The Share VS. Feeldoe

Which Strap-On Alternative is better?

  • The Share

    Votes: 9 50.0%
  • Feeldoe

    Votes: 6 33.3%
  • Other

    Votes: 3 16.7%

  • Total voters
    18

littlebitshe

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I'm sure a lot of you can give me some insight on the pros and cons of these two toys! I've heard that The Share stays in much better than the Feeldoe, but the Feeldoe is much more known to people, it seems.

I want to hear your opinions on which is better (if you've tried both) or what you think of either of these Strap-On alternatives.

I'm thinking about buying The Share, but I want to be sure before I do. :rolleyes:

I would be using this for Female on Female play :D

Thanks!
 
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Who are you planning on using it on, a man or a woman?

As for the Feeldoe: Only reason I ask is that depending on the man, the rectum can be much tighter than a vagina, and has less lubrication usually... so the opposing friction can cause some real "staying in" problems for the woman using it.

On the other hand, I've heard a basic strap-on harness can solve almost all of those problems.

As for the Share, I'm not familiar with the product. I'm only qualified to give the man's perspective on the Feeldoe.
 
Female on Female

Who are you planning on using it on, a man or a woman?

As for the Feeldoe: Only reason I ask is that depending on the man, the rectum can be much tighter than a vagina, and has less lubrication usually... so the opposing friction can cause some real "staying in" problems for the woman using it.

On the other hand, I've heard a basic strap-on harness can solve almost all of those problems.

As for the Share, I'm not familiar with the product. I'm only qualified to give the man's perspective on the Feeldoe.

This would be for female on female play.
 
We were in the same boat as you, trying to decide between the feeldoe & Share. We researched them both, then bought the Share and are very happy with our choice - to say the least. My wife has been using a standard strapon (vac-u-loc 2000) for years, but really loves the Share better now. I just wrote a detailed post re: Share on the BDSM board under the feeldoe thread if you want a better review of the Share. It's worth the $$$
 
Well...

I've heard REALLY good things about the Feeldoe. The other one, I'm not so sure about. But, I've used neither.
 
There seem to be two copies of this thread running so I have copied this post into both.

Well, we have the Share, two Feeldoes (original soft regular and a stout) and the Nexus. I would like to have been able to report more on the comparison but we seem to have been taking it it turns to do down with one of the UK winter ailments for a while now which has limited any sort of strenuous activity :-(

What we can say about the Share is that:-

The grade of silicone is just right - very like the original Feeldoe material or perhaps just a touch softer.

The bulb is bigger than that of the feeldoe which, because of the soft grade of material is not a problem.

The area that rests on the clit is quite broad and flat and looks to be intended to spread the load of vigorous thrusting.

At the other end the head of the dildo is slightly more pronounced than the Feeldoe especially on the top. The shaft is somewhat tapered increasing the girth with deepening penetration.

The surface of the Share is a very uniform fine matt finish rather than a high gloss. The moulding line down the centre-line is slightly less obvious than on the Feeldoe - this may be a function of the matt finish.

Overall I would say the shaping at the wearers end puts more emphasis on vaginal stimulation and less on clitoral stimulation than the Feeldoe. At the receiving end the head and the upturn in the shaft does give good prostate stimulation in face-to-face positions
(possibly less in doggy but we don't use that position)

For us its still a close run thing between our original Feeldoe and the Share. However, because the Stout we have is in the hard material we have to say that the Share is well ahead of the Stout (which we have just about given up using)

As for questions over the quality of material that has been raised in some places I should point out that the Share is made and marketed in Germany which is about the most critical market in the world as regards health and safety. I don't think it would be honest to raise fears over this.

If Mia, the inventor of the Feeldoe is reading this please re-consider the hardness of your silicone - the current grade is doing you no favours. If our old 'doe died we would be using the Share not replacing it with a new hard 'doe - sorry. Also, from a pure marketing point of view look at the way the Share is packaged as it gives a more expensive look to the product than the way the Feeldoe is packaged. And finally, look at your overseas marketing. A Feeldoe "More" in the UK, now it has finally arrived, is the equivalent of $160US (at discount)!!
 
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Pegger - i agree with everything you said. You know what you're talking about.
thanks for the info. Case closed for me
 
Pegger - i agree with everything you said. You know what you're talking about.
thanks for the info. Case closed for me

Have a look at this other thread here where I have posted info about an extension sleeve we use. For face -to-face positions we found we needed more length than any of these dildos gave (we are not as small and flexible as we might like :D) so the extension is really a major enhancement.
 
So where do I find information on the share?

Well, I have not found any reviews on-line yet. Have a search for 'FunFactory Share' and you will turn up all the retailer sites. This site has a pictures that shows the shaping well - especially the wide saddle area.

If you want detailed dimensions let me know and I'll get the callipers out :D
 
i have been the one receiving it most of the times in my own experiences

it depends on who is using it too. i was emotionally on fire with her and she knew how to make it not jurt when certain things were done usually. other times it was so nervous and exciting at the same time.
 
Review and info on The Share & Feeldoe

Here is some info as well as a review of both The Share & Feeldoe

Blowfish Review & Info: Click Here
 
Here is some info as well as a review of both The Share & Feeldoe

Blowfish Review & Info: Click Here

Oh, to meet someone who wants the other end of The Share.

I've met only one woman who expressed an interest in dildo play. But she seemed manipulative in other areas; I didn't trust her and we broke up.
 
Oh, to meet someone who wants the other end of The Share.

I've met only one woman who expressed an interest in dildo play. But she seemed manipulative in other areas; I didn't trust her and we broke up.

Yeah... that sucks! I'm just waiting for the right person to "share" it with! :D
 
If you buy a "Share", put it in, and show it to your hubby; I'll bet he'll want to share it with you.

Yeah..... I'm thinking no! I'm pretty sure he would go for no also... We aren't really into that. I'll share it with a female though!
 
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