The Trans/Sissy/CD Hangout

[Sol41]

Making this as a way for peeps to have a place where we can chat about normal stuff, how our days been, what brought us to Lit, what weve learned about ourselves since coming here, that sort of thing. Also welcome are anyone who wants to see what our lives are like day to day. Do try to keep a basic level of respect and civility.
Big thing is, no porn or porn links.

Oh and this should be obvious, but no politics here at all. Theres a whole forum for that shit.
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We all love to be objectified every once in a while but let's take this space as a break from that.
My hope is showing a fuller, more real side of our lives outside of kink or gender stuff. We're all people just trying ro survive like you.

 

[Sol41]

To start, I came to Lit to explore some of my locked up fantasties and doing so has lead to a lot of personal growth over a brief period.
Ive accepted that Im into DD/LG and the idea of a threesome is extremely hot to me, whereas before I came here I had no real desire.

My experience here has been pretty positive and Id much rather be here than a lot of younger queer spaces as they just tend to be too nasty for me.

 

[Sol41]

Also today is our friday, so fucking happy for our weekend, we need it

 

[Escierto]

Also today is our friday, so fucking happy for our weekend, we need it

Today is your Friday? Do you guys work on the weekends?

 

[Sol41]

Today is your Friday? Do you guys work on the weekends?

Yeah, our days off are Tues and Wed.

 

[Escierto]

We all love to be objectified every once in a while but let's take this space as a break from that.

Yes, indeed. My girlfriend loves to pose for her pictorials and have everyone think she is so cute and pretty (which she is) but most of the time, it's just regular chit chat about her friends and family.

 

[Sol41]

Yes, indeed. My girlfriend loves to pose for her pictorials and have everyone think she is so cute and pretty (which she is) but most of the time, it's just regular chit chat about her friends and family.

Yeah exactly.
We're (most of us) well rounded individuals!

Im a huge music nerd myself, I play drums, I help keep our garden, I have a helping nature to a fault, sometimes have to tear myself away from ppl so I dont set myself on fire for thier sake, metaphorically speaking. I love dumb jokes, offensive humor (as long as I do indeed find it funny) and Aqua Teen Hunger Force quotes.
I often have a hard time keeping my feet on the ground and if not for my partner to anchor me, Id probably float right off into space.
Likewise I love astronomy and basically everything Carl Sagan ever wrote or said, and I credit him for the wonder I still feel when I look up at a night sky.

Been through some darkness in the past, but in hindsight Im thankful because its given me valuable perspective that so many seem to lack these days.

May not always be the smartest but I like to think Ive gained wisdom to make up for it.

C'mon yall, let's hear about you!

 

[AlexBailey]

I’m a recent empty nester, reconnecting with parts of myself that have been mostly under the radar for years.

There’s a big element in parenting (for me, anyway) that is always in survival mode, always tuned into the needs of others before self. Now with the kids all grown and moved along I reflect on how we raised them and how differently we were raised. As a parent I encouraged their freedom of thought and expression - I raised them how I wish I had been raised.

They have thrived.

I feel a part of me was denied long ago for many years, banished to the closet and the bedroom. I’m getting to know her better now but she’s been abused and denied so much that she still feels skittish and awkward in many normal situations.

I’m searching for a new normal, I guess.

 

[Escierto]

Are you into any of the space geekdoms like Star Wars or Star Trek? I accidentally became a Trekkie. I started with Next Generation and before I knew it, I was watching all of them!

 

[Escierto]

I’m a recent empty nester, reconnecting with parts of myself that have been mostly under the radar for years.

There’s a big element in parenting (for me, anyway) that is always in survival mode, always tuned into the needs of others before self. Now with the kids all grown and moved along I reflect on how we raised them and how differently we were raised. As a parent I encouraged their freedom of thought and expression - I raised them how I wish I had been raised.

They have thrived.

I feel a part of me was denied long ago for many years, banished to the closet and the bedroom. I’m getting to know her better now but she’s been abused and denied so much that she still feels skittish and awkward in many normal situations.

I’m searching for a new normal, I guess.

I think that happens with a lot of people. Parts of them stay submerged so they can focus on parenting and then afterwards, it surfaces.

 

[AlexBailey]

Are you into any of the space geekdoms like Star Wars or Star Trek? I accidentally became a Trekkie. I started with Next Generation and before I knew it, I was watching all of them!

The first episode of Star Trek, The Next Generation had the skant! I was so excited when I saw that first episode with guys walking around in mini-dresses…

I was so sad when they weren’t a regular recurring thing.

 

[Escierto]

The first episode of Star Trek, The Next Generation had the skant! I was so excited when I saw that first episode with guys walking around in mini-dresses…

I was so sad when they weren’t a regular recurring thing.

Yeah, I know! Or when Data allowed his offspring to choose their gender in "The Offspring".

 

[Sol41]

I’m a recent empty nester, reconnecting with parts of myself that have been mostly under the radar for years.

There’s a big element in parenting (for me, anyway) that is always in survival mode, always tuned into the needs of others before self. Now with the kids all grown and moved along I reflect on how we raised them and how differently we were raised. As a parent I encouraged their freedom of thought and expression - I raised them how I wish I had been raised.

They have thrived.

I feel a part of me was denied long ago for many years, banished to the closet and the bedroom. I’m getting to know her better now but she’s been abused and denied so much that she still feels skittish and awkward in many normal situations.

I’m searching for a new normal, I guess.

It seems a common story here. People who repressed or hid stuff for the sake of thier children and now trying to find themselves. Im glad you and ppl like you have this space for that.

Lifes a journey, even as a 30-sonething trans woman who been on hormones for almost a decade and loves her life, as Lit has reminded me, lifes a journey that never, and should never end. Stagnation isnt healthy, we should always be developing towards a next milestone or revelation imo.

 

[Sol41]

Are you into any of the space geekdoms like Star Wars or Star Trek? I accidentally became a Trekkie. I started with Next Generation and before I knew it, I was watching all of them!

I liked Star Wars okay as a youngun but as an adult the fandom really just bounces off me.
A lot of fandoms do honestly, I find more enjoyment and peace just...liking something without interacting with the community.
And Star Trek never appealed to me as a kid.

 

[Escierto]

Star Trek never appealed to me and the original series still seems hokey to me but somehow I got hooked on Next Generation. I still don't know how that happened.

 

[Escierto]

My girlfriend is still feeling poorly. She slept yesterday and she did not do any makeup customers. She went to sleep today (her evening) and told me to wake her up later today (her morning) so she can do makeup. I hate it when she is sick!

 

[SPARTAN047]

Great to have this thread specifically for us trans/sissies/CDs, the others get taken over by men or women.

There's also the GLBT vibe thread where they discuss similar things if anyone is interested.

I was on Literotica as a writer. I found the forums in 2015 but never really posted because I didn't realize how varied they were. I was also trying to get off most social media anyway at that time. I think I mostly posted since 2020, was off them again until 2021, and I'm fairly regular now.

Some of you will know my kinks are pretty dirty. I don't mind the more taboo ones like incest even if I don't want to do it directly. My main kinks which I was hoping to discuss on the forums on arriving are mommy-daughter, DDlg is okay too, D/s, femdom, maledom, BDSM, CNC, threesomes, gangbangs, etc.

My kinks are now nearly 100% about what happens with other sissies, trans girls and CDs. I now enjoy feminization, chastity, sissy threesomes/gangbangs, transDomme / transdom, and anything where the focus is sissies and sissification if applicable. If anyone reading this is curious, DM me to know my nastier fetishes.

I'm not particularly social so I can't say I'm well rounded, but I do love a lot of different video games. I've played Devil May Cry, Dishonored, God of War, Resident Evil, The Witcher, Prince of Persia, Vampire: The Masquerade - Bloodlines (VtMB), Tekken, Mortal Kombat, Dead or Alive, etc. just to name a few.

I have very strong introvert energy. You might think I'm chatty by my posts on the forums, but I'm generally quite shy and not talkative generally unless I really know you, and sometimes not even then.

I've wanted to transition my gender to female since I've felt that way when I was 5. I've already started the process as some of you know and I'm hopeful it'll be done soon. So despite the angry, spiteful comments by some women and men on how disgusting I look or how men can't be real women on these forums or FB DMs, I'm going for it.

I do have some TV friends I go out with or chat to on Facebook regularly enough. It's usually most weekends though we can't all meet up every time, of course.

I go to trans and fetish events when I can.

I've also been to the theater for Priscilla : Queen of the Desert and The Rocky Horror Show; the latter being twice so far. I can't say it's really my thing but you can dress up for them and I love to do that.

I can't dress in front of my own family and everyone I know over here, but I've slowly put the news out that I'm transitioning at work and whichever people I can tell here. I've been out to some people's birthday parties here in cute dresses and even if I didn't look great myself, the feedback was good enough. I'm happy enough with my friends' reactions.

I'm also bilingual being from India. Nothing to brag about as I know enough people here are, my sister is trilingual or more, so is my mother in Indian languages, and my dad is multilingual - I think he knows 4-5 Indian languages. My sis and mom are actually multilingual from taking French classes long ago. I really need to catch up.

That should do for anyone who complains they can't see anything on my profile.

 

[Escierto]

I've wanted to transition my gender to female since I've felt that way when I was 5. I've already started the process as some of you know and I'm hopeful it'll be done soon. So despite the angry, spiteful comments by some women and men on how disgusting I look or how men can't be real women on these forums or FB DMs, I'm going for it.

All the naysayers and Negative Nancys, fuck 'em! You're not doing it for them, you're doing it for you!

 

[SPARTAN047]

Just to demonstrate I have other clothes than my bikinis and lingerie, here we go.

Xmas two years ago: https://ibb.co/3YN5V9D

Rocky Horror Show last month: https://ibb.co/h1c5gJ0d

 

[SPARTAN047]

All the naysayers and Negative Nancys, fuck 'em! You're not doing it for them, you're doing it for you!

Exactly right! It's the attitude I'm learning to have because not everyone will like you.

I should've added in that long-ass comment that I'm extra sensitive in my heart and everywhere else on my body. That's why I take things to heart which I shouldn't.

 

[Wag_that_tail86]

Just to demonstrate I have other clothes than my bikinis and lingerie, here we go.

Xmas two years ago: https://ibb.co/3YN5V9D

Rocky Horror Show last month: https://ibb.co/h1c5gJ0d

Magenta, so cute!

 

[SPARTAN047]

Magenta!

That's it! And Frank'N'Furter.

 

[Wag_that_tail86]

That's it! And Frank'N'Furter.

Lovely, I saw a cute Wednesday outfit this past Halloween, I know who i'll be this year...

 

[AlexBailey]

Just to demonstrate I have other clothes than my bikinis and lingerie, here we go.

Xmas two years ago: https://ibb.co/3YN5V9D

Rocky Horror Show last month: https://ibb.co/h1c5gJ0d

The way you present in those pics is adorable.

I truly hope you aren’t offend you by me saying that your ‘non-passing’ look is intrinsically beautiful. You are femme and cute and have an attractiveness that includes the full spectrum of your presentation, not just your most femme looks, not just from the right angles.

You’re very cute and I can see that your smile and a hug would melt my heart.

Yeah, forum crush.

 

[Sol41]

Great to have this thread specifically for us trans/sissies/CDs, the others get taken over by men or women.

There's also the GLBT vibe thread where they discuss similar things if anyone is interested.

I was on Literotica as a writer. I found the forums in 2015 but never really posted because I didn't realize how varied they were. I was also trying to get off most social media anyway at that time. I think I mostly posted since 2020, was off them again until 2021, and I'm fairly regular now.

Some of you will know my kinks are pretty dirty. I don't mind the more taboo ones like incest even if I don't want to do it directly. My main kinks which I was hoping to discuss on the forums on arriving are mommy-daughter, DDlg is okay too, D/s, femdom, maledom, BDSM, CNC, threesomes, gangbangs, etc.

My kinks are now nearly 100% about what happens with other sissies, trans girls and CDs. I now enjoy feminization, chastity, sissy threesomes/gangbangs, transDomme / transdom, and anything where the focus is sissies and sissification if applicable. If anyone reading this is curious, DM me to know my nastier fetishes.

I'm not particularly social so I can't say I'm well rounded, but I do love a lot of different video games. I've played Devil May Cry, Dishonored, God of War, Resident Evil, The Witcher, Prince of Persia, Vampire: The Masquerade - Bloodlines (VtMB), Tekken, Mortal Kombat, Dead or Alive, etc. just to name a few.

I have very strong introvert energy. You might think I'm chatty by my posts on the forums, but I'm generally quite shy and not talkative generally unless I really know you, and sometimes not even then.

I've wanted to transition my gender to female since I've felt that way when I was 5. I've already started the process as some of you know and I'm hopeful it'll be done soon. So despite the angry, spiteful comments by some women and men on how disgusting I look or how men can't be real women on these forums or FB DMs, I'm going for it.

I do have some TV friends I go out with or chat to on Facebook regularly enough. It's usually most weekends though we can't all meet up every time, of course.

I go to trans and fetish events when I can.

I've also been to the theater for Priscilla : Queen of the Desert and The Rocky Horror Show; the latter being twice so far. I can't say it's really my thing but you can dress up for them and I love to do that.

I can't dress in front of my own family and everyone I know over here, but I've slowly put the news out that I'm transitioning at work and whichever people I can tell here. I've been out to some people's birthday parties here in cute dresses and even if I didn't look great myself, the feedback was good enough. I'm happy enough with my friends' reactions.

I'm also bilingual being from India. Nothing to brag about as I know enough people here are, my sister is trilingual or more, so is my mother in Indian languages, and my dad is multilingual - I think he knows 4-5 Indian languages. My sis and mom are actually multilingual from taking French classes long ago. I really need to catch up.

That should do for anyone who complains they can't see anything on my profile.

Thank you ever so much for sharing SPARTAN!