There is a God. I have a Son. I have been emotionally compromised.

[Johnny_Ray_Wilson]

I grew up believing in God. The world tried to change that belief. It almost worked. And the atheist can go fuck themselves for not believing whatever I say on this matter.

I now know I have a son (22 yrs old) the result of 3 wonderful days I had many years ago with a woman from England. I spent countless hours of searching on the internet this past month searching for and finding out all that I can about my son. I never met him, but I have heard his voice. And that voice is mine. After countless phone calls overseas, I KNEW that voice was MINE! Odd hearing your own voice talk back to you from a son you never knew existed.

I met his mother when I was 25 (47 now) in a bar. This was almost immediately after I came home from the USN. She was from England, married, and absolutely gorgeous. We had sex. Me thinking it was safe to do so after she assured me she was on birth control. I wanted her to stay in the US.

Turns out she had an impotent husband who wanted a son from her. She made a trip to the US to find a 'cowboy' in TX (me). She and impotent husband are still married and he thinks the boy is his.

I contacted her via phonecon, and she knew my voice. Told me to never call again and that it was a mistake. Big mistake on her part.

I WILL find my son in person. I WILL talk to him. He WILL know who his biological father is.

 

[JohnnySavage]

I grew up believing in God. The world tried to change that belief. It almost worked. And the atheist can go fuck themselves for not believing whatever I say on this matter.

I now know I have a son (22 yrs old) the result of 3 wonderful days I had many years ago with a woman from England. I spent countless hours of searching on the internet this past month searching for and finding out all that I can about my son. I never met him, but I have heard his voice. And that voice is mine. After countless phone calls overseas, I KNEW that voice was MINE! Odd hearing your own voice talk back to you from a son you never knew existed.

I met his mother when I was 25 (47 now) in a bar. This was almost immediately after I came home from the USN. She was from England, married, and absolutely gorgeous. We had sex. Me thinking it was safe to do so after she assured me she was on birth control. I wanted her to stay in the US.

Turns out she had an impotent husband who wanted a son from her. She made a trip to the US to find a 'cowboy' in TX (me). She and impotent husband are still married and he thinks the boy is his.

I contacted her via phonecon, and she knew my voice. Told me to never call again and that it was a mistake. Big mistake on her part.

I WILL find my son in person. I WILL talk to him. He WILL know who his biological father is.

You unleashed the beast on her! You ole dawg, you!

 

[RoryN]

You unleashed the beast on her!

**SODASPEW**

 

[cjh]

So, I trust, you are going to volunteer the 18 or 21 years of child support that you did not have a chance to pay?

 

[HAL_9000]

What does god have to do with it?

You fucking a woman you knew was married?

Her lying to you?

Or you now wanting to ruin their family , including your son's life?

I'm sure the 22 yr old will love to hear his mom is a slut and his whole life has been a lie.

That is, of course , if this isn't all bullshit.

 

[QueenLevitra]

Does he have Lupus too??

 

[Wings]

He has your voice? But he lives in England? And you're a Texan cowboy?

 

[RobDownSouth]

Congratulations to the "new" father!!

 

[unregistered]

 

[Tryharder62]

I have wrestled with posting but the nurse in me says I must. Please for your health wear a condom when you meet a strange woman in a bar. It sounds like you have a great son but some other things that you can catch are not so great.

Keep the faith and I hope things work out.

 

[bg23]

So then...if she never told you he was yours and you hadn't spoken to her for 22 years, how did you actually discover that you did, indeed, have a son?

 

[Sean]

He has your voice? But he lives in England? And you're a Texan cowboy?

This. I know when I speak to my son on the phone the American accent always sounds strange.

 

[ThinkerLover]

What does god have to do with it?

You fucking a woman you knew was married?

Her lying to you?

Or you now wanting to ruin their family , including your son's life?

I'm sure the 22 yr old will love to hear his mom is a slut and his whole life has been a lie.

That is, of course , if this isn't all bullshit.

Ha! Score....

 

[warrior queen]

I'm calling this one.
BS.

 

[JohnnySavage]

He has your voice? But he lives in England? And you're a Texan cowboy?

Giddy-yup is universal.

 

[killallhippies]

What does god have to do with it?

You fucking a woman you knew was married?

Her lying to you?

Or you now wanting to ruin their family , including your son's life?

I'm sure the 22 yr old will love to hear his mom is a slut and his whole life has been a lie.

That is, of course , if this isn't all bullshit.

don't worry. it's johnny. everything he says is bullshit.

 

[ThinkerLover]

They say that God works in mysterious ways but I have long maintained they are downright stupid.

Edit: the ways are stupid, not the "they". "They" are people grappling fo meaning in a world where the only meaning is what you bring with you. Thank you!

 

[warrior queen]

They say that God works in mysterious ways but I have long maintained they are downright stupid.

Edit: the ways are stupid, not the "they". "They" are people grappling fo meaning in a world where the only meaning is what you bring with you. Thank you!

OTOH, maybe God knew exactly what He was doing....
He knew He was going to smite JRW with an illness that would kill him young, and He loved his childless daughter in England so much that He provided the means for her to become impregnated (although why He chose to do it this way, and not just go with the 'immaculate conception' trick escapes me) and His plan was to knock off JRW before contact but the pesky human self-determination thing got in the way?
Maybe....

 

[Bert Notorius]

because L/lord knows cowboys make the best fathers.

 

[RobDownSouth]

I'm calling this one.
BS.

If it was someone other than JRW, I might agree with you. He's been here for a while and I've never known him to be a drama queen.

 

[killallhippies]

If it was someone other than JRW, I might agree with you. He's been here for a while and I've never known him to be a drama queen.

is this sarcasm or do you simply have no idea what you're talking about?

 

[redheadedtxn]

What a trip

 

[RobDownSouth]

is this sarcasm or do you simply have no idea what you're talking about?

derp.

 

[killallhippies]

it's a valid question. i had you on ignore for quite awhile. i have no idea if you have a clue.

 

[Image]

I grew up believing in God. The world tried to change that belief. It almost worked. And the atheist can go fuck themselves for not believing whatever I say on this matter.

I now know I have a son (22 yrs old) the result of 3 wonderful days I had many years ago with a woman from England. I spent countless hours of searching on the internet this past month searching for and finding out all that I can about my son. I never met him, but I have heard his voice. And that voice is mine. After countless phone calls overseas, I KNEW that voice was MINE! Odd hearing your own voice talk back to you from a son you never knew existed.

I met his mother when I was 25 (47 now) in a bar. This was almost immediately after I came home from the USN. She was from England, married, and absolutely gorgeous. We had sex. Me thinking it was safe to do so after she assured me she was on birth control. I wanted her to stay in the US.

Turns out she had an impotent husband who wanted a son from her. She made a trip to the US to find a 'cowboy' in TX (me). She and impotent husband are still married and he thinks the boy is his.

I contacted her via phonecon, and she knew my voice. Told me to never call again and that it was a mistake. Big mistake on her part.

I WILL find my son in person. I WILL talk to him. He WILL know who his biological father is.

This is just one example of the infinite variables of any adoption triangle. I understand your compulsion to meet and know your son but you have to realize and consider the effects it will have on everyone involved.

Apparently the father and son both have no idea they aren't truly related. Do you have any idea how devestating it will be to them both? You may not care about the dad (and he was probably a great dad in every way since they're still married) but what about your son? This news will upend everything in his life that he has ever known. And at the age of 22 he's still adjusting to adulthood.

Seriously, think before you do anything that could possibly ruin people's lives. The mother may have made a mistake, no doubt. Not just in telling you to never call again, but in the entire plan. It happens. You're not 25 anymore, you're supposed to be a mature adult...

And btw, how did you find out anything to begin with?

I'm all for reunions and children especially knowing their true origins but there's so much more to it...