There's got to be someone out there for me - older guy seeks female, online only

[CreativeMaster]

There are millions and millions of people connected via the web, so there should be someone out there...but it is still so difficult to get connected to 'the one'.

I am a 60 year-old British guy, but I don't feel 60 - if anything I feel younger, mentally, than I did when I was 30. But perhaps my numerical age puts off a lot of people.

I am married, and will never be physically unfaithful to my wife. So I am seeking an online-only relationship with a woman. And perhaps the fact that things can never progress beyond the cyberworld is another negative.

Yet maybe there is a woman out there who is in a similar situation herself?

I am not looking for uniformity of tastes - if you can tell me about something new in books, music, cooking which I haven't tried before, that would be great. Sending me a recipe which I can try out would be as welcome as sexy dialogue!

I think kindness to animals also says a lot about a person. In some respects, I find cruelty to animals disturbs me more than cruelty to human beings. My favourite animals are cats and ducks. At the same time, I am not a vegetarian, and I tend to think that I wouldn't get on well with a vegetarian or a vegan.

I have also heard it said that for a relationship to work, people should agree on two things: religion and alcohol. Well, I am an atheist and I love going to pubs!

Body-shape? I would prefer someone of medium or slim build. Hair colour doesn't bother me. Not a fan of tattoos, though. And OK - let's up the sexiness - I like a woman to wear skirts and dresses, I find pantyhose and knickers very sexy, and also hate the modern trend for women to shave 'down below'. What's wrong with a fine, luxuriant bush? And eventually I would expect you to 'go visual', via photos or webcam.

And I LOVE words. Do you have a favourite word? Something you like the sound or meaning or etymology of? Tell me in your first message.

OK - having said all that...Is there someone out there for me?

 

[Ray Roberts]

Tough world out there when it comes finding female playmates

Wish you luck, just far too many 60+ married guys looking for the same as you. Take a look at posts of males over 60 their is rarely any response and if there is, its usually other males trying to home in on someone else's contacts.

 

[CreativeMaster]

Many thanks. And I suspect you are right, that it is almost impossible to find someone. Still, you never know...

 

[tripleflip]

I can't speak for all women, but whenever I see "master" as part if a screen name, it's a turn-OFF, not a turn-ON. I immediately think of all the BDSM ****, into which I am not

"Oh, well, they say, it's just a name."

And, of course, as Juliet mused in Shskespere's play, "a rose by any name smells as sweet."

If you're a rose, I guess you can get away with it. Otherwise, you might be putting off a lot of possibilities. Or, maybe not. I can only speak for me.

Any other women want to chime in?

BTW, I am single and way too young for you. My roommate just got out of a horribly mis-matched cyber affair. She made us all miserable for weeks, and probably the guy, too.

So, move along, please, nothing to see here, folks.

 

[CreativeMaster]

Many thanks for that.

You may be right about the 'master' part of my name - it could be off-putting. I am not into BDSM. The name came about because, some years ago. I became involved with a couple of submissive women online, and I set them erotic tasks, which were not BDSM. In those days I called myself by a different name, not at all suggestive of BDSM. However, both of those women LOVED the tasks that I set them, and the first called me a 'dom', even though I am not really one. She said that she had come across more forceful doms, but never one who was so creative. So, I adopted the name CreativeMaster, but I think of it - sorry if this sounds like boasting - as meaning 'master of creativity', but with a suggestion of dominance, as I seemed to click, to some degree, with these two submissive women.

Nice to see you quoting Shakespeare. Have you ever been to Verona? Well worth a visit. Not only to see Juliet's balcony, but also the lesser-known tomb of Juliet.