There's More to Sex Than a Cum Shot to the Face:

[JackLuis]

What Men Should Unlearn from Hardcore Porn

Okay listen up perverts.

The porn you watch is not real sex. Squirting your man juice in a woman's face is not her idea of a good time.

With video at the end.

Here is the web site

 

[meat_robot]

So you're saying the girl that specifically asked me to cum on her face and smiled a huge satisfied grin right after was coerced? Fucking hell!

 

[lovecraft68]

My wife never seems to mind, hell she opens wide for it and dribbles it out on her chin.

Who is behind this site? A fifties group or some bible thumping asshat that still wants women to be "moms" and not want to enjoy sex?

Bullshit.

Let me tell you, the sign of a good relationship is having sex like that. Shows the woman is happy enough with her man to be his "little slut" and usually that's earned by being good to them.

Every relationship should have some good face shots here and there.

Morons. Must be repugnicans.

 

[VladHarkonnen]

"For most men over 30, facials aren't something you actually do. They're like car chases or hurling someone through a plate-glass window...”

That was funny.


I saw the TED presentation the article refers to. Actually I thought the chick was being a tad presumptuous herself...not that she didn't make some good points. Its on Netflix. TED Talks/ Sex, Secrets, and Love. The segment is called Cindy Gallup: Make love not porn.

For some really interesting and damn amusing shit though check out the first segment...Mary Roach: 10 things you didn't know about orgasm.

 

[Trident69]

Wife loves it

 

[LadyVer]

What Men Should Unlearn from Hardcore Porn

Okay listen up perverts.

The porn you watch is not real sex. Squirting your man juice in a woman's face is not her idea of a good time.

With video at the end.

Here is the web site

I didn't watch the vid. It's all about connecting. Connecting on any level is rare, whether sex is involved or not.

Minnie

 

[autoplot]

Attention men. All women have exactly the same desires when it comes to sex. There is no such thing as kink. This is a nuanced and adult view and not at all thinly veiled finger-wagging masquerading as enlightenment.

But seriously, talk to your partner, find out what they like, find out what you like, find the intersection between those two things, do that. Have adult conversations. Not goddamn rocket science.

 

[MNGuy]

Aw come on, next you will be claiming they don't like ATM.

 

[warrior queen]

Aw come on, next you will be claiming they don't like ATM.

That's a line.
A seriously big, red, glaring line!
I think my OCD would go off the scale!

 

[girlsmiley]

What Men Should Unlearn from Hardcore Porn

Okay listen up perverts.

The porn you watch is not real sex. Squirting your man juice in a woman's face is not her idea of a good time.
With video at the end.

Here is the web site

Says you, not the article.

You should've read it first.

Williams and others are experiencing firsthand the effect porn has had not just on grown men who grew up without it and are now watching it, but on the young generation that grew up watching it. And the effect on that generation -- Generation Y -- is even more significant, especially given the dearth of real sex ed. According to an article inDetails, “The awkward truth…is that 90 percent of 8- to-16-year-olds have viewed pornography online. Considering the standard climax to even the most vanilla hard-core scene today, that means there is an entire generation of young people who think sex ends with a money shot to the face.”

In that same article, one 21-year-old college student described his first “real-life ejaculate-to-the-face finale like this: ‘It was the happiest moment of my young life. There is just something about blowing a load in a chick's face that makes you feel like a man.’” The author went on to say that "For most men over 30, facials aren't something you actually do. They're like car chases or hurling someone through a plate-glass window—the difference between cinema and life. But the ubiquity of porn has blurred the line.”

 

[richard_daily]

Attention men. All women have exactly the same desires when it comes to sex. There is no such thing as kink. This is a nuanced and adult view and not at all thinly veiled finger-wagging masquerading as enlightenment.

But seriously, talk to your partner, find out what they like, find out what you like, find the intersection between those two things, do that. Have adult conversations. Not goddamn rocket science.

I understood the first paragraph, but then you got me all confused with the second.

 

[kinkygirl]

I say each to their own, just do what ever you are comfortable with. Personally I quite enjoy a creamy facial.

 

[girlsmiley]

http://www.alternet.org/story/14452..._should_unlearn_from_hardcore_porn?paging=off

^ Article

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FV8n_E_6Tpc

^ Video posted 2009 (not porn)

 

[ChinaBandit]

Personally I quite enjoy a creamy facial.

Your PM's here are about to spike.

 

[John Doe]

Yes, but not much more.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

Gals clean up well. Get this principle and you understand females.

 

[doctor_insanus]

Of course there is.

There's the sammich afterwards.

*clapclap*

 

[CandiCame]

That's a line.
A seriously big, red, glaring line!
I think my OCD would go off the scale!

I don't get the big deal with the ATM thing. I was actually just talking to my ex about how he was amazed I did that. I guess I have no restraints or someshit.

 

[StephenHawking]

I don't get the big deal with the ATM thing. I was actually just talking to my ex about how he was amazed I did that. I guess I have no restraints or someshit.

it comes down to being an east end boy rather than a west end girl. if you take the hard rather than soft option, dig it

 

[rosco rathbone]

[ Squirting your man juice in a woman's face is not her idea of a good time.

Here's the money concept^^^^

Porn is based on the selling of male sexuality (the desire to degrade and objectify females) as female sexuality (ie, the porno actresses who pretend to be all multi orgasmic from this treatment).

For most women, this is likely not the idea of a great time. The consumers of porn are men who have not reconciled their natural brute urges with their view of what women like.

 

[CandiCame]

Here's the money concept^^^^

Porn is based on the selling of male sexuality (the desire to degrade and objectify females) as female sexuality (ie, the porno actresses who pretend to be all multi orgasmic from this treatment).

For most women, this is likely not the idea of a great time. The consumers of porn are men who have not reconciled their natural brute urges with their view of what women like.

I'm gonna question this. I don't know a single woman who doesn't like porn. One could argue that there are different segments of porn directed to different genders but the genre of porn itself is pretty gender neutral.

 

[ChinaBandit]

Here's the money concept^^^^

Porn is based on the selling of male sexuality (the desire to degrade and objectify females) as female sexuality (ie, the porno actresses who pretend to be all multi orgasmic from this treatment).

For most women, this is likely not the idea of a great time. The consumers of porn are men who have not reconciled their natural brute urges with their view of what women like.

So, men who can get it up are the target demographic for porn. Thanks for letting us know.

 

[CandiCame]

it comes down to being an east end boy rather than a west end girl. if you take the hard rather than soft option, dig it

Well, I also think it comes down to the fact that I know I can brush my teeth and be fine. And stuff like... OK, this one time I moved into a shitty apartment and the people who had lived there before left the couch. Being a college kid I was like, "Sweet, free couch!" So my roommate and I moved it to clean under it and there was an open pack of sweet tarts. I ate those. Because it's still candy.

I'll also pick up pens that I find abandoned on the floor, and if they still write, free pen. I just throw them in my bag, I don't clean them. And I have an oral fixation (smoking, anyone) so I chew on my pens and pencils and whatnot. And sometimes I'll find myself chewing on the pens I find on the ground. I literally carry toothpaste, floss, and mouthwash with me because i know that before the day's out my dumb ass is going to put something gross in my mouth.

So yeah. I'll also toss salad so ATM doesn't bother me.

 

[4est_4est_Gump]

I'm gonna question this. I don't know a single woman who doesn't like porn. One could argue that there are different segments of porn directed to different genders but the genre of porn itself is pretty gender neutral.

Women are talkers...

Men are watchers.

 

[rosco rathbone]

I'm gonna question this. I don't know a single woman who doesn't like porn. One could argue that there are different segments of porn directed to different genders but the genre of porn itself is pretty gender neutral.

What does "like" porn mean? Does it mean "if asked, 'do you like porn', will say 'yes'?" Many women will, these days, for fear of being labelled sex negative.

Pick one hundred random men of your aquintance and one hundred random women. Have them stand at parade rest in a line. Now ask every compulsive porno masturbator to step forward.

If the number of males stepping forwards does not exceed the number of females by an order of magnitude, I will pay you the sum of 100$ USD. If it does, you pay me.