The Nature Of The Beast

[Guest]

Greetings:

I have been having a series of conversations, both on and offline, about the nature of Dominance and submission.
Which have piqued my curiosity.
To each of us, Dom, Domme, or sub, our lifestyle has a nature. That thing which makes us what we are. (To quote another) "That which wrinkleth our raisin".

No doubt this has been done before.
But.
What is the nature of your beast? - What is the nature of your submission? What is the nature of your Dom/me ness? What do you require of others (or yourself for that matter) to maintain a relationship with them in the lifestyle?

{As usual, Clown noses and fake beards will be provided to protect the identities of all respondants.}

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Chuckles

... and yanks the choke collar tight.

Nobody under the bed, but us dust bunnies.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Greetings:


{As usual, Clown noses and fake beards will be provided to protect the identities of all respondants.}

Thanks but I have my own disguise....

Look fast. It won't last long.

 

[Guest]

Hmmmmmm

I sense that this could all get REALLY strange REALLY quickly..

A disturbance in the farce

GOODY!!!!!!!!

 

[catalina_francisco]

Actually we have had a thread about this subject before but I think it is a good idea to start anew. With a clean fresh start.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&postid=6299997#post6299997

http://www.handykult.de/plaudersmilies.de/tales/men_ani.gifFrancisco.

 

[Quint]

I think the question contains the answer for me. I require a beast.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

I think the question contains the answer for me. I require a beast.

Dust bunny hops across the thread ...

 

[Quint]

Dust bunny hops across the thread ...

Oh pleeeeeeeeease! Not the scary bunny! It's too horrific! It isn't even sanitary! Shriek!

Ahem. We now return you to your regularly scheduled thread.

 

[Netzach]

Beast is a silly and sensuous housecat that periodically grows to 40 feet in stature and eats people alive, then returns to former state, purrs, rubs up against their legs like it was all a heavy trip.

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Oh pleeeeeeeeease! Not the scary bunny! It's too horrific! It isn't even sanitary! Shriek!

Ahem. We now return you to your regularly scheduled thread.

would you prefer a dust devil?

 

[Mr Blonde]

It is a persistant inner intensity that is sometimes externalized.

I require a mate who naturally understands the inner intensity and enjoys when it becomes actualized.

 

[Guest]

And the buzzer sounds!!!!!!!!!

It is a persistant inner intensity that is sometimes externalized.

I require a mate who naturally understands the inner intensity and enjoys when it becomes actualized.

Possible editorial foul -
They are going for the replay to review......

Hmmm care to break that down a bit??????????

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Re: And the buzzer sounds!!!!!!!!!

Possible editorial foul -
They are going for the replay to review......

Hmmm care to break that down a bit??????????

Seems pretty clear to me.

His animal is always there, in everything he approaches, and sometimes he lets the big kitty out for a romp.

He wants a mate, now the tricky part, that understands that animal and perhaps why he keeps it leashed, and thoroughly enjoys the times He lets that animal off the leash.

What the hell, thought i'd take a whack at it anyway.

 

[niteshade]

Re: Re: And the buzzer sounds!!!!!!!!!

Seems pretty clear to me.

His animal is always there, in everything he approaches, and sometimes he lets the big kitty out for a romp.

He wants a mate, now the tricky part, that understands that animal and perhaps why he keeps it leashed, and thoroughly enjoys the times He lets that animal off the leash.

What the hell, thought i'd take a whack at it anyway.

Seems like that was what he was saying to me. I love people like that... they are so much fun to watch, and see if you can tempt them into losing a little bit of that control... and watching the strength it takes to hold the control so firmly in place. Strength is a beautiful thing.

 

[Guest]

Re: And the buzzer sounds!!!!!!!!!

Possible editorial foul -
They are going for the replay to review......

Hmmm care to break that down a bit??????????

Ahh

For me to be a bit clearer......

Sorry I was just hoping for a bit of elucidation - for those lurking, or even posting folks who are new at all this.

We all who have done this for a while tend to understand what the others are saying a bit better than those who do not deal with the ideas on a daily basis.

Now.. If you will excuse me * Burble burble RRRIIIIIPPPPPPP-- as a really large chainsaw fires up and revs***
Another of those damn dustbunnies has gotten loose in here...
"Come BACK here yah little bastard ....and face your fate. "
*RRRRRRRRRRRRRIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIPPPPPPPPPPPPRRRRRPPPPPRRRRRRRRPPPPPPPPPPPPRRRRRRRR****

 

[Guest]

Re: Re: Re: And the buzzer sounds!!!!!!!!!

Seems like that was what he was saying to me. I love people like that... they are so much fun to watch, and see if you can tempt them into losing a little bit of that control... and watching the strength it takes to hold the control so firmly in place. Strength is a beautiful thing.

Oh I don't know- For myself I like to retain my control.
It can become a sort of slow inexorable thing.
While it progresses, it gives you time to adapt to the vict...er ........partner.
Lets you fit into them. Mold what is happening to them. It becomes a thing that is intensly unique, can never be really repeated.
When it happens right - by the end -your time together- will last in each others minds forever.

 

[Guest]

Self??

Hmmm

Is this the point where I do the illustrative self confession??????

 

[catalina_francisco]

I must say I do sometimes feel just as Mr Blonds describes, like there is a beast inside that needs to come out, and if left unchecked it could take over my being. I maintain a high level of control over that part of me, but I also have found that if I do not feed it, it comes out forcefully presenting itself with an almost unstilled hunger.

To me the matter consists out of balance, balancing between controlling that part and feeding it. And to respond to the remark of Nightshade it is no fun having someone trying to break that control, it has taken me years upon years to obtain the balance between the parts that are my whole. Whenever a play partner tries unsettling that balance it has lead to the same thing, an ending of the game and the destruction of playing with that partner again.

Francisco.

 

[Desdemona]

I love being near the beast. Whenever Snooze lets the beast out to play, I feel just a touch of fear, a thrill of being near danger even though I know He keeps the beast firmly under control at all times.

I see His strength and admire it greatly, but I never tempt Him to lose control. We've discussed how important it is to Him to maintain control of the beast. I would never trifle with something like that.

 

[niteshade]

Uh oh... I think maybe I wasn't as clear as I should have been, but I am not sure how to explain it, so I am just going to say that I didn't mean it in the sense of trying to break the control... just that watching all that strength at work is an awesome experiance. I am still making a mess of it, so I am gonna stop now. LOL.

 

[BlueSugar]

What is the nature of your submission?
This question made me think... but I believe it stems from roleplay when I was alot younger, I was always the submissive one. I always followed orders, very large role in the house hold as well but in a subservent way ... its always in my mind to keep other happy by putting them first. And I remember when I started having sex regularly with someone i was in a relationship with.. there were bad days... where every now and then... I know i had sex -very rough sex- to just feel alive and human.
Now I have a more mature outlook on things, as we've all grown up ( or not ) and I just like..love... get off... on being the submissive at some Dom's hands and manipulations.

What do you require of others (or yourself for that matter) to maintain a relationship with them in the lifestyle?
Playful, openminded, and into bdsm definetly (not sometimes, but most of the time) he/she must also be much more Dom.

 

[Guest]

* He wanders back - wiping his hands on a VERY large towel*

"Well.. now that thats taken care of....."

I suppose part of what prompted this thread was the internal realization that what I think of as "being a Dom", had seperated into two parts.
There is the relationship - and there is play. And the two do not always meet squarely.
Play is something that I have come to regard as an art. Much like the playing of a fine instrument. Or painting a picture. Either way it is very much an adaptive process.
I, the Dom, in physical play, am seeking to induce a series of desired physical reactions in the subject. Keeping in mind that the path to these reactions is different for "each and every person encountered".

Sounds very dry doesn't it. Very clinical and unemotional.
It isn't.

All that boils down to a process that I enjoy greatly. That of inducing orgasm in my sub. To try to bring her, to an intensity of feeling and sensation that trips over into a satisfying emotional/sensual experience.
To do this, I have to learn her body and mind - a process which I also find greatly enjoyable.

There's part of it. And the whole thing is, I find, immensley rewarding to the self. ( as well as {hopefully} to the submissive)

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

Greetings:

What is the nature of your beast? - What is the nature of your submission? What is the nature of your Dom/me ness? What do you require of others (or yourself for that matter) to maintain a relationship with them in the lifestyle?

Hmmm...my subbie state is not attained very easliy. As i have explained else where on the board, tis about pain/pleasure for me (mayhap followed one fine day by slavery). I KNOW that i require pain in all it's forms. The beast inside ME requires someone to subjugate it and quiet it's anger. It is part and parcel of what and WHO i am.

The relationship aspect is NOT needed (at least not for me) as most people do not want what i require on a daily basis. I understand that and deal with those who are willing to deal with me. If i were lucky enough to find someone in the life who was as harsh a Dom/me as i require, well that would be bliss indeed.

The main thing i look for and need is strength..both physical and emotional. No half-hearted stuff for this maso subbie. I need Someone who is convinced of Their right to control and tame me and not just anyone can provide that. I am alpha and proud. Only one more Dominant than me, can take from me what i have to share.

pet

 

[Guest]

And another thought on the same page-

Does your relationship (day to day) reflect/ interfere with the D/s part of your life?