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I'm pretty open minded with everyones kinks.
Partly that's because over time we all learn to like things that we at one time found repulsive, even. For example it's hard to imagine when Roquefort and mushrooms were not in my culinary palate.
That said I don't like my mold and fungus served over hand-churned vanilla bean ice cream in polite company.
I try not to judge given the wide variety of tastes and life experiences. From time to time though I read something that just "squicks" me.
I finally noticed why it is that happens on a topic I don't loathe. It's usually context.
For example, I was reading a thread about soccer moms, and yes it has the word moms in the title, but there really was no suggestion of incestuous themes.
I realize that you get caught up in your little fantasies, that it is probably reasonable when you are so distracted to perhaps toss in a cagey LITTLE hint just to see if someone that you find attractive is actually your dream girl and (glory-be) happens to have an interest in your particular quirk.
But once you've approached it 6 different ways from Sunday and have been politely rebuffed at each turn, GIVE IT A REST ALREADY!
Thread on sexy legs? Probably not a good place to talk about your love of dis-articulating joints. (Again, not that there's anything wrong with that hypothetically speaking.)
Thread on beautiful faces? Not the best place to make uninvited offers for bukakke.
Someone mentions that a loved one was in a horrible accident but thank goodness they were able to save the leg. Not to the best place to say "Damn that's a shame- I've always wanted to do dirty, dirty things with an amputee!
There is probably a thread for anything you can possibly imagine. Find that thread or start your own.
If your thread isn't moving fast enough to provide the wank fodder that you need- well I'm sorry (truly) that you have a specialty niche fetish. Patience here is the better part of valor. You've got a much better shot at connecting with like minded people if you don't come across as simply pathetic. Mmkay?
Partly that's because over time we all learn to like things that we at one time found repulsive, even. For example it's hard to imagine when Roquefort and mushrooms were not in my culinary palate.
That said I don't like my mold and fungus served over hand-churned vanilla bean ice cream in polite company.
I try not to judge given the wide variety of tastes and life experiences. From time to time though I read something that just "squicks" me.
I finally noticed why it is that happens on a topic I don't loathe. It's usually context.
For example, I was reading a thread about soccer moms, and yes it has the word moms in the title, but there really was no suggestion of incestuous themes.
I realize that you get caught up in your little fantasies, that it is probably reasonable when you are so distracted to perhaps toss in a cagey LITTLE hint just to see if someone that you find attractive is actually your dream girl and (glory-be) happens to have an interest in your particular quirk.
But once you've approached it 6 different ways from Sunday and have been politely rebuffed at each turn, GIVE IT A REST ALREADY!
Thread on sexy legs? Probably not a good place to talk about your love of dis-articulating joints. (Again, not that there's anything wrong with that hypothetically speaking.)
Thread on beautiful faces? Not the best place to make uninvited offers for bukakke.
Someone mentions that a loved one was in a horrible accident but thank goodness they were able to save the leg. Not to the best place to say "Damn that's a shame- I've always wanted to do dirty, dirty things with an amputee!
There is probably a thread for anything you can possibly imagine. Find that thread or start your own.
If your thread isn't moving fast enough to provide the wank fodder that you need- well I'm sorry (truly) that you have a specialty niche fetish. Patience here is the better part of valor. You've got a much better shot at connecting with like minded people if you don't come across as simply pathetic. Mmkay?
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