the mutual masturbation contract

callmeismael

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Two people (let's say a man and a woman, but it could easily be a same sex couple) are both frustrated with their own marriages, both lust for one-another, but both are unsure of how far they're willing to go. They crave the connection, but fear what an affair would do to their marriages. Both enjoy masturbation, but tire of doing alone without a connection to another person. So they decide to enter into a mutual masturbation arrangement, but come up with a contract. This contract has two simple rules:

1. Absolutely no touching.
2. If either partner intentionally violates rule 1, then rule 1 is suspended for the rest of that session, but it will be the last time they ever meet.
(The idea behind these rules is that they prevent this from becoming what they're both uncomfortable with: a real, ongoing, physical affair).

At the beginning they simply watch and tease one another, or watch some porn together, but eventually they start to push one another... she straddles his face, poised just above his mouth as she masturbates, not touching him but so close that he can smell her rich, delicious scent and almost taste her. Daring him to flick out his tongue and taste her, testing her own limits, resisting the urge to just grind down on his face. Another time, she spreads her legs and he climbs above her, his body poised over hers as he strokes his cock, each stroke matching the rhythm with which she thrusts a dildo into herself, their bodies so close that they can feel one-another's warmth. And he wants so desperately to plunge himself inside of her. But each know that to violate their own rules means the end of their affair. The rules and limits, essentially, become the fetish. They can explore bondage, roleplay, public play, all the while staying just inside their rules. Can they go on like that indefinitely, or will they eventually succumb, spend one night enjoying the pleasures of one-another's bodies, and then, as agreed in their contract, never meet again?

Personally, I think there's something both beautiful and tragic to this arrangement: they agree that either they'll go on forever with a strong emotional and psychological connection but never explore one another's bodies, or they'll be lovers, in the truest sense of the word, exactly once.

So how about it, married people? Would you ever agree to such a contract? Do you think you could carry on indefinitely, or would you give in sooner or later?
As a married man, I've been developing this fantasy in my mind, and I get pretty excited by both the sexual and emotional elements to it. I love their limits becoming a fetish of its own.
 
The idea seems very exciting but I know I would give in much sooner than later. Even just reading that has me squirming.
 
This is delightfully spicy, but far too torturous for me, which is probably why I like it.

I'm not married, but this is fantasy fodder for sure. Having to chose one or the other...hot!
 
Amazing scenario.
I have thought about this in the past.....whether I could resist the urge to touch. I would like to think I could, but in the heat of the moment, when the urge takes over, who knows.
 
Straddling his face as he watches my tease my pussy, my glistening swollen lips just inches from his..feeling his hot breathe as I rock against my fingers, my scent swirling around him...

I'm thinking that would have to take a whole lot of self control for him and me....I'd be grinding against his tongue not even thinking of the contract till it was too late....

It would be delicious and sooo intense. Now you have me wondering exactly how long I could hold out before giving in lol
 
Straddling his face as he watches my tease my pussy, my glistening swollen lips just inches from his..feeling his hot breathe as I rock against my fingers, my scent swirling around him...

I'm thinking that would have to take a whole lot of self control for him and me....I'd be grinding against his tongue not even thinking of the contract till it was too late....

It would be delicious and sooo intense. Now you have me wondering exactly how long I could hold out before giving in lol

I predict you could not make it through the first session. :) I know I could not. But then I would probably just break the contract. I'm weak that way sometimes.
 
Stay strong....it will get even more intense the longer you resist the urge to touch....
touching will in effect end the whole thing....!
 
One of the dilemmas is that the longer the two lovers continue on with the arrangement, the harder it's going to be when one of them gives in. If it's on the third date, not such a big deal; if it's after six months, it's going to be much more difficult. Imagine that moment when your partner suddenly grabs you and you know, in a heartbeat, that it's your last time together and you've got to make such good use of that night. It would be such an intense, bittersweet moment of release.
 
Stay strong....it will get even more intense the longer you resist the urge to touch....
touching will in effect end the whole thing....!

Yes, it would get more intense the longer you held out....but damn.

How long do you think you'd be able to hold out David? :)
 
How long? Oh god, who knows....
COuld be 30 seconds....would like to think I could last at least two sessions!
 
Two people (let's say a man and a woman, but it could easily be a same sex couple) are both frustrated with their own marriages, both lust for one-another, but both are unsure of how far they're willing to go. They crave the connection, but fear what an affair would do to their marriages. Both enjoy masturbation, but tire of doing alone without a connection to another person. So they decide to enter into a mutual masturbation arrangement, but come up with a contract. This contract has two simple rules:

1. Absolutely no touching.
2. If either partner intentionally violates rule 1, then rule 1 is suspended for the rest of that session, but it will be the last time they ever meet.
(The idea behind these rules is that they prevent this from becoming what they're both uncomfortable with: a real, ongoing, physical affair).

At the beginning they simply watch and tease one another, or watch some porn together, but eventually they start to push one another... she straddles his face, poised just above his mouth as she masturbates, not touching him but so close that he can smell her rich, delicious scent and almost taste her. Daring him to flick out his tongue and taste her, testing her own limits, resisting the urge to just grind down on his face. Another time, she spreads her legs and he climbs above her, his body poised over hers as he strokes his cock, each stroke matching the rhythm with which she thrusts a dildo into herself, their bodies so close that they can feel one-another's warmth. And he wants so desperately to plunge himself inside of her. But each know that to violate their own rules means the end of their affair. The rules and limits, essentially, become the fetish. They can explore bondage, roleplay, public play, all the while staying just inside their rules. Can they go on like that indefinitely, or will they eventually succumb, spend one night enjoying the pleasures of one-another's bodies, and then, as agreed in their contract, never meet again?

Personally, I think there's something both beautiful and tragic to this arrangement: they agree that either they'll go on forever with a strong emotional and psychological connection but never explore one another's bodies, or they'll be lovers, in the truest sense of the word, exactly once.

So how about it, married people? Would you ever agree to such a contract? Do you think you could carry on indefinitely, or would you give in sooner or later?
As a married man, I've been developing this fantasy in my mind, and I get pretty excited by both the sexual and emotional elements to it. I love their limits becoming a fetish of its own.

How fantastic...imagine the intensity of the affair if they could carry on for months...years..?? I don't know..on the one hand, it seems beautiful in the intensity of the passion..on the other hand...at least as you get older...maybe life is just too short not to go for it..intriguing..:rose:
 
Sounds Sexy!

I'm not married but if i had a "contract" like this with a guy i would consider it having an affair
 
Sounds Sexy!

I'm not married but if i had a "contract" like this with a guy i would consider it having an affair
That's because you're not married...though, in truth, you'd be right
"emotional affairs" happen all the time
 
I've been thinking again about this fantasy a lot over the last couple days, and wanted to give it a little bump.

Let's say you were involved in such an agreement... how would you try to tempt the other person? What would you do to try to make the other person say 'fuck it, I can't hold back anymore.'

I'm thinking about using an icecube, sliding it across my partner's skin without touching her. Holding it between my lips and as my partner opens her mouth, I let go, so that the icecube slips down into her mouth. Then I lay back, my lips parted, and wait for her to do the same... back and forth we go, exchanging the icecube between lips that are so close but not touching, until it is nothing more than cool water. And then more icecubes, teasing each other's bodies until we're wet and cool and completely sensitive and so desperate for the warming feeling of skin against our own.
 
The whole thing sounds amazingly tantalising but I don't think I could spend so much time with somebody i lusted after without at least wanting to share long passionate kisses.
 
Two people (let's say a man and a woman, but it could easily be a same sex couple) are both frustrated with their own marriages, both lust for one-another, but both are unsure of how far they're willing to go. They crave the connection, but fear what an affair would do to their marriages. Both enjoy masturbation, but tire of doing alone without a connection to another person. So they decide to enter into a mutual masturbation arrangement, but come up with a contract. This contract has two simple rules:

1. Absolutely no touching.
2. If either partner intentionally violates rule 1, then rule 1 is suspended for the rest of that session, but it will be the last time they ever meet.
(The idea behind these rules is that they prevent this from becoming what they're both uncomfortable with: a real, ongoing, physical affair).

At the beginning they simply watch and tease one another, or watch some porn together, but eventually they start to push one another... she straddles his face, poised just above his mouth as she masturbates, not touching him but so close that he can smell her rich, delicious scent and almost taste her. Daring him to flick out his tongue and taste her, testing her own limits, resisting the urge to just grind down on his face. Another time, she spreads her legs and he climbs above her, his body poised over hers as he strokes his cock, each stroke matching the rhythm with which she thrusts a dildo into herself, their bodies so close that they can feel one-another's warmth. And he wants so desperately to plunge himself inside of her. But each know that to violate their own rules means the end of their affair. The rules and limits, essentially, become the fetish. They can explore bondage, roleplay, public play, all the while staying just inside their rules. Can they go on like that indefinitely, or will they eventually succumb, spend one night enjoying the pleasures of one-another's bodies, and then, as agreed in their contract, never meet again?

Personally, I think there's something both beautiful and tragic to this arrangement: they agree that either they'll go on forever with a strong emotional and psychological connection but never explore one another's bodies, or they'll be lovers, in the truest sense of the word, exactly once.

So how about it, married people? Would you ever agree to such a contract? Do you think you could carry on indefinitely, or would you give in sooner or later?
As a married man, I've been developing this fantasy in my mind, and I get pretty excited by both the sexual and emotional elements to it. I love their limits becoming a fetish of its own.

I'm married and would love such an arrangement! Mutual masturbation has always been a big turn on for me. I think I could have such arrangement for quite a while. I would enjoy the smell and sight of the wet pussy, and the fact that she is watching me and enjoys that is enough to arouse me. I would still have my wife to have physical contact with, and tell what I have done.
 
mmmm No I wouldn't enter into such a contract. To enter that kind of contract, the desire to explore each other is already there. So I really hate to set myself up just to fail ;)

The tragedy lays in the fact that they are both married to partners with low to no libido, and they themselves are still so very sexual :devil: and they are quite aware of each other.
 
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