The obvious size question

[biggieds]

What would you guys say is the average size of the male penis both limp and large for ages 20-30-40?

 

[Ms_Lilith]

run a search on penis size.

And who the fuck cares, anyway? It's how you use it. It's the person behind the penis.

For fuck's sake, people, FAR too much attention is paid to the penis.

Bah!

 

[wetpants]

penis size

run a search on penis size.

And who the fuck cares, anyway? It's how you use it. It's the person behind the penis.

For fuck's sake, people, FAR too much attention is paid to the penis.

Bah!

I agree Vixenshe, it's not how much led is in the pencil, it's how well you can write with it.

 

[wellnow]

Re: penis size

I agree Vixenshe, it's not how much led is in the pencil, it's how well you can write with it.

Even with pencils, size is an issue

 

[SupaStyles]

Well I have read the average length is around 6" and I beleive that is hard as far as age breakdown I think you may need to do some feild research.

What would you guys say is the average size of the male penis both limp and large for ages 20-30-40?

 

[Willing and Unsure]

just a dumb thought here, but wouldnt the average size be the same among all age groups? that's why it's called an average, right?



and vixenshe is right, it is definitely how you use it, not the size of it.

 

[SupaStyles]

just a dumb thought here, but wouldnt the average size be the same among all age groups? that's why it's called an average, right?

Well in time size could fluctuate I could assume evolution of the penis and all.. Plus average can apply to a whole but also a group..

 

[crazybbwgirl]

You mean they change size as you grow older? Do they get bigger or smaller? I know that noses and ears keep growing until you die - but if that were true of penises there'd be a bunch of really old men with huge cocks! Surely someone would have noticed that by now! lol And every girl would want to date a really old man....hmmm think of it - another wonderful benefit of aging. I just love a man's cock - and no matter what size I think they deserve all the attention we can give them!

 

[shopperst]

I just love a man's cock - and no matter what size I think they deserve all the attention we can give them!

What she said

Turn that Renault ad on it's head, size matters, but the difference between 'uhuh & vava voom' is all in the hands of the person driving the car

 

[MR.GGG]

for the challenged

Do not put beans in your ears and re:

""it's not how much led is in the pencil ...""

Do NOT put LEDs in your penis. This will not make your penis larger. It MAY make your PENIS brighter but it will only prove the opposite for you.

Be careful out there.

 

[P. B. Walker]

The average size for the male penis is 14 inches

In fact, if you are under 10 inches, you need to go see a doctor NOW and have surgery done.

Don't wait. Go now. Call the ambulance. HUUUUUUUUUURRRY.

 

[ethereal~minx]

run a search on penis size.

And who the fuck cares, anyway? It's how you use it. It's the person behind the penis.

For fuck's sake, people, FAR too much attention is paid to the penis.

Bah!

I've always been one to say size DOES matter but I have since found this is just not true. wow, it is definitely in the know-how, the chemistry between the two... when it's right it's right and it doesn't matter how big, how small...nope

damn, generally though... if it's just a fling, or a one night stand or something like that, he better be adequate.. no pencils, or pinky-fingers for me.

 

[sexcandy]

I disagree with the notion that size "does not matter" because it does. I am not saying a man has to be HUGE or larger then average but a man with a small penis is not the same as a man with an average size one.

Of course the man with the average size may be lousy in other aspects. And the man with a small maybe an expert in other areas. But when it comes to simple intercourse, size does in fact matter.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I disagree with the notion that size "does not matter" because it does. I am not saying a man has to be HUGE or larger then average but a man with a small penis is not the same as a man with an average size one.

Of course the man with the average size may be lousy in other aspects. And the man with a small maybe an expert in other areas. But when it comes to simple intercourse, size does in fact matter.

if you have a man with a small penis, and he pays attention to your needs and he does all that you love and leaves you completely satisfied......

and then you have a man with an average or big penis, and he's selfish and doesn't satisfy you,

who will you go back to?

The one who satisfies you.

I've been with men from 5" to 8.5". I've been with men in between those numbers. The guy with the 5" dick was one of the most courteous lovers I ever had, and he was good at what he did. I would definately recommend him to a friend.

And what I meant by my first answer for all you people who just don't get it, is that yeah, y'know, men are proud of their penises. Yes, the penis deserves attention.. but not because it's a penis. It deserves attention because it's part of the man! So often, men simply equate themselves with their penis, like women who equate their self-worth with the size of their breasts. That's wrong. A man's worth lies not in his pants, but in his mind and heart. And all the threads that worry about penis-size worry ME, because I think men are short-changing themselves, thinking all women are interested in is the cock.

 

[MercyMia]

I've always been one to say size DOES matter but I have since found this is just not true. wow, it is definitely in the know-how, the chemistry between the two... when it's right it's right and it doesn't matter how big, how small...nope

damn, generally though... if it's just a fling, or a one night stand or something like that, he better be adequate.. no pencils, or pinky-fingers for me.

naw! that can't be right! from the other side of the coin, this means that guys who have pencils/pinky-fingers do not have equal chances at a one-night stand!!!

LOL!

i agree with vixenshe--if a guy is hugely endowed but has the sex quotient of a slug, the imagination of a stone, then nevah mind! if a guy does not create an earthquake with his bulge but has love of life, a sense of humor and that savoir faire that is just so sexy...well, just watch mia elbow her way over to *him*!

the real size of the penis begins in the brain. or something like that.

 

[sheath]

The average size for the male penis is 14 inches

In fact, if you are under 10 inches, you need to go see a doctor NOW and have surgery done.

Don't wait. Go now. Call the ambulance. HUUUUUUUUUURRRY.

LMAO

Hmmm...In searching for the ideal man, a woman should always look at the size of his sense of humor.

S.

 

[RandomInk]

The reason this is such a popular topic is that guys are insecure about their penis size. It's about the only thing we can use as a measure of our sexual ability without actually asking. So, while a girl has a variety of assets, the man only has his penis and two others. I'm sure everyone is bright enough to figure out what I mean.

While girl's are often insecure about their looks and appearance guys often feel the same way about themselves. Though society impresses upon them that the strong male does not trifle himself with emotional expression or cares. So, an emotionally unstable man can't go to others guys to talk about such things, it's percieved by many to be against the norm. Now, the upset male looks to the only proof of his masculinity, his penis. Thus why so many men are fixated upon their penis. It's an insecurity issue from the present or past and it's the only measure he thinks he has as to his masculinity

 

[Another Shy One]

The reason this is such a popular topic is that guys are insecure about their penis size. It's about the only thing we can use as a measure of our sexual ability without actually asking. So, while a girl has a variety of assets, the man only has his penis and two others. I'm sure everyone is bright enough to figure out what I mean.

While girl's are often insecure about their looks and appearance guys often feel the same way about themselves. Though society impresses upon them that the strong male does not trifle himself with emotional expression or cares. So, an emotionally unstable man can't go to others guys to talk about such things, it's percieved by many to be against the norm. Now, the upset male looks to the only proof of his masculinity, his penis. Thus why so many men are fixated upon their penis. It's an insecurity issue from the present or past and it's the only measure he thinks he has as to his masculinity

well said


I would like to add one thing: men do not make up this norm or this situation, they are drawn in it. In simple terms: that's the way it is.

The most respectful thing for anybody who does not understand this (mostly women) is to try to get in their shoes and then starting to give advices. Ridiculizing someone just because you don't understand is not nice.

 

[crazybbwgirl]

LMAO

Hmmm...In searching for the ideal man, a woman should always look at the size of his sense of humor.

S.

YES! That's the perfect phrase. Just like men - sure I don't MIND being with a guy with a huge penis - just like most guys don't MIND being with a woman with a big rack - its just not one of my top requirements.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

The reason this is such a popular topic is that guys are insecure about their penis size. It's about the only thing we can use as a measure of our sexual ability without actually asking. So, while a girl has a variety of assets, the man only has his penis and two others. I'm sure everyone is bright enough to figure out what I mean.

While girl's are often insecure about their looks and appearance guys often feel the same way about themselves. Though society impresses upon them that the strong male does not trifle himself with emotional expression or cares. So, an emotionally unstable man can't go to others guys to talk about such things, it's percieved by many to be against the norm. Now, the upset male looks to the only proof of his masculinity, his penis. Thus why so many men are fixated upon their penis. It's an insecurity issue from the present or past and it's the only measure he thinks he has as to his masculinity

I'm not saying I don't understand this. I do. I understand that a lot of women believe they are only sexual in as large as their breasts are. A lot of women think that if they have small boobs, men won't find them attractive, and they'll be left standing there with the small-penised men. (they should have an orgy).

My POINT is that I think it's wrong to let yourself (men AND women) get sucked into that method of thinking. You're saying that 'it's just the way it is'. Why should you just shrug and allow things to stay that way? Why not find someone you can talk to about sex.. like on the boards here, and then learn that your sexuality is in your head, in your heart, not just in your body? There are outlets for frustration, and there are places to talk about things with anonymity.

Society dictates far too much, knowing that most of the population will listen. Society dictates to those with small breasts and penises that they are undesirable, that they are inadequate. Are you willing to let a whole bunch of people who've never SEEN you, never spoken with you, never met you, to dictate how adequate or desirable you are? And if yes, then WHY? For goodness sakes, you're worth more than someone's pre-determined judgemental opinion of you.

THIS is my point, ladies and gentlemen.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

The reason this is such a popular topic is that guys are insecure about their penis size. It's about the only thing we can use as a measure of our sexual ability without actually asking.

just cuz it's big dont mean that your sexual ability is going to be that great.

 

[RandomInk]

It's a common misconception by men, though, that size means skill. It doesn't, and, it's been said enough times by the women of Lit that I hope there aren't many more. I would hate to be new here (look, I am new here) and have to read through twenty responses about how size isn't important just to get to the answer of what the average was. I've seen many studies though that show different sizes as being average.

Most commonly though, from 5.5" to 6" seems to be the average. I'm not sure about girth though, how the hell is that measured anyway?

 

[sexcandy]

if you have a man with a small penis, and he pays attention to your needs and he does all that you love and leaves you completely satisfied......
and then you have a man with an average or big penis, and he's selfish and doesn't satisfy you,
who will you go back to?

Like I said, when it comes to ONLY intercourse, a man with an small (think vienna sausage) is just NOT the same as a man with an average ( about 6in +/- ). Obviously the lover who cares about my needs, even if he is a "vienna sausage" is more desireable then a man who only cares about his needs, regardless of his endowment.

I've been with men from 5" to 8.5".

I am not thinking that a man with a 5" average girth penis is small. When I think of a guy with a small penis, I get the vision of an ex boyfriend, he was MAYBE 3.5" fully erect and had the girth of maybe an oscar meyer hot dog.

 

[sexcandy]

I'm not sure about girth though, how the hell is that measured anyway?

By getting a tape meausure (like those used to measure for clothing) and wraping it around you penis.

 

[catastrophe]

All I have to say is, once I had a guy come up to me and tell me he had ten inches that he wanted to use on me. Being that I had an ex that was 7.5, my only thought for this new guy (besides that he was probably fulloshit) was "Ouch!"

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