The Real Housewives of BDSM

[JaneRamsey]

(Moderators please delete if in wrong bdsm group)

The Real Housewives of BDSM

So this thread is piggy backing on the Domestic Discipline: 1950s Household Kink:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1485895


I wanted to open it up to a more modern day Housewife\household bdsm kink. In short, this thread is for those that are with their partner for the long haul. The ones that relish creating a home for them and pampering them after they've been out all day working hard for you and your family. Submitting everything about your mind and body to the creation and raising of their children and all (or most) of their desires.

(This thread is for House husbands too! Other variations also welcome, I can only use so much inclusive language before my sentences stop making sense…)

Love to hear from everyone!

 

[SissySalina]

Having a neat and tidy home is a large part of a proper atmosphere of the home. And the old saying about a home being a castle is close for everyone, it is a safe place to return to and relax with someone that loves and respects. Someone that sees to your needs alone, providing comfort and a relaxing atmosphere. A place where you are heard and listen to intensely with enthusiasm and with someone that caters to your needs and desires.

This is a proper sissy home.

 

[JaneRamsey]

Having a neat and tidy home is a large part of a proper atmosphere of the home. And the old saying about a home being a castle is close for everyone, it is a safe place to return to and relax with someone that loves and respects. Someone that sees to your needs alone, providing comfort and a relaxing atmosphere. A place where you are heard and listen to intensely with enthusiasm and with someone that caters to your needs and desires.

This is a proper sissy home.

 

[cookiecat]

When I met Mr. cookie (on an online kink site!), we talked endlessly about our dream of HoH, Taken in Hand, Domestic Discipline. My profile name on that site was kinkyjunecleaver. (Which I am far from but I had the dream!)

The goal was for me to be a stay at home wife and do the stay at home wifely stuff. You know, vacuum, laundry, suck his cock. Take care of him and our home.

The thing is, once we got together, reality knocked on the door and let itself in. All those ooey gooey, masturbation fodder talks we had flew away. Ummm, yeah, I know we should've had those real world conversations along with the kinky ones. And we did - somewhat. We really didn't dive in to the nuts and bolts of budgets, 401k's, retirement plans, yada yada.

We're older, no kids at home. We wanted to retire early, pay off the house. We couldn't if I stayed at home. I worked 40+ hours a week. He worked 40+ hours a week. As much as we wanted to tangle up our day to day life with D/s, often times, the day to day just got in the way of cock worship and making an amazing dinner.

Anyways. I'm wondering why more people aren't responding to this thread and I think this is why. Balancing the ideal HoH and my actual day to day life was quite the tight rope act. We did try! It was always fun to try.

 

[SissySalina]

When I met Mr. cookie (on an online kink site!), we talked endlessly about our dream of HoH, Taken in Hand, Domestic Discipline. My profile name on that site was kinkyjunecleaver. (Which I am far from but I had the dream!)

The goal was for me to be a stay at home wife and do the stay at home wifely stuff. You know, vacuum, laundry, suck his cock. Take care of him and our home.

The thing is, once we got together, reality knocked on the door and let itself in. All those ooey gooey, masturbation fodder talks we had flew away. Ummm, yeah, I know we should've had those real world conversations along with the kinky ones. And we did - somewhat. We really didn't dive in to the nuts and bolts of budgets, 401k's, retirement plans, yada yada.

We're older, no kids at home. We wanted to retire early, pay off the house. We couldn't if I stayed at home. I worked 40+ hours a week. He worked 40+ hours a week. As much as we wanted to tangle up our day to day life with D/s, often times, the day to day just got in the way of cock worship and making an amazing dinner.

Anyways. I'm wondering why more people aren't responding to this thread and I think this is why. Balancing the ideal HoH and my actual day to day life was quite the tight rope act. We did try! It was always fun to try.

Have found over the years and relationships that communication is the most important part of a relationship. All relationships have adjustments an most important they have ups and downs, that's where the communication really comes in to play.
Yes there is a lot of work to it but the biggest satisfaction is being able to work through it.

It takes dedication for a relationship to work. The satisfaction of making the relationship work is the ultimate goal.