The saga of Emn and stirgaze

Ishmael

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Once upon a time there was a man, Emn, in mid-life crisis. A manipulative man. A man that manipulated his wife, stirgaze, into believing that if he just had a "fuck buddy" that their marriage would be fine and the kids would never know.

Stirgaze had her own agenda though. She was looking for release from a man that had never matured. That still thought with his dick in many ways. She had matured far beyond the man she had married so long ago.

It was quite amusing to watch from the outside. Two people working towards the same goal for two different reasons.

They decided to go to a porn board to do this recruiting. Why not? When you think with your dick it is all quite natural. Maybe even when you don't

Many women were interviewed during this process. Some in more depth than others. It was an amazing thing to watch.

Emn was a dreamer, as most manitpulators are. Filled with expectations that would never be realized. Filled with himself and ducking responsiblity as most Beta males do. Speaking in words obtuse and vague, like an old Bob Dylan tune. (Even Bob grew up.)

Unable to live alone, and haveing fallen in love with his "Fuck Buddy" he became desperate. Resorting to activities that put his "lover" in jeapordy. But what did he care? He just wanted to get fucked. His life became centered on his dick. What a waste of a mind.

The kids found out all about it. Found out about the role that stirgaze had played in all of this. They learned that love and life is manipulative. That there was no such thing as dedication and friendship. Only that sex was important. The primary impetus to a relationship. Not the by-product of work and effort that making such realationships work over the long term require.

Stirgaze, being far more mature than Emn, was able to rid herself of a liabiltity. A boy that thought himself a man. Emn learned nothing. He dreamed unreachable dreams. He convinced himself, and others, that he was 'changing' his life. Something that had never occured in the past. Even though he had made some move on events that occur in all lives. He always came back to his dependencies, and his trade. Tradesman being what he was.

It was funny, and not in an amusing way, to watch all this from the outside. To watch so many lives self-destruct before my very eyes. To watch a couple that aided and abetted in the destruction of their own family. All for naught. All for reasons that will pass in time. All because one grew, and the other didn't.

Just a work of fiction.

Anyone relate?

Ishmael
 
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I bet that fits alot of couples...or people who started out as couples here. More then we care to think about.
 
Kitte said:
I bet that fits alot of couples...or people who started out as couples here. More then we care to think about.

No shit. :)

Ishmael
 
Ishmael said:
No shit. :)

Ishmael

It is late, I would have liked to added something more inciteful but at this hour restating the obvious is the best your are going to get.

:)

Hi Ish, we have never properly met. Im Kitte. I stay up too late at night.
 
HeavyStick said:
I am curious to see who will say this is specifically about them.

Perceptive man that you are, I would expect no less.

Ishmael
 
It isn't the couple themselves that I feel badly for.

For he couldn't see past his dick and the pleasures outside of what he had in his wife, in his marriage.

I don't even feel sorry for her, considering she unloaded a waste of space, but aside from that she knew what she was getting into. So I couldn't feel sorry for her if she cried foul, that all assuming she did.



But for their children. Their family split apart by immaturity and selfishness.
 
HeavyStick said:
That's the nicest thing anyone has said to me today. Are you coming on to me?


*hopes the sudden gleam in her eyes goes unnoticed*





:D
 
His_kitty said:
It isn't the couple themselves that I feel badly for.

For he couldn't see past his dick and the pleasures outside of what he had in his wife, in his marriage.

I don't even feel sorry for her, considering she unloaded a waste of space, but aside from that she knew what she was getting into. So I couldn't feel sorry for her if she cried foul, that all assuming she did.



But for their children. Their family split apart by immaturity and selfishness.

And all for what dear?

Ishmael
 
Heavy, I'll save you some thinking. Ish has a personal vendetta with me. Read it E-ros-M-a-N. This is his conjecture and judgment of me. He is wanting it to seem as though he is not directly addressing me, though it hardly seems difficult to miss.

Unfortunately, his animosity has gotten the best of him. It's OK, though, Ish. Really. You can create scenarios to your heart's content. When you throw dirt, you know you lose ground. I do find it more comfortable to have you posting your feelings in public, instead of talking privately behind my back. It's more becoming of the man I think you are.
 
Kitte said:
inciteful

It's interesting.

I know you didn't intend to post this particular word and I'm not picking on you, but I think it's a marvelous portent of people who will only read Ish's post in the shallow way. Skimming it while looking for offense.

Of course he's talking about someone specific, they'll think. He's inciting a riot, accusing people. At least they'll think it before they read on to some of the other posts.

When really, he was merely being insightful.

Ah, I ramble.

You didn't intend it, but you nailed it. :)
 
Come on people, you should trust your old friend Ish to never lead you astray. But, you might ask him for verification of his facts. I think it's called copyrighting a story, isn't it? I mean anyone can report anything about anyone. There have to be supporting facts. There have to be supporting testimonies. Ish, you should vindicate yourself, and show your followers the respect that you are showing me. Support your testimony with witnesses and facts. It's the role of the man you aspire to become.
 
KillerMuffin said:


You didn't intend it, but you nailed it. :)

:confused: My bad spelling is going to get me into trouble one of these days isn't it?
 
His_kitty said:
It isn't the couple themselves that I feel badly for.


But for their children. Their family split apart by immaturity and selfishness.

That pretty much says it all kitty.......i agree completely.

Unfortunately for their children, these two people never gave a second thought to how their actions would impact the lives and psyches of their children. That mom and dad are fools is bad. But that they would remove all doubt, is somehow worse.
 
erosman said:
Heavy, I'll save you some thinking. Ish has a personal vendetta with me. Read it E-ros-M-a-N. This is his conjecture and judgment of me. He is wanting it to seem as though he is not directly addressing me, though it hardly seems difficult to miss.

Unfortunately, his animosity has gotten the best of him. It's OK, though, Ish. Really. You can create scenarios to your heart's content. When you throw dirt, you know you lose ground. I do find it more comfortable to have you posting your feelings in public, instead of talking privately behind my back. It's more becoming of the man I think you are.

LOL Yep, I do know that. But facts are facts. All the rationalizations in the world won't change that.

Personal? Not necessarily. What I may think of you is immaterial. What I think of your manipulations and mechinazations is quite real.

I've never hidden behind words. I speak plainly. Something that you've never learned to do.

What are you going to do when the other 'recruits' come forth?

You can't hide from the truth in my words. If I've lied, please explain. I will apologize.

Until that explanation comes forth, you are what you are. No more, no less. Bring your wife forth, let her explain as well.

You can obfuscate this as much as you want, I will keep hammering it home.

Ishmael
 
erosman.

I'm not trying to stir up trouble.

I do that quite well on my own.

My initial statement was just that. Not a way to bring someone out in the open. Your life is yours, not mine.
 
Heavy, you are not stirring up anything. I have ignored Ish's spineless drivel that he spews behing my back for weeks. His facade of superiority is simply that...a facade. I could have easily ignored him further tonight. Yes, he perhaps incited me by calling me garbage, and I in turn posted it right back in his face. If I thought there was any merit to his claims, I suppose I wouldn't be here at my computer now. Frankly, I find his efforts rather comical. Do you suppose that he is altruistic in his attempt to 'flush' me out? Look close, and you will find that his own personal agenda is driving every tap on the keypad. Jealousy is a blind fool.

As for his 'recruits' comments, I would love to hear from these recruits. Please, Ish, you must surely have direct lines to this bevy of beauties. Call them up. Send them here to tell their tales.
 
erosman said:
Heavy, you are not stirring up anything. I have ignored Ish's spineless drivel that he spews behing my back for weeks. His facade of superiority is simply that...a facade. I could have easily ignored him further tonight. Yes, he perhaps incited me by calling me garbage, and I in turn posted it right back in his face. If I thought there was any merit to his claims, I suppose I wouldn't be here at my computer now. Frankly, I find his efforts rather comical. Do you suppose that he is altruistic in his attempt to 'flush' me out? Look close, and you will find that his own personal agenda is driving every tap on the keypad. Jealousy is a blind fool.

As for his 'recruits' comments, I would love to hear from these recruits. Please, Ish, you must surely have direct lines to this bevy of beauties. Call them up. Send them here to tell their tales.

So you're saying that this little fairy tale related in the thread runs so parallel to your real life you just had to call his hand?

And this is smart because.........????

You are proud of your actions and you want the whole board to applaud your open-mindedness and your progressiveness?


Sometimes silence is golden you know.
 
erosman said:
Heavy, you are not stirring up anything. I have ignored Ish's spineless drivel that he spews behing my back for weeks. His facade of superiority is simply that...a facade. I could have easily ignored him further tonight. Yes, he perhaps incited me by calling me garbage, and I in turn posted it right back in his face. If I thought there was any merit to his claims, I suppose I wouldn't be here at my computer now. Frankly, I find his efforts rather comical. Do you suppose that he is altruistic in his attempt to 'flush' me out? Look close, and you will find that his own personal agenda is driving every tap on the keypad. Jealousy is a blind fool.

As for his 'recruits' comments, I would love to hear from these recruits. Please, Ish, you must surely have direct lines to this bevy of beauties. Call them up. Send them here to tell their tales.

I'm speaking to you now that you've come forth. And you're speaking to Heavy.

You call me "spineless" yet you are running away form your family. You have never lived on your own. You seem to have an esteem problem. Hell, I can read your posts from day one as easily as any other.

You, a missionary, a 'man' of God. An adulterer. Shameless and involving your wife. What am I, what is anyone, to think of your sincerity? Hmmmmmmm?

Get a grip. Don't blame me for your personal problems. They're yours and you brought them all on yourself. Your "sobbing" scene by the truck was oh so touching, until it's realized that it was all part of a plan. An act. Sorry. Sympathy is in the dictionary. It's between shit and syphillus.

Ishmael
 
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