The Secrets Behind Closed Doors

[chatty_matt_uk]

Probably fueled by more access to porn, erotic literature and people sharing more intermate thoughts, but I find myself wondering what secrets there are behind closed doors. I often look at the houses in my neighbourhood and wonder if there are any kinky goings on in there, what dirty or naughty fantasies the people I see driving their cars have, or imagine the people I see walking down the street or in town having secret lust filled sex and pushing boundries.

Of course I imagine 90%+ are either not like that or to tired and drained with daily life to even think that way, but I like to think there are others like me, hidden behind their front doors, or deep within their own minds, full of fantasy and expansive secret desires that they already share with others or keep buried in hope one day.

Life these days I think has become quite depressing, all we seem to hear on the news is negativity and horrible things happening, so I like to live with a bit of hope that we can express ourselves more and gain just a little more kink out of life .

 

[Walkabout33]

This is so true

 

[Saint_Ann]

Probably fueled by more access to porn, erotic literature and people sharing more intermate thoughts, but I find myself wondering what secrets there are behind closed doors. I often look at the houses in my neighbourhood and wonder if there are any kinky goings on in there, what dirty or naughty fantasies the people I see driving their cars have, or imagine the people I see walking down the street or in town having secret lust filled sex and pushing boundries.

Of course I imagine 90%+ are either not like that or to tired and drained with daily life to even think that way, but I like to think there are others like me, hidden behind their front doors, or deep within their own minds, full of fantasy and expansive secret desires that they already share with others or keep buried in hope one day.

Life these days I think has become quite depressing, all we seem to hear on the news is negativity and horrible things happening, so I like to live with a bit of hope that we can express ourselves more and gain just a little more kink out of life .

^^^^^
Future peeping Tom.

 

[PoetM]

Probably fueled by more access to porn, erotic literature and people sharing more intermate thoughts, but I find myself wondering what secrets there are behind closed doors. I often look at the houses in my neighbourhood and wonder if there are any kinky goings on in there, what dirty or naughty fantasies the people I see driving their cars have, or imagine the people I see walking down the street or in town having secret lust filled sex and pushing boundries.

Of course I imagine 90%+ are either not like that or to tired and drained with daily life to even think that way, but I like to think there are others like me, hidden behind their front doors, or deep within their own minds, full of fantasy and expansive secret desires that they already share with others or keep buried in hope one day.

Life these days I think has become quite depressing, all we seem to hear on the news is negativity and horrible things happening, so I like to live with a bit of hope that we can express ourselves more and gain just a little more kink out of life .

I'm a Dom with a fetish for sapiosexual and mental aspects of D/s and kink in general. I've played with and spoken with many people over the years. I've learned a lot...two of those things are
1) You can never tell who is kinky by their appearance. It might be the nice old lady down the street or the tatted hot chic next door...I can assure you it's far more than 10% as you pondered. The funny part is many who have a kink may not think of it as kink and indeed it's a subjective definition.
2) If you can imagine it, someone has a fetish for it.

 

[wouldloveto]

I'm a Dom with a fetish for sapiosexual and mental aspects of D/s and kink in general. I've played with and spoken with many people over the years. I've learned a lot...two of those things are
1) You can never tell who is kinky by their appearance. It might be the nice old lady down the street or the tatted hot chic next door...I can assure you it's far more than 10% as you pondered. The funny part is many who have a kink may not think of it as kink and indeed it's a subjective definition.
2) If you can imagine it, someone has a fetish for it.

Well said.
I can attest that sometimes it is the person you least expected who is the wildest.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

Probably fueled by more access to porn, erotic literature and people sharing more intermate thoughts, but I find myself wondering what secrets there are behind closed doors. I often look at the houses in my neighbourhood and wonder if there are any kinky goings on in there, what dirty or naughty fantasies the people I see driving their cars have, or imagine the people I see walking down the street or in town having secret lust filled sex and pushing boundries.

Of course I imagine 90%+ are either not like that or to tired and drained with daily life to even think that way, but I like to think there are others like me, hidden behind their front doors, or deep within their own minds, full of fantasy and expansive secret desires that they already share with others or keep buried in hope one day.

Life these days I think has become quite depressing, all we seem to hear on the news is negativity and horrible things happening, so I like to live with a bit of hope that we can express ourselves more and gain just a little more kink out of life .

Maybe you should visit and get a direct view!

 

[MaturemanAJ]

Probably fueled by more access to porn, erotic literature and people sharing more intermate thoughts, but I find myself wondering what secrets there are behind closed doors. I often look at the houses in my neighbourhood and wonder if there are any kinky goings on in there, what dirty or naughty fantasies the people I see driving their cars have, or imagine the people I see walking down the street or in town having secret lust filled sex and pushing boundries.

Of course I imagine 90%+ are either not like that or to tired and drained with daily life to even think that way, but I like to think there are others like me, hidden behind their front doors, or deep within their own minds, full of fantasy and expansive secret desires that they already share with others or keep buried in hope one day.

Life these days I think has become quite depressing, all we seem to hear on the news is negativity and horrible things happening, so I like to live with a bit of hope that we can express ourselves more and gain just a little more kink out of life .

I wonder the same things, have lived in neighborhoods and small communities that plenty of things happened sometimes behindcloseddoors and some not.

When you have a wild imagination like mine all it takes is the neighbors to pull up in their car and while we chat him looking at me and she starts to pull the hem of her dress up her legs I am totally like yup she wants to fuck

 

[Erosfan]

Well said.
I can attest that sometimes it is the person you least expected who is the wildest.

Our neighbors have no clue. They would be very surprised at what we do behind closed doors, and even more surprised by what we enjoy when we are out and about.

 

[ThinkWrite]

This is why I wish there was an internationally recognized “ask me about my kinks” symbol that people could wear to indicate their willingness to talk about their “interests.” It would be a relatively subtle “IYKYN” kind of thing!

 

[PoetM]

This is why I wish there was an internationally recognized “ask me about my kinks” symbol that people could wear to indicate their willingness to talk about their “interests.” It would be a relatively subtle “IYKYN” kind of thing!

That would be cool. I've thought of a similar band I think women who are slutty should wear haha...i wish

 

[1darknightowl]

This is why I wish there was an internationally recognized “ask me about my kinks” symbol that people could wear to indicate their willingness to talk about their “interests.” It would be a relatively subtle “IYKYN” kind of thing!

I love the idea..not just neighbourhoods, do you wonder what your colleagues like or get up to.

Only problem I see, if there was a recognised symbol and a large up take, would it get common and dismissed as small talk?

I think it's the mystery thats hot. But we have Lit to discuss things.

 

[JimEmilyUK]

Probably fueled by more access to porn, erotic literature and people sharing more intermate thoughts, but I find myself wondering what secrets there are behind closed doors. I often look at the houses in my neighbourhood and wonder if there are any kinky goings on in there, what dirty or naughty fantasies the people I see driving their cars have, or imagine the people I see walking down the street or in town having secret lust filled sex and pushing boundries.

Of course I imagine 90%+ are either not like that or to tired and drained with daily life to even think that way, but I like to think there are others like me, hidden behind their front doors, or deep within their own minds, full of fantasy and expansive secret desires that they already share with others or keep buried in hope one day.

Life these days I think has become quite depressing, all we seem to hear on the news is negativity and horrible things happening, so I like to live with a bit of hope that we can express ourselves more and gain just a little more kink out of life .

It's natural to be curious about the private worlds of others, especially as access to erotic content and sharing platforms can ignite our imagination and desire for connection. Your reflections highlight a common yearning for more openness and authenticity in life, as well as a hope that by embracing our fantasies and desires, we can find moments of joy and liberation amidst the negativity often present in the news. Remember, everyone's private life is unique, and exploring these thoughts in a respectful and consensual way can be a fulfilling part of understanding ourselves better.

 

[Erosfan]

I love the idea..not just neighbourhoods, do you wonder what your colleagues like or get up to.

Only problem I see, if there was a recognised symbol and a large up take, would it get common and dismissed as small talk?

I think it's the mystery thats hot. But we have Lit to discuss things.

This is why we are here. I do wonder what others get into, especially some of my co-workers. I don't want them to know what I am into and what I do when my lady and I play. It isn't good or smart water cooler talk.

 

[Erosfan]

Why just behind closed doors? What about other places? We like to play in different places, like the car, on our boat, on our front porch, after dark.
We are careful, but the risk is such a thrill!