I pay visit to the site every day, as I am sure much of you do. I have been looking a lot at the amateur pics section and I think the pics are wonderful, I have even submitted some of my own. My comment is this...if you look at the top 10, most of the pics are of very thin fake blondes with fake boobs. This bothers me very much. As much as I think they are all beautiful women, why is this the turn on? I think that the "real" women on the site are just as beautiful as any other, so why aren't they voted up there too? I'm sorry if I offended anyone, but I finally had to speak my mind and hopefully get an answer.
the real women
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ShyGuy68
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Sexxyangl
I have to admit I don't know why it's those kind of women that are on the top 10.
Myself I am more atracted to woman with dark hair, if it the looks that I have to go after. But in real life, haircolor and body type doesn't mean much to me. What is important is the personality. That's also why I generally doesn't vote for anybody, because looks isn't everything to me.
I hope what I said made some sense! lol
ShyGuy
I have to admit I don't know why it's those kind of women that are on the top 10.
Myself I am more atracted to woman with dark hair, if it the looks that I have to go after. But in real life, haircolor and body type doesn't mean much to me. What is important is the personality. That's also why I generally doesn't vote for anybody, because looks isn't everything to me.
I hope what I said made some sense! lol
ShyGuy
real women
Attraction is, ofcourse; a uniquely personal quality. Everyone's conception of beauty, lust, sexy, and mojo is different. I am certainly attracted to the natural woman. I think that true beauty is a product of the individual woman's personality, athletic prowless, and lifestyle-- not the creation of a plastic surgeon. However, I do not fault women (or men) that seek assistance to obtain the image they want-- I simply prefer the natural.
I hope to see more picture postings from "natural" women.
Thanks,
mofergie
Attraction is, ofcourse; a uniquely personal quality. Everyone's conception of beauty, lust, sexy, and mojo is different. I am certainly attracted to the natural woman. I think that true beauty is a product of the individual woman's personality, athletic prowless, and lifestyle-- not the creation of a plastic surgeon. However, I do not fault women (or men) that seek assistance to obtain the image they want-- I simply prefer the natural.
I hope to see more picture postings from "natural" women.
Thanks,
mofergie
Well,
I hear that and I second that. I can't say for the others one way or another, but I certainly hope you weren't ref. to me (I am brunette and have very normal "boobs.")
I will never be surprised that my picture isn't in the top 10.
I just wanted to tell you that I am very much "real," in every possible way.
I hear that and I second that. I can't say for the others one way or another, but I certainly hope you weren't ref. to me (I am brunette and have very normal "boobs.")
I will never be surprised that my picture isn't in the top 10.
I just wanted to tell you that I am very much "real," in every possible way.
Sxxyangl, I don't honestly ever remember voting for a picture. I appreciate beauty in all forms but I have to be honest. Only certain women turn my head in real life. No, that is not just skinny blondes. I prefer brunettes. However, I certainly have become attracted to women that would not have turned my eye while walking down the street. It happens over time and is the result of many factors that have very little to do with looks.
A friend and I were recently talking and she shared her husband's philosophy of the male-female friendship. It was essentially that men can't or won't be friends with women they are not attracted to. I disagree, if one is speaking of attraction in an overall sense. I have many female friends I do not consider "head-turning" beautiful. I choose friends for their interior qualities. The picture thing is a little different. Unless the person voting for the picture knows the person in the picture, he or she may be merely voting based upon certain subjective factors that do not address the overall beauty of a person. One problem is, everyone has a different opinion as to what constitutes beauty. This site has the ability to allow people to form bonds and friendships without the intimidation of physical beauty getting in the way.
Sending in a picture is a gutsy thing to do. Sending it is just the beginning. People open themselves up to all types of ridicule. The mean- spirited type that send hateful emails. Those should be ignored but who can realistically do that? There is also the more subtle form, when a picture is not voted upon favorably. Not to mention the worst type of ridicule, the one that comes from within the sender. Again, I am in awe of anyone who sends in a pic. I appreciate all forms of beauty and all the pictures. Please keep them coming!
[Edited by Dreamer1 on 08-13-2000 at 09:31 AM]
A friend and I were recently talking and she shared her husband's philosophy of the male-female friendship. It was essentially that men can't or won't be friends with women they are not attracted to. I disagree, if one is speaking of attraction in an overall sense. I have many female friends I do not consider "head-turning" beautiful. I choose friends for their interior qualities. The picture thing is a little different. Unless the person voting for the picture knows the person in the picture, he or she may be merely voting based upon certain subjective factors that do not address the overall beauty of a person. One problem is, everyone has a different opinion as to what constitutes beauty. This site has the ability to allow people to form bonds and friendships without the intimidation of physical beauty getting in the way.
Sending in a picture is a gutsy thing to do. Sending it is just the beginning. People open themselves up to all types of ridicule. The mean- spirited type that send hateful emails. Those should be ignored but who can realistically do that? There is also the more subtle form, when a picture is not voted upon favorably. Not to mention the worst type of ridicule, the one that comes from within the sender. Again, I am in awe of anyone who sends in a pic. I appreciate all forms of beauty and all the pictures. Please keep them coming!
[Edited by Dreamer1 on 08-13-2000 at 09:31 AM]
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A technical consideration
I think there is a less sexist explanation of why most of the top pictures are of blondes, with or without fake boobs.
Quite simply, it's technically much easier to get the exposure right when photographing blondes. Light subjects against a dark background are more forgiving of poor focus and exposure settings.
To get a good picture of brunette or raven tresses, the exposure and lighting has to be absolutely perfect to distinguish the subject from the background.
To get a good vote, the subject has to be "not ugly" and the photography has to be good. A bad picture of the most beautiful woman in the world will lose out to a good picture of an average woman.
The very rare pictures of a dark haired woman who is beautiful and photographed well should stnad out enough from the crowd to make the top twenty lists. If Jade's lace body suit doesn't make the list, then there's some voting fraud going on somewhere.
Sxxyangl said:
I think there is a less sexist explanation of why most of the top pictures are of blondes, with or without fake boobs.
Quite simply, it's technically much easier to get the exposure right when photographing blondes. Light subjects against a dark background are more forgiving of poor focus and exposure settings.
To get a good picture of brunette or raven tresses, the exposure and lighting has to be absolutely perfect to distinguish the subject from the background.
To get a good vote, the subject has to be "not ugly" and the photography has to be good. A bad picture of the most beautiful woman in the world will lose out to a good picture of an average woman.
The very rare pictures of a dark haired woman who is beautiful and photographed well should stnad out enough from the crowd to make the top twenty lists. If Jade's lace body suit doesn't make the list, then there's some voting fraud going on somewhere.
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I've got a better explanation, and one that's sure to make all the "real women" happy. These blondes with fake boobs are more insecure than the normal woman out there, so they vote for themselves, thereby skewing the results of the voting.
Of course, this explanation isn't true. The truth is, they just look yummy in an eye-catching way. For some of the other women, the beauty is more subtle, although it's still there.
Of course, this explanation isn't true. The truth is, they just look yummy in an eye-catching way. For some of the other women, the beauty is more subtle, although it's still there.
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hmmm... maybe this dark haired girl will just have to post a pic or two
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posts of thin blonds w/ big boobs
First, let me profess, I adore thin blonds with big boobs - but I also appreciate women of various shapes and sizes. Just wish more women would post their pics and understand that there are plenty of men out here who appreciate them no matter what size or shape they are. Variety is the spice of life. Thank you to all the ladies who have shared and will share their pics.
First, let me profess, I adore thin blonds with big boobs - but I also appreciate women of various shapes and sizes. Just wish more women would post their pics and understand that there are plenty of men out here who appreciate them no matter what size or shape they are. Variety is the spice of life. Thank you to all the ladies who have shared and will share their pics.
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sxxyangl
Real/fake
The Real Girls
Are So Shy
I wonder why
and sigh.
Rush traffic seems to go
Fake it quick let it show.
Real takes it's time and wanders lustfull by
Pleasures leisurely taken
Luv cum shaken!!!!
©2000ANiceGuy
Ps you might want to check out
A Real Naughty Annette (http://www.arealnaughtyannette.com)
Real/fake
The Real Girls
Are So Shy
I wonder why
and sigh.
Rush traffic seems to go
Fake it quick let it show.
Real takes it's time and wanders lustfull by
Pleasures leisurely taken
Luv cum shaken!!!!
©2000ANiceGuy
Ps you might want to check out
A Real Naughty Annette (http://www.arealnaughtyannette.com)
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You want to know what I think? http://smilecwm.tripod.com/net/smileysex5.gifTHATS WHAT I THINK!! Damn, I mean Hot Damn
What is beauty???
I really give all of the ladies alot of credit and l take my hat off to them.
Even though l go naked on nude beaches, l couldn't even imagine sending in a nude picture of myself.
It isn't that l am the least bit concerned about what l look like, but concerned of who is looking. I know it sounds dumb, but it is the truth.
Again l thank the ladies for giving me a look-see, and l love them all.
I really give all of the ladies alot of credit and l take my hat off to them.
Even though l go naked on nude beaches, l couldn't even imagine sending in a nude picture of myself.
It isn't that l am the least bit concerned about what l look like, but concerned of who is looking. I know it sounds dumb, but it is the truth.
Again l thank the ladies for giving me a look-see, and l love them all.
Dammit... no top list for me...*sigh*
Dreamer.. thanks.
It has been discouraging not to make the top list... but I honestly don't feel that showing more of myself is going to accomplish that.. if people just don't like the way I look with my normal sized boobs and 5'4" frame, then oh well. I work VERY hard to be healthy however, no matter what I do (short of anorexia and plastic surgery... and a little bleach and hair dye) is going to change me physically. I was born with this structure and I intend to keep it this way. Perhaps I shouldn't have submitted any pictures in the first place but what is done is done and I will leave it at that.
Dreamer.. thanks.
It has been discouraging not to make the top list... but I honestly don't feel that showing more of myself is going to accomplish that.. if people just don't like the way I look with my normal sized boobs and 5'4" frame, then oh well. I work VERY hard to be healthy however, no matter what I do (short of anorexia and plastic surgery... and a little bleach and hair dye) is going to change me physically. I was born with this structure and I intend to keep it this way. Perhaps I shouldn't have submitted any pictures in the first place but what is done is done and I will leave it at that.
Re: Dammit... no top list for me...*sigh*
I totally disagree Jade! You are a hottie and you definiteley should be proud of how you look and the fact you are all natural! Yes, I was referring to your beautiful soul as well but you also have all the exterior qualities that make men drool! I am very glad you sent the very hot and very tasteful pictures of your lovely self. Don't regret that decision.
BTW, tasteful has a dual meaning here!
Jade said:
I totally disagree Jade! You are a hottie and you definiteley should be proud of how you look and the fact you are all natural! Yes, I was referring to your beautiful soul as well but you also have all the exterior qualities that make men drool! I am very glad you sent the very hot and very tasteful pictures of your lovely self. Don't regret that decision.
BTW, tasteful has a dual meaning here!
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Re: Dammit... no top list for me...*sigh*
Considering that the pictures in the top list are all pictures that have been posted for quite some time, It's not surprising that your picture hasn't made the top list YET.
I think the new script base board that's in the works will use a slightly different scoring method. I think that currently the top list is based on vote total, rather than highest average vote. Also, like the stories, the top list gets more votes than submissions that aren't on the lists.
I'm not sure how to get new submissions the attention and votes they deserve, but your picture is definitiely one that should have been submitted, and deserves to amke the list. I think keeping this thread at the top of the list helps.
For those who haven't voted yet: Go here, and vote a five. http://www.literotica.com/storyxs/amateurpics/jade081100/jade081100.shtml
Jade said:
Considering that the pictures in the top list are all pictures that have been posted for quite some time, It's not surprising that your picture hasn't made the top list YET.
I think the new script base board that's in the works will use a slightly different scoring method. I think that currently the top list is based on vote total, rather than highest average vote. Also, like the stories, the top list gets more votes than submissions that aren't on the lists.
I'm not sure how to get new submissions the attention and votes they deserve, but your picture is definitiely one that should have been submitted, and deserves to amke the list. I think keeping this thread at the top of the list helps.
For those who haven't voted yet: Go here, and vote a five. http://www.literotica.com/storyxs/amateurpics/jade081100/jade081100.shtml
Dreamer... thanks man... you are just too damn sexeh for your own good!
WH! Oh goodness... now I am a "cause!" lol
You are too good to me Wh... truly I don't deserve it... but your faith has been nothing but healthy for my fragile ego. Thank you.
WH! Oh goodness... now I am a "cause!" lol
You are too good to me Wh... truly I don't deserve it... but your faith has been nothing but healthy for my fragile ego. Thank you.
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Jade said:
You're welcome. I do have an ulterior motive: If you get depressed and discouraged, I won't get to see any more of you. ;p
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Jade's pic
I just wanted to tell you Jade, don't change a thing. I for one am a fan of "normal" women. I don't understand the need to surgically alter your body to make yourself into a sex object. I for one would love to see more of your pictures.
I just wanted to tell you Jade, don't change a thing. I for one am a fan of "normal" women. I don't understand the need to surgically alter your body to make yourself into a sex object. I for one would love to see more of your pictures.
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Jade you could be in the top ten but there is a price to pay for that.
Jade as a webmaster on the Amateur Girls internet I know many girls who don't fit the skinny, blonde, with fake boobs and make it real big on the internet. I is all marketing and how much you as a person want it.
I think you would be much better off posting the pics you want and enjoying your own group of groupies.
I have a singer friend who is Canadian Indian. He writes his own songs and has put out several CD's. He and his friends (girls mostly) sing every week on the Queen Mary in LA and several big clubs out there. He could be a big star but has turned down offers because he would have to change what and how he writes. He won't because his "message" is too important. For example his big song is "Blood from a Rock" the first words are
Blood from a rock,
Tears from an indian skull and crossbone.
Just be yourself and let us enjoy what you want to share.
If you really enjoy the attention of thousands of people looing at you all the time and want more of that then yes you will have to..... but you won't have to.....
Jade as a webmaster on the Amateur Girls internet I know many girls who don't fit the skinny, blonde, with fake boobs and make it real big on the internet. I is all marketing and how much you as a person want it.
I think you would be much better off posting the pics you want and enjoying your own group of groupies.
I have a singer friend who is Canadian Indian. He writes his own songs and has put out several CD's. He and his friends (girls mostly) sing every week on the Queen Mary in LA and several big clubs out there. He could be a big star but has turned down offers because he would have to change what and how he writes. He won't because his "message" is too important. For example his big song is "Blood from a Rock" the first words are
Blood from a rock,
Tears from an indian skull and crossbone.
Just be yourself and let us enjoy what you want to share.
If you really enjoy the attention of thousands of people looing at you all the time and want more of that then yes you will have to..... but you won't have to.....
