Thinking of Abs...

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"I wish for you..."

Comfort on difficult days,

Smiles when sadness intrudes,

Rainbows to follow the clouds,

Laughter to kiss your lips,

Sunsets to warm your heart,

Gentle hugs when spirits sag,

Friendship to brighten your being,

Beauty for your eyes to see,

Confidence for when you doubt,

Faith so that you can believe,

Courage to know yourself,

Patience to accept truth,

And love to complete your life.
.......
.......
.......
.......
.......
And if you can't have all that...

Then I wish you enough CHOCOLATE
To make it through the tough times...

~~~~AUTHOR UNKNOWN~~~

I love you, J, and miss you incredibly.

Lou :rose:
 
Just-Legal said:
*blinks*

Did I miss something?

Is Abs ok?

Yeah, she's ok, I just wanted to publicly send her my love, cos she's a very special friend. :)

It's not like I'm not in touch with her, cos I'm chatting on Yahoo with her right now. :D

Lou
 
*beats Lou*

DONT scare me like that woman! Abs would be sorely missed if she was gone.

(OTOH, at leas this convo is keeping the thread in view so Abs knows we love her, eh? *g*)
 
Just-Legal said:
*beats Lou*

DONT scare me like that woman! Abs would be sorely missed if she was gone.

(OTOH, at leas this convo is keeping the thread in view so Abs knows we love her, eh? *g*)

Yup!

;)
 
There's a sure way to keep her here for those of you who hang out in her thread: don't pay your bar tabs.
 
Tatelou said:
"I wish for you..."

Comfort on difficult days,

Smiles when sadness intrudes,

Rainbows to follow the clouds,

Laughter to kiss your lips,

Sunsets to warm your heart,

Gentle hugs when spirits sag,

Friendship to brighten your being,

Beauty for your eyes to see,

Confidence for when you doubt,

Faith so that you can believe,

Courage to know yourself,

Patience to accept truth,

And love to complete your life.
.......
.......
.......
.......
.......
And if you can't have all that...

Then I wish you enough CHOCOLATE
To make it through the tough times...

~~~~AUTHOR UNKNOWN~~~

I love you, J, and miss you incredibly.

Lou :rose:

Thanks Lou.:kiss:

I was trying to think of something like that to say but all I could think of was:

I miss my friend.
I miss my friend.
I miss my friend.

I know, I'm a selfish bastard.
 
shereads said:
There's a sure way to keep her here for those of you who hang out in her thread: don't pay your bar tabs.

I *never* pay my bar tabs.

Which is bad because I used to be a bar wench
 
I've been thinking of her all day myself Lou.

Next time you're talking to her send her my love.
 
An Odor to Abs

She'll never know quite how much she meant,
those vulgar words,
that funky scent

The loving way she called me bitch,
she gave me crabs,
(but I dont mind the itch.)

That time she belched the alpha-bet
I must admit,
It got me wet

Her pungent farts still fill the air
and make me feel,
like she's always there

So Absy, girl, even though I'm straight
I want you to know,
You're my ideal mate!
 
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sincerely_helene said:
An Odor to Abs

She'll never know quite how much she meant,
those vulgar words,
that funky scent

The loving way she called me bitch,
she gave me crabs,
(but I dont mind the itch.)

That time she belched the alpha-bet
I must admit,
It got me wet

Her pungent farts still fill the air
and make me feel,
like she's always there

So Absy, girl, even though I'm straight
I want you to know,
You're my ideal mate!

PMSL
dear god.. shell love that one for sure!
brava H!
 
sincerely_helene said:
An Odor to Abs

She'll never know quite how much she meant,
those vulgar words,
that funky scent

The loving way she called me bitch,
she gave me crabs,
(but I dont mind the itch.)

That time she belched the alpha-bet
I must admit,
It got me wet

Her pungent farts still fill the air
and make me feel,
like she's always there

So Absy, girl, even though I'm straight
I want you to know,
You're my ideal mate!

Very good! Way to be s_h !
 
I've put up with your hell
I've put up with your shit.

Just hurry on back
And suck my clit!

:D
 
RebeccaLeah said:
Lou, you're soooo sweet (sometimes).

:heart:

Yeah, so sweet I make her throw up. :D

Helene, I loved yours! LOL!

RG, I passed on your message, she told me to tell you she loves you. :)

Lou :rose:
 
I don't know Abs -- nor, really, any of the AH regulars (yet) -- but she was one of those who made me feel welcome here when I first started posting. For that, I have warm fuzzy feelings and wish her all the best.

When I saw this thread, I had to jump over to ABSTRUSIONS and see if there was some explanation for her sabbatical. Her farewell post was really gut wrenching. I felt like a tresspasser -- so I didn't post there, but she has been on my mind & I hope all is well -- or at the very least, improving.
 
Just so you all know the whys and wherefores, here's a quote from Abs' post in Snoopy's "hug" thread. She said I could do this...

ABSTRUSE said:
Okay Snoopy,

I'm coming out of monastic seclusion today for a few. I was told about this thread (as well as some others) and suffering from Litdrawl I decided to stop by.

Here comes Abs being the bitch. So sit down, get those puppy ears up at attention cause I'm going to lay down some tough love.

I used to do the same thing babe, lay up all night wondering what the hell I could have done and why I was such a horrible person that my life should be so terrible? I lost countless hours of sleep until it dawned on me that my problems weren't going to change overnight so I might as well get some sleep and maybe tomorrow, things may show up in a different light.

Well I lived, I got through many things because I chose to see something good everyday, no matter how small it was, whether it was the smile on a strangers face, a hello, a sunset or a cute snoopy puppy, I saw it. I stayed that way for a long time, seeing the world through my special eyes.

This past year, I came very close to losing my mother. I spent the holidays in the hospital waiting to see if she was going to make it or not. I got through that with no problem, I was stable and strong and I had a sense of purpose.
Well I lost my job to take care of my parents and my children, I sat around feeling useless and it gave me time to think about my life. I was a failure.

I cut myself off from people and going places. I reinforced my facade and let everyone think things were okay and I almost believed it myself.

A few days ago, after months of struggling with my life it all came crashing down. I had to face some very difficult and very agonizing things. I curled into a ball and cried with an anguish I've never allowed myself to feel. They say you hit rock bottom, well I didn't just hit it, I slammed into it like someone threw me out of a plane from 10,000ft and everything that I was or thought I was became splattered on the ground for all the world to see.

Worse than that, I almost let myself give up. I sat down on the sofa hardly able to see through the tears and put a razor to my wrist, I'm not proud of my stupidity. I had to be analytical though, should I do it fast and hard, or should I concentrate to make sure I was doing it right, cause ya know, I didn't want to fail at that either. Then I realized, my son who is ten would be the one to find me and I couldn't do that to him or to my daughter, they need mom and I need them.

To wind things up, I realized I desperatly need help and to help myself. Fortunatly for me, there were a few incredible people here that didn't give up on me and have shown me my worth, are helping me to find my spirit again and taught me that I control my destiny. Life IS what you make it, it's how you choose to live your life that makes it good or bad. It's confronting the demons and taking your life back.

It's a wonderful place to be, life. We live on a beautiful planet, filled with beautiful people, surrounded by beautiful things. On a day like today especially, a day where Americans honor the memory of many who died senselessly, we realize how precious life is, so....with that being said, I bid you peace and love my friend, you are a joy to me and others, don't let the negative things cloud your vision.

Best piece of advice I've been given: Be true to yourself.

Now give me a squeeze so I can go back to my real life and move on.

I love you buddy.
Abs.:heart:

Lou :heart:
 
impressive said:
I don't know Abs -- nor, really, any of the AH regulars (yet) -- but she was one of those who made me feel welcome here when I first started posting. For that, I have warm fuzzy feelings and wish her all the best.

When I saw this thread, I had to jump over to ABSTRUSIONS and see if there was some explanation for her sabbatical. Her farewell post was really gut wrenching. I felt like a tresspasser -- so I didn't post there, but she has been on my mind & I hope all is well -- or at the very least, improving.

Getting better, thanks for caring sweetie. You can always feel free to drop by Abstrusions anytime. We all have a strict command to keep things going there while she's gone, and that means the drinks keep pouring and the laughter keeps rolling. :heart:

Speaking of which, Damn it Lou! Why the hell haven't you been around?????? Are you trying to avoid all us nutcases?
 
RebeccaLeah said:


Speaking of which, Damn it Lou! Why the hell haven't you been around?????? Are you trying to avoid all us nutcases?

Yes, I'm plenty mad enough already, ta muchly like.

:p

I'll pop in later, babe. ;)

Lou :kiss:
 
re: Abs snoopy post

Damn, been there myself. And I didn't see it. Sigh.

Well, it sounds like she's taking the right path to beat it.

Good on her.

*HUGS*, :kiss:es and a dozen :rose: go out to her from me.
 
Tatelou said:
Yes, I'm plenty mad enough already, ta muchly like.

:p

I'll pop in later, babe. ;)

Lou :kiss:

Wonderful babe. :kiss:

p.s. Thanks RG. I means a lot to know there are so many people rooting for her, I'll pass it along.
 
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Lou, will you slap that bitch for making me cry?

Only kidding. Give her my much love and tell her we're all thinking of her.

Helen
 
Just-Legal said:
Lou, will you slap that bitch for making me cry?

Gladly. :devil:

Originally posted by Just-Legal Only kidding. Give her my much love and tell her we're all thinking of her.

Helen

Yep, I'll do that, too! :D

Lou ;) :kiss:
 
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