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Ishmael

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My opinion of the SCOTUS decision re. Gay Marriage.

It sucks, it's a bad decision. If you thought Roe v. Wade was divisive, you haven't seen anything yet.

First some background. Personally I could care less who you hang with or who you choose to make a legal binding with, that's your business. The issue is the word 'Marriage.' And that's what it's always been about. My debates on the subject with Rys (a militant gay) go way back and are still a matter of record here on Lit. He insisted that nothing less that calling the union a 'Marriage' would do, I disagreed then and do so this day.

Starting with what a 'Marriage License' really is. It's nothing more than a paid for permit for civil union. To execute that permit you don't need a preacher, or a church, just a notary public to affirm that the act of commitment was witnessed. Anyone can perform the ceremony, anywhere any time. So why not be honest with yourself and shit can the notion that forming a bond is some sacred sacrament barred from others based on religious prejudice....it's not and thinking so is a joke.

Words mean things.

Marriage is something that has been around for a several millennia. It's based on the concept of a man and a woman forming a life partnership. Even non-religious societies, such as the Romans, understood the meaning of the word. Apparently our SCOTUS doesn't, or thinks it can re-define it.

The 'Marriage License" you buy at the court house is the crux of the matter. I should have never been called a 'Marriage License', rather a civil union license or the such. Which brings us to the fact that if a government has the power to license any activity of any sort, then it has the power to determine under what conditions that license shall be issued. The court has effectively stripped away that authority from the states. What's next, drivers licenses?

Further the court has set itself up for innumerable conflicts. Anyone remember Burwell v Hobby Lobby? Well, that ruling set the stage for anyone of religious foundation to reserve the right to refuse service to anyone based on whatever their Gospel may be. Essentially stripping the states of enforcement of equal rights based on sexual preferences, Expect to see more of this in the future. I see a class action "Bakery Shop" suit in the future. I can only guess how the court is going to resolve the corner it's painted itself into.

I DO understand the desire for gay couples to enjoy the legal benefits that are currently in place for hetero unions without the need to employ a staff of lawyers. But could this have been accomplished without the re-definition of a word with such a history?

Words mean things.

As soon as you re-define a word then it is open for even further re-definition. And law suits will precipitate from that simple fact. As a matter of fact they already are. There is a suit winding its way through the courts regarding polygamy. If you read the plaintiff's logic it is essentially the same as the case recently adjudicated. And quite frankly that logic can be applied to virtually any combination of relationships regardless of gender, familial, or number of participants relationships.

No good deed is without unintended consequences.

The court should have said, "No." and along with that rendering have opined as to how the various states might cure the legal loop-hole, Like calling the paper you pay for a "Civil Union Permit", which is what it is, instead of a damn "Marriage License!"

Like dropping pebbles in a pond, it takes a while for the ripples to reach the farthest bank.

Ishmael
 
*chuckle*

My opinion of the SCOTUS decision re. Gay Marriage.

It sucks, it's a bad decision. If you thought Roe v. Wade was divisive, you haven't seen anything yet.

First some background. Personally I could care less who you hang with or who you choose to make a legal binding with, that's your business. The issue is the word 'Marriage.' And that's what it's always been about. My debates on the subject with Rys (a militant gay) go way back and are still a matter of record here on Lit. He insisted that nothing less that calling the union a 'Marriage' would do, I disagreed then and do so this day.

Starting with what a 'Marriage License' really is. It's nothing more than a paid for permit for civil union. To execute that permit you don't need a preacher, or a church, just a notary public to affirm that the act of commitment was witnessed. Anyone can perform the ceremony, anywhere any time. So why not be honest with yourself and shit can the notion that forming a bond is some sacred sacrament barred from others based on religious prejudice....it's not and thinking so is a joke.

Words mean things.

Marriage is something that has been around for a several millennia. It's based on the concept of a man and a woman forming a life partnership. Even non-religious societies, such as the Romans, understood the meaning of the word. Apparently our SCOTUS doesn't, or thinks it can re-define it.

The 'Marriage License" you buy at the court house is the crux of the matter. I should have never been called a 'Marriage License', rather a civil union license or the such. Which brings us to the fact that if a government has the power to license any activity of any sort, then it has the power to determine under what conditions that license shall be issued. The court has effectively stripped away that authority from the states. What's next, drivers licenses?

Further the court has set itself up for innumerable conflicts. Anyone remember Burwell v Hobby Lobby? Well, that ruling set the stage for anyone of religious foundation to reserve the right to refuse service to anyone based on whatever their Gospel may be. Essentially stripping the states of enforcement of equal rights based on sexual preferences, Expect to see more of this in the future. I see a class action "Bakery Shop" suit in the future. I can only guess how the court is going to resolve the corner it's painted itself into.

I DO understand the desire for gay couples to enjoy the legal benefits that are currently in place for hetero unions without the need to employ a staff of lawyers. But could this have been accomplished without the re-definition of a word with such a history?

Words mean things.

As soon as you re-define a word then it is open for even further re-definition. And law suits will precipitate from that simple fact. As a matter of fact they already are. There is a suit winding its way through the courts regarding polygamy. If you read the plaintiff's logic it is essentially the same as the case recently adjudicated. And quite frankly that logic can be applied to virtually any combination of relationships regardless of gender, familial, or number of participants relationships.

No good deed is without unintended consequences.

The court should have said, "No." and along with that rendering have opined as to how the various states might cure the legal loop-hole, Like calling the paper you pay for a "Civil Union Permit", which is what it is, instead of a damn "Marriage License!"

Like dropping pebbles in a pond, it takes a while for the ripples to reach the farthest bank.

Ishmael

I don't need a permit from the State to engage in carnal relations with anyone I can talk into it. I don't need one to become a parent, or to cohabit with anyone I want to. Whether I am sexual with the person in my home was never anyone's business.

So, why would the State only be interested in any of the above if I choose to engage in some sort of ritual affirming that I intend to do the above for longer than a one night stand?

What is the public policy justification for needing permission to be committed when there is no scrutiny or public consequences of the one night stand that leads to a pregnancy?

The State has no business issuing a license for this. They have no business treating people differently tax-wise depending on whether their live-in is this year or allegedly till death do us part. THAT is the crux of the problem.
 
Ut oh...

The Proles are disagreeing with an edict from His Royal Highness.

There's going to be name calling.
 
I don't need a permit from the State to engage in carnal relations with anyone I can talk into it. I don't need one to become a parent, or to cohabit with anyone I want to. Whether I am sexual with the person in my home was never anyone's business.

So, why would the State only be interested in any of the above if I choose to engage in some sort of ritual affirming that I intend to do the above for longer than a one night stand?

What is the public policy justification for needing permission to be committed when there is no scrutiny or public consequences of the one night stand that leads to a pregnancy?

The State has no business issuing a license for this. They have no business treating people differently tax-wise depending on whether their live-in is this year or allegedly till death do us part. THAT is the crux of the problem.

Follow the money.

You're wandering dude. Ride for the brand.

Ishmael
 
i'm sorry, but i don't see what any of this has to do with lizzy caplan releasing a series of girl-on-girl sex tapes.

you stupid asshole.
 
What a marriage is has changed a million times already, and was entirely different in different societies.

The argument that it was already defined in one way is demonstrably false.
 
What a marriage is has changed a million times already, and was entirely different in different societies.

The argument that it was already defined in one way is demonstrably false.

You're an idiot. Looking for the exception to prove the rule.

And where are those societies now sparky? Hmmm?

Been through all that shit with Rhys, stymied him on tha6 and you aren't the equal

Kids, they pull anything out their ass to avoid the subject.

Ishmael
 
Yes, we truly needed to hear what an old white conservative male had to say about marriage... because we clearly had not heard it before
 
You're an idiot. Looking for the exception to prove the rule.

And where are those societies now sparky? Hmmm?

You just proved his point dumbass

societies rise and fall and change....people like you that think marriage is just about man and woman will soon be lumped in with people who believed marriage was solely a business arrangement
 
You just proved his point dumbass

societies rise and fall and change....people like you that think marriage is just about man and woman will soon be lumped in with people who believed marriage was solely a business arrangement

I proved nothing of the sort shit for brains. Obviously, any casual reading read my OP would debase you of your entire, emotionally driven, argument. But you have always nee an emotionally driven bitch.

Ishmael
 
I proved nothing of the sort shit for brains. Obviously, any casual reading read my OP would debase you of your entire, emotionally driven, argument. But you have always nee an emotionally driven bitch.

Ishmael

Yeah, it was a bunch of whining about the word "marriage license"....if you're going to call it a civil union you have to call all of them civil unions..even the ones for breeders..otherwise it's not equality... it's " seperate but equal"... and that shit didnt fly the last time it was used either


take your butthurt about something that will in no way ever affect your life in the slightest and return to 1950
 
Yeah, it was a bunch of whining about the word "marriage license"....if you're going to call it a civil union you have to call all of them civil unions..even the ones for breeders..otherwise it's not equality... it's " seperate but equal"... and that shit didnt fly the last time it was used either


take your butthurt about something that will in no way ever affect your life in the slightest and return to 1950

You confuse yourself. The attack was not over equality under the law, but over a word............shit for brains.

So, do you plan on having children? If not why bind your sell in such a manner?

Ishmael
 
Oh, I'm used to folks like you pointing fingers and calling names without thinking. It's the sign of crippled mind.

Ishmael

You're an idiot. Looking for the exception to prove the rule.

And where are those societies now sparky? Hmmm?

Been through all that shit with Rhys, stymied him on tha6 and you aren't the equal

Kids, they pull anything out their ass to avoid the subject.

Ishmael

I proved nothing of the sort shit for brains. Obviously, any casual reading read my OP would debase you of your entire, emotionally driven, argument. But you have always nee an emotionally driven bitch.

Ishmael

You confuse yourself. The attack was not over equality under the law, but over a word............shit for brains.

So, do you plan on having children? If not why bind your sell in such a manner?

Ishmael

Alrighty then.
 
You confuse yourself. The attack was not over equality under the law, but over a word............shit for brains.

So, do you plan on having children? If not why bind your sell in such a manner?

Ishmael

and why can't be the word be marriage?



why do some people get to be married and others get to be in a " civil union"?

if its the same goddamn thing, why does it have to have a different name?



and seriously wtf is that sexist bullshit at the end there about me being bound by not wanting children...assuming that's the case

my choice to have children or not has absolutely nothing to do with someone else getting married

jesus fuck you're a dinosaur
 
I, too, was concerned about the redefinition of marriage, many years ago. But, as I said in Another Thread, definitions are the property of people and society, not dictionaries. Meanings reflect, rather than decide, cultural direction. And God knows it is not my place to utter inane etymologies at those who have long been denied equal rights.

I read an interesting piece in Christian Today magazine (not my usual read of choice, I must confess, but I was reading about No Man's Sky and saw the link) - not, one would have thought, a screamingly liberal magazine. I thought it thought provoking. The whole piece is here, but this extract seems particularly apposite:
It is entirely up to the state to declare what relationships it will recognise as marriage, and the Church should not have a problem with that.

It is entirely up to the Church to declare what relationships it will recognise as Christian marriage, and the State should not have a problem with that.

The state should jealously guard its prerogative from the Church, and ensure that it provides equality under the law for all its citizens.

The Church should jealously guard its prerogative from the state, and ensure that it is never coerced into bringing its beliefs and practices into line with those of the majority if it doesn't want to.
 
It is exactly because of the last line there that churches have opposed this. Given the current administration's several times before Scotus insisting it can prevent the free exercise of religion... you can see why they might worry.

In theory with the first amendment they should have no worries.

Given that some people think the second is about hunting and the national guard, it is less reassuring than it should be.
 
The thread you've been waiting for.
Not really.

But it seems that, and correct me if I'm wrong here... If government didn't call their legal contract "marriage", but invented a new word for it, let's call it "kerplonk", you'd have no problem with a kerplonk being exactly the same for same-sex as for opposite-sex couples.

And then churches can do whatever the hell they want with the social contract known as "marriage".

Cool. I'm fine with that. As long as their social contract have no legal power.

Are you then fine with different churches having the freedom to define their social contract known as "marriage" in accordance with their own beliefs and traditions? Even if they don't align with what you have in your mind when you say "words mean things"?
 
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What a surprise, Ishmael disagrees with the SCOTUS on gay marriage. Who could have possibly seen that coming? :rolleyes:

It's been a great week to be an American, not so much for homophobic bigoted shit-bags. :D
 
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