang out here long enough, and you can shock and amaze anyone

go into the Blank Manual and open up a link on spiceing up sex life, there are a million and one ideas. or sheath's thread on objects and lubes- the household kinds.

but as for what I can contribute:

sensation play. grab things from around the house, and trail them along his body, eat them off his body, fuck his body with them or vice versa.
there are many veggi's, spatulas, candles, ice/pops, spices, soda, candies ... that can be played with for just a few ideas.

I was going to say take control- but I see that was already given. But just an idea, intead of using bonds, make him use free will. Don't tie him up, just simply say "if you touch me, I'll stop... don't touch me, don't kiss me... you are MY play thing and I'm going to use you as I see fit."

how about a change of scenery?
Have sex in the car, shower... kitchen

behave like a complete slutty whorish etc... dress up and from the moment he walks in to the second he is "done with you" just act like you belong to him and his dick.

tell him your fantasies... as simple or complex as they are, he still might be shocked that his girlfriend is into what she is.

have silent sex, pretend someone is sleeping in the room with you two and stifle every moan and coo.

.. and if all else fails... use the clown suggestion.

 

[JRaven]

It's football season!

Offer to play hostess when he invites the guys over to watch the game. Do it nude.

Or keep your clothes on. Make a bet on the game. When you lose, give him head. Right there in the living room with everyone watching. Maybe blow jobs for all?

Okay, so I'm strange...

I think his "outside the box" request is geared toward pushing your boundries. Think of something that YOU haven't done. Maybe something just over the line of your boundry. Doing something that he doesn't think you would do will shock him.

Jenny

 

[JRaven]

Oh! Oh!

You could just shock him with a question!
Just ask him if it would be okay if you did X. Where X is something way out in left field.

"Would it upset you if I seduced your father?"

"I won't be home tomorrow night. <girlfriend's name> invited me to an all female orgy."

"There was a real cute teenager at the drive thru. I gave him my number. So if he calls..."

You and your SO are cocooning, watching movies. When the pizza delivery guy knocks on the door, "should we pay him or should I see if he'll fuck me for the pizzas?"

"I'd like to try double penetration. Do you think <his friend's name> would like my ass while you were in my pussy?"

You know him better than anybody on this board. Just think of a question that will floor him. It could be asked as you're both getting ready for work, eating dinner in a crowded restaurant, in bed just before he cums. Think it through and shock him.

Jenny

 

[manofsteel52]

Re: It's football season!

Offer to play hostess when he invites the guys over to watch the game. Do it nude.

Or keep your clothes on. Make a bet on the game. When you lose, give him head. Right there in the living room with everyone watching. Maybe blow jobs for all?

Okay, so I'm strange...

I think his "outside the box" request is geared toward pushing your boundries. Think of something that YOU haven't done. Maybe something just over the line of your boundry. Doing something that he doesn't think you would do will shock him.

Jenny

Would you cum over and be hostess at my party?