The male G-Spot, and anal play - woman to man.

[Guest]

Hello, I am not quite sure on where to start....My husband and I have been together for over 6 years, and while our sex life is good I feel it probably needs a bit of 'spice'. I think my husband may enjoy a bit of anal play; as in I have inserted my finger into his ass a couple of times - the first time I did it he said that it was unbelievable and that it was the best cum he had ever had but he doesn't always enjoy it.
The thing is I have read somewhere that the male g-spot is the prostrate gland which is in the anus, where exactly is it?
Another question is how do I go about introducing him to more anal play? I am turned on by touching him anally, and I think that he enjoys it probably more than he is saying but he feels that it is 'wrong' to be straight and enjoy it. I also think that I would like to for him to touch me there sometimes too?
I also want to know what I should do or not do to make it more pleasurable for him? I am worried about hurting him, although I am always gentle and use a lot of lubricant; also starting lovemaking with a massage so he is relaxed but his hangups on enjoying 'the forbidden' make it uncomfortable for him sometimes.
Can anyone help me please.

 

[Natalie Nessus]

Hmm, I will take this seriously.

First of all, it is prostate - and you can use this to stimulate your man. Some Dommes (*smile*) use this to 'milk' male subs so they do not enjoy the orgasm but ejaculate without pleasure! It is a walnut sized object you can find through the anus - you must lube, cut your fingernails ) ) and you will find it. A few light touches,perhaps?

I suggest you take control of your husband - he desires it, I'm sure Sensual music, aromatic candles and a strap-on? Heavenly for me, don't know about him but who cares.

 

[MissVictoria]

A nice suprise for your husband would be extending the last few seconds before orgasm. My own claims that this practice significantly increases the intensity of his orgasm.

You can do this by applying pressure to his perineum. This is the area of skin that is located between the scrotum and anus in males, and between the posterior vulva junction and the anus in females. It is a slightly raised spot that you would see if he were standing slightly open legged, and you lifted his scrotum.

Apply firm pressure to this spot, when he is about to reach orgasm.

See, I actually learned something interesting in nursing school!