The Power Of Blow Jobs

[joan_the_bone]

I really enjoy giving head. I love the feeling of power I get when I make a man come with my mouth. I know some other women find it distasteful and even subservient. I am just the opposite. I know many of us have used that power over men to persuade them to do things that WE want. When I was in college I was in a healthcare related program and 5 of us were failing our chemistry class. One of my friends cut a deal to blow the teacher in exchange for all 5 of us getting an A. One blow job 5 A's. Sounds like a powerful gift of persuasion to me. So girls (or guys ?) tell me your stories of oral empowerment.I do have a few more great stories I can relate.
Joan

 

[jackstud]

Did you all get the grade?

 

[joan_the_bone]

Sure did!!!! Debbie is one of the people who engrained in me just how powerful it is, and she loved doing it, because her one blowjob changed her 5 friends life for the better. Plus he wasn't bad looking.

 

[sata85]

In my first year of college, I was doing ... all right, but not spectacularly, and it looked like I was going to need to do a different class as opposed to the one I really wanted. I met the head of the department, a decent-looking gay guy, and we came to an arrangement. Well, he came. A lot. I'd say it was that experience that got me hooked on blowing guys, and unleashed my theretofore dormant gay side.

 

[Artfan2]

I really enjoy giving head. I love the feeling of power I get when I make a man come with my mouth...

A woman who can take me in her mouth, make me hard, and keep me on the edge of cumming has complete control over me. I'll do anything for her. It's a great talent!

 

[joan_the_bone]

In my first year of college, I was doing ... all right, but not spectacularly, and it looked like I was going to need to do a different class as opposed to the one I really wanted. I met the head of the department, a decent-looking gay guy, and we came to an arrangement. Well, he came. A lot. I'd say it was that experience that got me hooked on blowing guys, and unleashed my theretofore dormant gay side.

Good for you SATA

 

[Artfan2]

Debbie is one of the people who engrained in me just how powerful it is, and she loved doing it, because her one blowjob changed her 5 friends life for the better. Plus he wasn't bad looking.

He should have negotiated for a blow job from each of you! So when did you and the other girls start using your newly discovered power?

 

[joan_the_bone]

Most men are inherently weak like that artfan. He was probably happy with 20% of something than 100% of nothing if the others didn't agree. I was in a sorority and you would be surprised by the things that were accomplished by those of us that were into it. We were always getting our car fixed for free and 2 of my sisters I know blew their Dads for cars (I know rather taboo) one to thank him for her car (I remember us teasing her.... "You must have sucked his dick to get a BMW!!!" and she replied with 2 words and a smile "I did") and the other to coerce an upgrade from a Cavalier to a Mustang convertible.

 

[sterculius]

I love sucking cock and I LOVE "being" a cocksucker!!! I feel extremely empowered whenever I'm on my knees with a thick cock fucking my throat!!! It's kind of like in "Star Wars" when Darth Vader is light saber dueling and is feeding off his opponents anger. That's how I feel about giving blowjobs. I'm able to absorb the sexual energy of the guy whose cock I'm sucking! I'm able to suppress my gag reflex so that I can allow the guy to very aggressively fuck my throat! The harder he does it the better I like it! And when he finally cums in my mouth, by swallowing his cum I ingest and assimilate the power of his orgasm!! Afterward they feel drained but I feel victorious!!

 

[JoeyKicks]

My wife often uses the power of the blowjob to get me to do things she doesn't feel like doing. She is not into it as much as you are, but she is damn good at it. So when she is offering, I am accepting!

 

[Marci_M]

I sure hope you return the favor. If I suck a lover and he won't return the favor, I won't suck him again. Fair is fair.

 

[satyr82000]

Its as fun to give as to receive

 

[TwoShades]

I sure hope you return the favor. If I suck a lover and he won't return the favor, I won't suck him again. Fair is fair.

Return the favor? You mean there are some out there who don't FUCKING LOVE licking pussy??

 

[stu_gats_2000]

I really enjoy giving head. I love the feeling of power I get when I make a man come with my mouth. I know some other women find it distasteful and even subservient. I am just the opposite. I know many of us have used that power over men to persuade them to do things that WE want. When I was in college I was in a healthcare related program and 5 of us were failing our chemistry class. One of my friends cut a deal to blow the teacher in exchange for all 5 of us getting an A. One blow job 5 A's. Sounds like a powerful gift of persuasion to me. So girls (or guys ?) tell me your stories of oral empowerment.I do have a few more great stories I can relate.
Joan

I enjoy a good bj from the right person

 

[HoldYouDown]

Not my cup of tea.

 

[thewill]

To make my man hard then work him. Slowly suck him deep and using my tongue on his shaft then suddenly stop. He will always beg me to continue, that is when I know I am in charge

 

[Artfan2]

...If I suck a lover and he won't return the favor, I won't suck him again. Fair is fair.

Deal.

 

[xanach]

When I was in college I was in a healthcare related program and 5 of us were failing our chemistry class. One of my friends cut a deal to blow the teacher in exchange for all 5 of us getting an A. One blow job 5 A's. Sounds like a powerful gift of persuasion to me. So girls (or guys ?) tell me your stories of oral empowerment.I do have a few more great stories I can relate.
Joan

This is a big fantasy of mine, to be on the receiving end of such an "arrangement"

 

[GirlyBoy9129]

I loves sucking cock and feeling the cum gush in my mouth. I use to have an older neighbor that i sucked alot. He was in his 50's and his loads were huge. I miss that.

 

[Kalamain]

My wife would hold me at bay for AGES before allowing me to cum. To literally stop me breathing from one second to the next then controlling every fiber of my being.

THAT is real power...

I'm not sure she could ever use it to get things she wanted (She could have everything anyway because I love her) but it was still an ultimate power. One I don't have when I go down on her...Not to the degree she has anyway.

 

[freckledvixen]

I do it quite often, and I always get what I want You're so right! It is very empowering, because once you have a man in that state, as Artfan said, he will do anything you ask him to do.

Great thread!

My man and I haven't been out on a real date in a long time, and I am getting bored! So last night I spontaneously got on my knees, pulled him out and began my work. All the while I got him to agree to take me out to this new expensive Italian restaurant that just opened up near us tonight! I love Italian food! And sucking his dick

 

[Whiskey1965]

My gf once told me that my worst day could be cured with a cold beer and one of her loudest, wettest blow jobs.........as of this date the wonderful ,sexy brilliant woman is 100% correct!
I get off from the feeling and the sight, she loves the control and reaction.
Of course I do enjoy returning the favor.

 

[eroticspank]

Nice!

I really enjoy giving head. I love the feeling of power I get when I make a man come with my mouth. I know some other women find it distasteful and even subservient. I am just the opposite. I know many of us have used that power over men to persuade them to do things that WE want. When I was in college I was in a healthcare related program and 5 of us were failing our chemistry class. One of my friends cut a deal to blow the teacher in exchange for all 5 of us getting an A. One blow job 5 A's. Sounds like a powerful gift of persuasion to me. So girls (or guys ?) tell me your stories of oral empowerment.I do have a few more great stories I can relate.
Joan

My ex wife was that way and really hated giving blowjobs on her knees because she felt it was subservient.

Years after my divorce I met this girl in Hawaii. We met right outside a bar and after an hour or so of talking I felt very comfortable around her. We really hit it off so we went to my hotel room.

It did not take long and soon she was giving me a blowjob. I had never had a REALLY good blowjob my entire life up until that night. I came very hard into her mouth and we went out for about a year whenever I was in town.

Now here is the part most people find unbelievable. We never had sex. She just gave me blowjobs the entire time. We kissed, made out, and I even was over at her apartment, laying around naked together. But she never let me fuck her or go down on her.

Your typical guys' wet dream right? No. It was frustrating for me because I wanted more. I tried to talk her about it and she just told me it was not going to happen. Somehow, every time she gave me a blowjob, I felt like she was controlling me, using her skills to control me. If I complained about something, pouted, etc, she would give me a BJ and I would fall in line like a Steppford Husband, my head down and "Yes Dear..." came from my lips. I did whatever she said, and it took me a while to realize I was not happy and get out of the relationship.

Now, 30 years later I am not led around by my dick, but I can clearly see how it happened and how easily I was controlled. You would think my experience turned me off to that kind of play. But today I am a Switch and I find the concept HOT both as a sub and Dom in the bedroom, and it is part of my fantasy life.

ES

 

[Lemmy963]

Got to say that yes, many of us guys are suckers for this. Had a crazy ex I dated for far too long because she was not only good at sucking cock but loved doing it as well.

Guess it can be said that some of us have umm, short leashes.

I just find it sad that I've known too many guys who didn't return the favor somehow...

 

[littlecordelera]

Rumor has it that giving blowjobs to older rich guys can pay a girl's way through college. And if she's really, really good, I understand they will provide top-notch restaurants, swanky hotels, and quite handsome compensation.

Ahem...so I've been told.