The Party is over

[Ebonyfire]

Well folks I am going away for a while, perhaps forever. The wind has been taken out of my sails. I think I need to get away from Literotica, and continue with my real life.

It seems that tavish and I will not be together after all. I will not be moving to the UK.

It is a difficult and complicated situation, and the gap is just too large for one of us to breach. I am not happy, and as such I have to get away from this board. I met him here, and truth be told, he has been the main reason I have stayed.

I hope sub and Dom/me alike, find what you seek and have success in your relationships. But as for me, I must be going, I must find another way.

Ebonyfire <tavishless forever>

 

[MissTaken]

Many hugs and best wishes, ebony.

Please, feel free to e mail me if you ever want to just talk a bit.

 

[Quint]

Ebony, I have read your words with pleasure. You have been a wonderful member of this community, and I'll dearly miss you. Thank you. I wish you the best of everything, especially with this particular situation. May it all work out in the end. *hug*

 

[cymbidia]

I am so very sorry, Eb.

He pm'ed me to tell me and i have to confess that one of my very first thoughts was hope that you would remain and work through this with us as support. So many of us have been where you are.

Are there no happy endings for any of us anymore?
Are all the happy endings taken?

The hurt will heal, Eb.
It will become less all-consuming.
Minutes will go past without agony, and then even hours.
Eventually you'll be on the other side of the thing, stronger.

You cannot hear the words i'm saying around this right now, i know that, but they will make sense later, down the road a bit.

For now, please know that i understand in only the way one who has recently been where you are now can possibly understand - and i am so very sorry for the pain that has become so central in your life.

b.

 

[SierraMoon]

Oh Ebony.. i am so very sorry to hear of your heartbreak. i wish you could remain here, where we can rally around you, and help you through this.. maybe you can feel comfortable returning, sometime in the future, and let us know how you are doing. You are a wonderful lady, with so much to give, and i wish you the absolute best in your future!!!
many many hugs to you
r.

 

[morninggirl5]

Ebony, my heart breaks for you. Not too long ago, i felt like my world was falling down around me, so i understand the need to be away from all the reminders. Take the time you need, scream, rage, let yourself get it all out.

We'll be here when the good feelings outweigh the bad. You are one of the shining stars here and without you our world will be less beautiful.

My pm box and e-mail are always open.





mg

 

[Daddyslilpet]

Ebony,

You have my best thoughts heading your way....here's hoping that the positive energy that's being given you by your obvious friends on this board will help you to heal your heart.

I for one have enjoyed learning from your posts, and selfishly hope that those will continue.


dixi

 

[WillowPuss]

Ebony, I am so very sorry you are hurting.

I was rather hoping to meet you on your next trip over ...


Take care and take time for yourself.
If you want to PM or mail - please feel free.


((((HUGS))))


And I do hope you will not stay away from here too long - we all have so much to learn from you.

 

[Cirrus]

I don't know the words to say what I'm feeling for you right now. I'm not very good at that sort of thing...but it's something close to sympathy, empathy, and a tinge of regret. May you, too, find what you need.

The hurt will heal, even though I know right now it feels like it never will. My thoughts will be with you.

 

[petrel]

Ebony - I am very sorry - I wish there was something else I could say but it all sounds so trite.

Sunshine be in your face good fortune be at your feet and a sweet wind at your back wherever you travel

 

[MotorCitySam]

Ebony, I am much agrieved to hear your bad news. I hope you will look in and see the outpouring of support that you have already received here, and decide to stay and allow us to stand beside you in your hard times.
In any regard, my best to you.

 

[mskittykatt]

T.T

my words have left me - i'm sorry, goodbye, i'll miss you don't say how i feel. i've read far more then i've posted here, and i will miss your voice.

 

[tassie]

oh. no words.

much love, know that.

 

[DRxBlue]

i can see your point...

A clean break and a new start are what's called for now. You know that when you're ready, we will be so glad to welcome you back.

i learned so much from you , my Sister. The lesson you are studying now, i have learned too. There's no easy way.

Take good care of yourself.

Much love,
Blue

 

[Shadowsdream]

Ebony

It is My sincere hope that once the anger, frustration and pain are gone You will return here to the home amongst friends that You so rightfully belong in.

Though We have shared few words, You and I, I must say that You have always stood out as a Domme I would be proud to stand side by side with, anywhere, any time.

Please feel welcome to PM or Email Me at anytime

 

[cellis]

Ebony my heart aches for you...

I know the pain of broken dreams.

You are such an important part of this board.

Please take the time to heal and know that we are here for you if you should need anything.

Feel free to email or pm me....

 

[CarolineOh]

Ebony, your kindness and wisdom have been a beacon for me in my journey. Do what you must to enable your healing, but know that if you return to us, we will greet you with love and joy.

 

[Lancecastor]

Well, that just sucks.

It's a big pile of poo.

And a smelly one, too.

Wish I could wiggle my nose and make it all go away.


All the usual stock phrases about fish, the sea, sun rising, doors opening, etc;
Lance

 

[artful]

Ebony

Long Distance relationships, even with the aid of Internet, telephones, web cams etc., are the VERY most difficult to maintain. The long distance however, does not lessen the pain of a final parting. Time and patience are the two healers, but shoulders of close friends are needed for balance. I truly hope to see you return to the BDSM Forum.

A Reader,................................Art

 

[RisiaSkye]

I like and respect Ebony, and I'll miss her.

But I also trust her strength and respect her self-awareness enough to know that if she's leaving/left, it's because she needs to do so.

Ebonyfire, wherever you are: I wish all good things to you, and I hope our paths cross again.

 

[Frouwa_Aph]

I'm sad to hear about your loss Eb, things like that hurt like hell. I hope you find the exit from Painsville soon and your way back in here too.

Monika

 

[Verypowerful]

You're in my thoughts.

VP

 

[SpectreT]

What they all said.

My thoughts and better wishes are with you. C'mon back when time has done its thing with your pain. Til then know you have plenty of support here.

 

[MzChrista]

Well shit, that sucks. I am sorry you got hurt, Ebony, but it looks like you changed your mind about leaving and thats cool.

 

[bad kitty]

I am deeply sorry for you Ebony. I am sorry but I am also at a loss for words, besides, everyone else said it better than I could have. Just know you will remain in the hearts and thoughts of everyone here.