The Signs of giving him away?

Annora

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Okay I was thinking the other woman married to him. What signs
do you need to read before you realize she is giving him away?

Sounds confusing doesn't it? Sorry it is confusing even to me. His wife is giving him signs of being in passionate loving relationship with a man on lit. Accepting gifts, wearing them. Teasing him with
lingerie she got from her redneck.

Now she has gotten her Christmas gifts, making sure he knows without a doubt they came from redneck. How is this? She wanted him to try some cheap ass spices from redneck. On his steak? We are not speaking of an open marriage arrangement. He does not accept this as a possibility. Yet it seems to be her wishes.

Okay enough background information. I just want to know do you see this the way I do? Isn't she insensitive, absolutely totally out of line?

Is she giving this man her husband of more than twenty-five years plus..Away?
Thank you for your insight, I would love to make some sense of this.
Oh redneck bought her jewelry for Christmas not just some cheap ass spices.
 
Umm, where is punctuation buddy and sentence structure buddy when you need 'em:rolleyes:

Could we start back at the beginning...are YOU the other woman?
 
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I think I've drunk enough to make sense of it....

I am not sensing any impartiality in the telling of this story which makes it hard to give an opinion, or at least an informed one.
 
Bob Peale said:
Umm, where is punctuation buddy and sentence structure buddy when you need 'em:rolleyes:

Strokes. Both of them.

Happened around the second sentence...
 
Annora said:
Did I not explain it good enough?

Where's is the 3rd-grade-nun-from-hell-with-a-ruler-and-not-afraid-to-use-it-buddy when you need one?
 
Did I not explain it good enough

You explained it fine, you also made it perfectly clear what your feelings where and that there is no room for discussion, or argument about that. I for one have been burnt by those kind of "questions" before.
 
um, us rednecks use salt, pepper, A1 and Louisiana hot sauce.

sister.

define cheap spices on steak.
 
Annora said:
Did I not explain it good enough?

You were too passive-aggressive in your original post.

Give names, dates and specifics and we may be able to help you.
 
Actually I am not the other woman. I came in this many months
down the road. This has been an on going situation for longer than I have known him and her.
I guess I would just like to know in this behavior. Is she giving him away?

That seems a simple question.
 
So, what I'm thinking is, if you're the other woman, than what these may be are signs that she knows you're there - quid pro quo.

It may not be an open marriage, but if he's with you, there is clearly an opening. Her behavior may just be a warning shot across the bow...

If you're not, then again, without perfect information, is it possible that she THINKS that there is philandering going on?
 
what do you mean by giving him away? that statement could be interpreted several different ways.
 
if he didn't like it he would have done something about it by now.

answer the question about cheap spices!
 
Rambrat said:
are you the other woman?

What other woman?

Is there another woman?

The best I can figure we have three players:

Husband
Wife
Redneck, Paramour of Wife.

And there are spices. I think.
 
They way she capitalized "Signs" but nothing else makes it sound like Signs of the Apocalypse or something.
 
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