The Sexual Fantasy Never To Be Realized

[SoftPeaches]

I'm all for sexual experimentation....I've tried a little of everything, from being tied and spanked to girl on girl, to the ffm threesome. But here is one fantasy I am 99.9% certain will never be realized..........

 

[SoftPeaches]

hmm, the picture didn't come out very big, did it? Bummer.

 

[wolfie69]

???????

But you did not explain why this could not come true? If you want it, it is possible

 

[SoftPeaches]

My husband draws the line there. The idea of watching another man with me is too much for him, I suppose.

 

[Thumper]

Double standards...

What is it with guys and their double standards.

It's OK for him to jump in when there is another woman present but God forbid his lady have some extra fun...

Insecurity is sooooo....unmanly.

Tell him no more two lady fun if that is the case.

What's good for the goose...I'll take a gander at

 

[Dillinger]

I wrote about it in my story "The Elevator" - http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=10304

Most likely never to be realized - but who knows? *smile*

 

[Mischka]

Socks are bad enough, but hiking boots? Please. Come on, take off the shoes and stay awhile.

 

[Starfish]

In this case, if you want it and he won't go for it, but you've done what he wants, then I am with Thumper, and am thinking of this as a double standard.

I would tell him....... tough shit. You got what you wanted, I get what I want.

Otherwise you'll resent him, and it'll eat you up inside about how unfair it is.


I just happen to get off on the idea of him watching me with another woman, and then watching him with her, and all of us being together. That fantasy gets me so fucking wet.

I would only care about being with another man and him, if I cared deeply for that man, and it were an appropriete expression of that love. That is a prerequisite. Otherwise, I am not hurting for extra dick. I have his and a big purple jelly donger.

 

[miles]

Thumper

It's not that we have double standards. We just don't want double dongs.

 

[Mischka]

We just don't want double dongs.

Why not?

 

[SoftPeaches]

Re: Thumper

It's not that we have double standards. We just don't want double dongs.

I think that is another problem from his perspective.


I am sure I will survive never having this fantasy come true.....I wanted to have the ffm threesome, and would most likely do it again in the future; it would be nice though, just once

 

[CelestialBody]

 

[Mischka]

I leave the socks on-though, generally we're in my room and my feet are always icy. At some point they inevitably come off, but not in foreplay.

OK, I'll concede the need for socks during foreplay in colder climes. I keep forgetting not everyone experiences Texas's heat. Though I still assert that they seem well beyond foreplay in that picture. What, is the guy trying to prove he's more manly that the other guy?

 

[Oliver Clozoff]

I don't know, Misch...

should a person walk around barefoot with menage a trois bodily fluids flying around? I think I might forgive him the boots.

 

[Mischka]

Re: I don't know, Misch...

should a person walk around barefoot with menage a trois bodily fluids flying around? I think I might forgive him the boots.

Nope. If you're going to do it, then embrace the experience. If he can't handle the heat, then he should get out of the kitchen. Besides, there are sensitive body parts exposed. What if he accidently steps on one with those things? Ouchy.

 

[Oliver Clozoff]

So do women have to take off their sexy high heels, Misch?

 

[Mischka]

No, silly. Those are supposed to be left on. Especially if you want to add a little S&M to the mix.

 

[Oliver Clozoff]

Then you might consider that he's...

adding a bit of ultra-macho "construction worker" to the mix.

 

[Mischka]

If you make it a lumber jack, then you've got a deal.

 

[Oliver Clozoff]

*shakes*

Deal. Now where's my thick red plaid wool shirt and axe?

 

[Natalie Nessus]

No, silly. Those are supposed to be left on. Especially if you want to add a little S&M to the mix.

So true

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

Re: Thumper

It's not that we have double standards. We just don't want double dongs.

Speak for yourself; double the pleasure, double the fun. I would love to have a second dick - as long as it was attached to my body and not someone elses.

SP - sorry to hear you S/O won't indulge your fantasy, I had a similar case when I was married. I would like a MFF menage a trois, and I could accomodate a MMF menage a trois if there was no bisex in it, and I was secure in my relationship. But if my S/O didn't want either then I could handle that easily too - to me it is currently a fantasy kink, and I wouldn't want to endanger an otherwise good relationship just for my own pleasure.

I would only ever want to do anything sexually if my sex partner didn't have a significant problem with it. Preferably it should give both of us pleasure, either in the giving and/or the recieving.

As for the double standard - that depends; I wouldn't mind some bisex on her part, but I won't do it myself with another man. If she wasn't comfortable with bisex on her part then that would be fine too. There are some men who will penetrate their women anally, but not want their women to strap on a dildo and fuck them in the in return - they either don't enjoy it, or they aren't secure enough with their masculinity.

Is it a double standard for someone not to do something they are not comfortable with as long as they don't ask their partner to do something uncomfortable for them? I don't think so - and I think that is the heart of the matter. I would not pressure a woman I was with to do something she really didn't want to do - that is why I have never had anal sex or a menage a trois (yep - he comes out of the closet yet again ).

Kind of academic to me; the way I am going I will probably never see straight sex again much less any of my kinks - sigh.

 

[shadowsource]

It is incumbent upon us -

I'm sure Thumper would join with me in these parlous times to offer our services in lieu of your hubby's solo effort. Thank you and good night.

 

[maxxxxxine]

a plug for my story

sorry to use this as a plug, but my story "three way some way" is a true account of an MMF threesome. It's in the group sex section, with search word "bisexual" will take you there.

How do you know it's true? read it and you'll see the realities, as opposed to the fantasies

Love, Maxie XXX