The urge won't go away

[Alex NRN]

This posting will no doubt sound very familiar.

I'm straight, but have wanted to try sucking cock for a long time.

What was it like for you the first time? Was it incredibly exciting?

Was it all you imagined it to be? I'm convinced I'll love it.

A response consisting of more than a one line 'witty' reply would be good...

 

[College_geek]

This posting will no doubt sound very familiar.

I'm straight, but have wanted to try sucking cock for a long time.

What was it like for you the first time? Was it incredibly exciting?

Was it all you imagined it to be? I'm convinced I'll love it.

A response consisting of more than a one line 'witty' reply would be good...

I don't have much to say on the topic from a male's point of view, since I'm female, so my perspective of sucking of cock may or may not be different than a male's. However, this topic is very common...there are a good amount of straight men out there who have long-term urges to suck on a cock. You're not alone at all.

 

[Mikijl Dragon]

Was very exciting. Was weird the thought that went through my head was "here it is once I put it in my mouth I will have crossed the line and my life will totally change." Funny thing is that my life did change but much for the better. I am now much more open to new experiences and I so want to do it again because I would love to improve my technique. I have had many years to perfect my technique on women I so want to perfect a technique on men.

 

[Alex NRN]

Thanks for that

Thanks for that College_geek and Mikijl Dragon.

I take it you satisfied the guy? Did he suck you? I'd be very tempted to bring myself off while his cock is in my mouth. Even better would be simultaneous orgasm of course.

My latest thing is to have a guy hold the back of my neck while he pumps his cock and I flick his glans with the tip of my tongue until he shoots. Would love to experience a cum shot over the face and mouth.

 

[Mikijl Dragon]

yeah but he jacked me to get me off although he did suck me for a little while. It could have been better but a lot of things can e better in hind sight.

 

[Magog]

As long as its not rushed in a bathroom kind of thing. Make sure its what you both want. I know I would never if I wasnt like 100% comfortable with the guy. Then again this is just how I see it. I'm no pro. If you ever do then just remember to do what you like being done to you and it should go well.

 

[tonycurinmass]

I'm in the same boat as you Alex. I want to experience it but I'm so nervous! I can't stop thinking about taking another man's penis into my mouth though.

 

[Alex NRN]

To: tonycurinmass

Thanks for that.

I'm pleased I joined this forum. It's great to hear from like minded people.

Nice to have you admit to being nervous. I'm hoping for my first experience but know I too will be very, very nervous. Hopefully, excitement then takes over.

It's just meeting the right person isn't it?.....

 

[Mikijl Dragon]

or just a few drinks to losen you up. Not to many or you wont remember any of the experience.

 

[ifitsfundoit]

This posting will no doubt sound very familiar.

I'm straight, but have wanted to try sucking cock for a long time.

What was it like for you the first time? Was it incredibly exciting?

Was it all you imagined it to be? I'm convinced I'll love it.

A response consisting of more than a one line 'witty' reply would be good...

Check out my stories. There's a link at the bottom of this post. One of tales is about my first time sucking a guy off.

It's great fun, and so, so liberating once you've done it.

 

[tonycurinmass]

Alex,

Do you have someone in mind? I think the hardest part of all this is finding someone safe and trustworthy. I bet I could get past the nerves if everything else fell into place.

 

[Mysteryjj]

Got to come in as a woman, another one like, but if you like the idea of it, chances are you'll love doing it.

The first time I watched my husband sucking another guys cock I was so bloody fascinated I think I was sat there with my mouth open and eyes on stalks. Mind you my hubby had encouragement there, he wanted to taste me on the other guy, we were in a threesome you see.

I never dreamed Pete would have the guts to do it, but he did, and loved it, he let the guy shoot it in his mouth as well, (although he choked it back out the first few times they did it).

 

[Alex NRN]

I couldn't agree more, tonycurinmass.

We sound alike. Yes, the circumstances have to be right. Ideal situation obviously, is for it to be the first time for the both of you.

Absolutely right the other person needs to be trustworthy and safe. I just couldn't go to a gay haunt and get picked up. I imagine a scenario where I have gotten to know someone well enough to approach the subject. Then, through talking it emerges that he has always been curious too. You then ask the question! It must be really exciting realising what you and your friend have just provisionally agreed to do once you can be alone! Permanent erection waiting for the time to come!

No, I don't know of anyone as yet, who could be a potential partner, unfortunately.

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Nice to get a female point of view Mysteryjj. I asked my girlfriend if it would turn her on watching me suck a guy. She said she hoped it would. Did it turn you on to see your husband sucking a cock? Your line about him wanting to taste you on the other guy is very sexy. I like the idea of that myself.

Is your husband addicted to cock now?

Thanks for the encouragement.

 

[sandy_folsom]

I too am interested in sucking another guy's cock, but I want to be in a more romantic setting, not a quickie in a booth at an adult bookstore. On a couch or on a bed.

Also, I am more interested being dressed up in women's clothing/lingerie while doing the "deed".

 

[alli_cat]

Well, seeing Mysteryjj put in her two cents, here's mine

I also think it's incredibly erotic watching my husband sucking on another guy. Our first 'threesome' basically disintegrated to me happily watching the two guys! The sight of my husband on his knees, his mouth around a cock, is still the object of much masturbation fantasy For both of us!

 

[south_florida_bicur]

I would say in the last year the temptation to suck a guys cock has grew more and more. It all started with an exgf fantasy for her to watch me suck another guys cock. Since then weve broken up by my curiousity still remains. In the last year I have at times fantasized about doing more then just sucking.

I have gone in xxx stores and watched videos with gloryholes. I have touched a few but when they want more then just a jo they leave. I will not blow someone I do not know!

Now here is the problem: My current and last few gf's have told me in conversation that they are disgusted by bisex.

 

[madathehatter]

My first time was exciting. I'd gone out to a local bar with my best friend and his fiance. We drank alnight, bullshitting with each other etc. When we went back to their apartment they let me stay over so as not to drink and drive. His fiance passed out and we put her to bed. He and I had been talking about us being bi-curious for years and had groped one another but this night we became wide open so to speak.

It was my friend who actually went down on me to begin with but alas I had had to much to drink and couldn't get off. I returned the favor and discovered that I was pretty damn good at it. I was licking and sucking and jerking his cock at the same time until he moaned that he was going to cum, warning me that I might want to pull my mouth away. I didn't and he came and I swallowed...very big turn on for me that night.

One thing to mention though is that "you are what you eat" meaning that I tasted the yeast from the alcohol and if I hadn't already known...I could've told you he was a smoker lol

So, a good bi-curious friend is a good start, a little alcohol to relax the two of you, Have heard that fruit juices makes the cum taste sweeter. Then just go for it and have fun

 

[bob159487]

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[fenderman68]

Re: Me too

I have done it once though in a galaxy far away a long time ago.

I was too drunk to savor it though. After a failed attempt for him to fuck me. I was a virgin then and he was too kind or nervous, lol. I had him lay on his back on a couch and sucked him off. I used my hands on the bottom and on his balls and sucked the head and the top part. I must have done ok as he came in my mouth. I did swallow it though.

We've not seen each other since so no chances for repeats. I've swallowed my own cum but it wasn't like getting it straight from the source/ tap while still horny. After I've came the desire to swallow a healthy load of semen seems to wane, lol.

I've talked about this and my desire to repeat it at great length with some female friends and they have been nothing but supportive of my fantasies and say go for it. But they do say be cautious as the fantasy in your head as your sitting at home watching a hot thick cock plunge past the painted lips of a hot babe and wishing it was you is nothing like when you are alone with a guy and find his cock in your mouth and a pubic hair making you gag and he needs a shower, lol. Maybe one of these days I'll find myself with the cum of a shaved guy who showered before I started sliding down my throat.

That's a good point about fantasy and reality converging. Sometimes our thoughts of how it would be and how it really is aren't exactly the same. I think that's could be one of the biggest detriments to those of us who remain "curious". The thought that, once I'm in this position, Will I be able to complete what I've started? Or, what if you go through with it and hate it. Though I'm sure I would love it, this still rings in my mind.

 

[south_florida_bicur]

fenderman68

I totally agree. I have often wondered if what I am feeling is just a fantasy or not.

 

[fenderman68]

Unfortunately, I don't think any of us "curious" types will know until we're there. I know I've cybered with other guys and really got off on it, and I've jerked off to gay porn, but that's still not putting me right in the moment. Until then I guess I just won't know if this is fantasy or reality.

 

[south_florida_bicur]

Unfortunately, I don't think any of us "curious" types will know until we're there.

I agree

I too have cybered / cam'd with other guys and got off on it. I have enjoyed it but 8 out of 10 times, I'd prefer a gal over a guy. It just seems like there are more guys available (horny) then gals.

I never got off on gay porn. I have gotten off on bi porn. For me gay porn has too much kissing and hugging but thats just my 2 cents.

My question to you (not knowing your marital status) does your curiosities get stronger when you are involved in a relationship or not?

 

[mac_crazy]

I had sucked one guy's cock back when I was married, when I was about 22, in a threesome with a wife and a friend of ours. I really liked it, my wife and I fantasized about it all the time in bed together, and one night we went for it. He was cool about it, and all went well, but we never did it again.

About 5 years ago I started feeling the "urges" again. I was divorced by that point, so I started doing the AOL chatroom thing, searching out guys who professed to be bisexual. I even pretended to be a woman sometimes, just so I could "play" with more guys. Hate to admit that, but of course it happens all the time. Anyway, I finally got the guts up to meet with someone I met online. We got together, sucked each other off, and that was it. I did that a few more times, with different guys, but it wasn't completely satisfying, because although sexually it felt great, both giving and receiving, it wasn't "enough". That, and I realized it wasn't exactly the safest thing to be doing.

So I began placing some ads on different sites looking for a male/female couple, where the guy was bi, and the woman was cool with it. I love women, and the female body, and will never give up having sex with women. But I wanted both. Amazingly, the very first reply I got was from a couple in Toledo (I'm in Detroit, about an hour's drive). After exchanging emails with them for a couple weeks, we decided to meet. Me and the guy had drinks, then his wife met us later (presumably after he decided I was "OK").

We ended up at his house that night, the two of us sucking and stroking each other, his wife went to bed. It was great, they were very cool people, and we consequently had many, many get-togethers after that. She'd join in many times, I'd fuck her while she and I sucked him off, or she'd watch the two of us in a 69, or just about anything else! Other times, it would just be he and I, and we'd blow each other and jack each other off, etc. Just once I let him fuck me in the ass, and although it was kinda painful, it was still hot. And I came like a gusher afterwards, he fucked me with a couple fingers and jacked me off til I exploded.

Point is, it was so cool to have made friends of both sexes that loved to have sex with me, and I could pleasure them both! So if you're curious, be patient, maybe that "right" situation will present itself, although you'll have to do a little work yourself, too.

 

[south_florida_bicur]

I too tried meeting people in chatrooms but for every 1 decent person you chat with there are a hundred assholes. That is very much a turn off.

I even joined yahoo groups. I got to chat with alot of people that felt the same way I did. It was very comfortable. We would talk about everyhting.

The funny thing is there are many people that I have chatted wtih that felt the same as Sticky does. It is very reassuring to chat openly with someone that understands exactly what you are feeling.

ps - mac nice pics!

 

[fenderman68]

I too tried meeting people in chatrooms but for every 1 decent person you chat with there are a hundred assholes. That is very much a turn off.

The funny thing is there are many people that I have chatted wtih that felt the same as Sticky does. It is very reassuring to chat openly with someone that understands exactly what you are feeling.

ps - mac nice pics!

I totally agree. There are a lot of assholes out there. I guess that's why I spend most of my time on here. There seems to be a lot of really nice people on here with some very intelligent and valid viewpoints as opposed to the old "Hi...wanna suck my cock?" mentality.

Also.....to answer your question....I've been married for almost 10 years. My curiousity really revealed itself within that time. So I don't know what it's like outside of a relationship.

And yes......those are nice pics Mac